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    1st civil unions take place in Delaware

    More than 400 people, including a U.S. senator, witnessed the first same-sex civil union in Delaware on New Year's Day.

    Lawyers Lisa Goodman and Drewry Fennell were joined in the union by the Rev. Patricia Downing, rector of Trinity Episcopal Church in Wilmington, where the Sunday afternoon ceremony took place.

    Goodman and Fennell have been partners for 14 years. Goodman is a lawyer who led the advocacy group Equality Delaware's fight for the civil union law. Fennell heads the state Criminal Justice Council and formerly led the ACLU's Delaware chapter.

    U.S. Sen. Chris Coons, D-Del., delivered the sermon and Lt. Gov. Matt Denns read scripture.

    "We felt so lifted up by everyone who was there," Goodman said by phone as she and Fennell were riding to their home after the ceremony and reception.

    Delaware Gov. Jack Markell signed the law authorizing civil unions in May. Delaware is one of about a dozen states that allow either civil unions or marriages for same-sex couples.

    Neighboring Maryland is preparing for a renewed fight over a same-sex marriage proposal, with Democratic Gov. Martin O'Malley promising his full support for the measure in the coming legislative session.

    In Delaware, observers of the Sunday ceremony said it went off without a hitch.

    "Everything went perfect, I couldn't be happier, everything was flawless," said Ken Boulden Jr., the New Castle County Clerk of the Peace. Boulden opened his office on Sunday so that Goodman and Fennell and seven other couples could get their licenses on the first day they were available. Boulden was a guest at the Goodman-Fennell ceremony.

    Calling the event a "lovefest," Boulden said the good weather meant even heaven was smiling down upon the couple.

    "It was a great way to begin the new year," he said.

    Downing said she has known Goodman and Fennell for about four years and that the couple crafted a service to reflect their relationship. "I'm full of pride and joy and extremely happy and excited that this could happen in Delaware," Downing said.

    The couple had a choir that performed hymns and Christmas carols, one in Spanish, because the church has a Spanish-speaking congregation.

    Goodman said that when the congregation gave the couple a standing ovation after the union was pronounced, "I was afraid to turn around because I was afraid I might cry."

     
    • stocky  •  Vernon, Texas  •  4 mths ago
      I love coming on these comment boards and watching everyone commenting about the subject, some in a positive way, some in a negative way. The funny thing is, we are all fussing to a concrete wall. When we leave this comment board, we will all go right back to the same ideas we had before we sat down to read others' comments and give a rebuttal on it. When we leave this comment board, nobody will have changed their minds one way or another. The gays arguing will not change the straights minds, nor will the straights have changed any gays' minds. We all might as well be talking to the wind, it will not matter one bit. But I still love coming to these boards, reading what opinions everyone has and commenting on them too. It makes my day a bit more cheerful. lmao!
      • Ilex_attenuata 4 mths ago
        I'm straight and I'm for gay marriage. I don't ever plan to have one, as I'm not gay, but I don't mind other people having them. But, you're right: there's no argument that can be delivered via text on a yahoo news article that will change anyone's mind on such a highly contested subject. Nice comment, very meta ;)
      • Pirogue 4 mths ago
        You are right that there are a lot of minds that won't be changed but there are a lot of people who do not have hard set opinions about this issue and who do have open minds and will have their opinions moved slowly in one direction or the other. These are the ones I write my comments to reach in the hope they will see my side of the argument.

        And you should understand that society will never improve if there are not people who are willing to discuss the issues even if the other side seems dead set in their ways and even if some people get tired of listening. If no one was willing to take a stand America would still have legal racial segregation and women would not have the right to vote. But things don't happen overnight and general opinion does not change with a few posts on Yahoo. It takes time.

        People who who shy away from discussion of controversial issues because they think it such efforts are useless are, In my humble opinion, part of the problem.

        By the way, it's not the gays arguing against the straights. It is the people who recognize an idea whose time has come arguing against those who are trying to hold back the tide of history just as like-minded people did when it was clear to reasonable people that segregation was an evil policy or that women should have the right to vote.
      • A Yahoo! User 4 mths ago
        I agree with everything you wrote with the exception of the last paragraph. I do not object to gays getting married. I object to anyone in this day and age getting married. Why bother?
    • Kim  •  4 mths ago
      Does it ever say marriage or is it just civil union?
      • Foufana 4 mths ago
        Civil union is an attempt to legitimize that which is not nor ever can be legitimate.
      • Peridot 4 mths ago
        Civil union is when two people have invested time, love, usually a home, and other assets together. It gives one partner the right to visit the other in ICU, if needed, to make end-of-life decisions, to be heir to the estate and/or life insurance that both have invested in and, often, prevents the survivor's family taking away everything that he/she has worked for when one of the partners dies. It is a civil, not a religious, ceremony. I have trouble with the idea of actual marriage, but a civil union makes lots of sense when two people have shared their lives and finances. If nothing more, it is a smart business decision that protects both parties.
      • Foufana 4 mths ago
        peridot. that would be okay if were just that and not a sexual relationship.
    • Christopher R  •  Fulton, Mississippi  •  4 mths ago
      Yep ... Time to play more Battlefield 3 !!
    • Joe KIDD  •  Reno, Nevada  •  4 mths ago
      Gay marriage is a untapped resource for our nations divorce lawyers.
      • Jeremy 4 mths ago
        Isn't that the truth!
      • ThorneE 4 mths ago
        Why not? Isn't that what you straights already ran dry?
      • LesbinAmerican 4 mths ago
        cuz 60% and rising just isn't good enough, eh ho...i mean joe?
    • Frank_Michigan  •  Southgate, Michigan  •  4 mths ago
      Delaware, such a liberal State.
    • CYMRU AM BYTH  •  North Wales, Pennsylvania  •  4 mths ago
      ah gotta love the states - such uproar for a right we have as standard - the right to lose half ya #$%$ in the divorce.
      • A Yahoo! User 4 mths ago
        If you dont say I do then you dont have anything to worry about losing.
      • Jason 4 mths ago
        exactly
      • RhajhaW 4 mths ago
        lol
    • Josie Buchanan  •  Fayetteville, North Carolina  •  4 mths ago
      and as usual when people cannot back up their statements with fact they resort to throwing out the old reliable stones of hate and hypocritics. As well as blaming one political faction against another. If you cannot support your statement without resorting to stuff like this then you already have lost the argument.
    • Prez Obama  •  4 mths ago
      Drew Fennell is partner to Lisa Goodman, but Drew Fennell is marrying Patricia Goodman, and only Patricia Goodman? Is this marriage between all three, or only two?
    • VanEthics  •  Miami, Florida  •  4 mths ago
      Don't like gay marriage? Get over it. The sanctity of marriage went out the window as soon as $75 could get you married in Vegas by an Elvis impersonator. The tradition of marriage is a tradition of redefining it as society progresses. The right to deny marriage to same-sex couples ended the moment that the government became involved and gave it civil rights/privileges/responsibilities.
    • Pocc  •  4 mths ago
      The institution of marriage is sacred and must be protected. That's why the divorce rate is over 50%....
    • RedLeg6  •  4 mths ago
      A civil union performed by a Reverend?
    • Mr. Fred  •  Nashville, Tennessee  •  4 mths ago
      All of the gays must be North of the Mason-Dixon line, because all the states approving gay marriages are Northern states with the exception of California.
    • .  •  Jacksonville, Florida  •  4 mths ago
      Over population will be taken care of by global warming, disease, war, famine etc... that is natures way.
    • .  •  Jacksonville, Florida  •  4 mths ago
      Marriage is a set of priviledged rights for a prescribed behavior, just like a drivers license is.
      No state is required to have marriage laws. If they didnt have marriage laws, the Supreme Court could care less. The Supreme Court wouldnt do a thing about it.
      If the State decided to ban you from living together that is quite different, but that isnt marriage.
    • joseph  •  4 mths ago
      It was amusing to dismantle the anti-homosexual crowd on here
    • Graciela Travieso  •  Homestead, Florida  •  4 mths ago
      I am a lesbian. I want to marry the woman I been living and loving for more than 20 years. You will not be with us when we go to the Court and file for a Marriage License. You will not be invited to our celebration. Since we do not believe in you church, nor your good, nor your religion; we will not be holding our wedding ceremony in a Bible/Jesuschrist believing Church.

      Can you tell me now how does this have anything to do with you since you are not affected in any way.

      Just because you fear and hate gay doesn't mean gay people have an agenda or want to be treated different. I want just to protect my show my infinite love to my partner for more than 20 years and legally and financially be protected under the laws (laws that you can enjoy but I can’t because I’m not married).
    • Simba  •  4 mths ago
      And heterosexuals used think that:
      The universe revolved around the earth
      and Gods lived in mountains
      and women determined the sex of the child
      and a man's masculinity is defined by the number of children he has
      and women love it when a man dumps a load in her, over and over again
      and girls could get pregnant from river nymphs and ................
      It is really embarrassing how long it takes them to understand anything.......
    • Ray Finkle  •  4 mths ago
      Homosexuality is a mental disorder created by people with serious social problems.
      Do you see those people in the pictures above. They just don't look right. They just
      look like they have something wrong with them. They definately have some kind of
      chemical imbalance going on inside their heads and it needs to be cured. Any man
      who can stick their D*** inside another mans s#!Ty ar_se hole has some serious
      mental problems and that's all that's to it.
    • Marc  •  Dallas, Texas  •  4 mths ago
      At the outset, I will say that I am a conservative, married, church-going Christian. But I must say that I am ashamed to be associated with some people who profess to be "Christians" who constantly spew out hate and hurtful statements towards their fellow human beings. Christianity is about loving one's neighbor as one's self, and not "casting a stone" at someone.

      I don't know if homosexuality is a sin or not, but even if it is, it is way down the pecking order of sins that we humans are guilty of. I am sure that God is much more concerned with sins like hate and violence, than who someone chooses to love. And until any man or woman can say that their house is 100% clean and pure, what right do they have to pass judgment on someone else? Let's all just live and let live, and leave the judging to God!
    • littlecat  •  Madison, Wisconsin  •  4 mths ago
      When a nations morals collapse the nation will follow.
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