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    285 Indian girls shed 'unwanted' names

    MUMBAI, India (AP) — More than 200 Indian girls whose names mean "unwanted" in Hindi have chosen new names for a fresh start in life.

    A central Indian district held a renaming ceremony Saturday that it hopes will give the girls new dignity and help fight widespread gender discrimination that gives India a skewed gender ratio, with far more boys than girls.

    The 285 girls — wearing their best outfits with barrettes, braids and bows in their hair — lined up to receive certificates with their new names along with small flower bouquets from Satara district officials in Maharashtra state.

    In shedding names like "Nakusa" or "Nakushi," which mean "unwanted" in Hindi, some girls chose to name themselves after Bollywood stars such as "Aishwarya" or Hindu goddesses like "Savitri." Some just wanted traditional names with happier meanings, such as "Vaishali," or "prosperous, beautiful and good."

    "Now in school, my classmates and friends will be calling me this new name, and that makes me very happy," said a 15-year-old girl who had been named Nakusa by a grandfather disappointed by her birth. She chose the new name "Ashmita," which means "very tough" or "rock hard" in Hindi.

    The plight of girls in India came to a focus after this year's census showed the nation's sex ratio had dropped over the past decade from 927 girls for every 1,000 boys under the age of 6 to 914.

    Maharashtra state's ratio is well below that, with just 883 girls for every 1,000 boys — down from 913 a decade ago. In the district of Satara, it is even lower, at 881.

    Such ratios are the result of abortions of female fetuses, or just sheer neglect leading to a higher death rate among girls. The problem is so serious in India that hospitals are legally banned from revealing the gender of an unborn fetus in order to prevent sex-selective abortions, though evidence suggests the information gets out.

    Part of the reason Indians favor sons is the enormous expense of marrying off girls. Families often go into debt arranging marriages and paying for elaborate dowries. A boy, on the other hand, will one day bring home a bride and dowry. Hindu custom also dictates that only sons can light their parents' funeral pyres.

    Over the years, and again now, efforts have been made to fight the discrimination.

    "Nakusa is a very negative name as far as female discrimination is concerned," said Satara district health officer Dr. Bhagwan Pawar, who came up with the idea for the renaming ceremony.

    Other incentives, announced by federal or state governments every few years, include free meals and free education to encourage people to take care of their girls, and even cash bonuses for families with girls who graduate from high school.

    Activists say the name "unwanted," which is widely given to girls across India, gives them the feeling they are worthless and a burden.

    "When the child thinks about it, you know, 'My mom, my dad, and all my relatives and society call me unwanted,' she will feel very bad and depressed," said Sudha Kankaria of the organization Save the Girl Child. But giving these girls new names is only the beginning, she said.

    "We have to take care of the girls, their education and even financial and social security, or again the cycle is going to repeat," she said.

     
    • Ballay  •  Råwalpindi, Pakistan  •  15 days ago
      Hateful grandfather who gave the name NAKUSHI or NAKUSA meaning unwanted
    • Rain  •  Riyadh, Saudi Arabia  •  1 mth 25 days ago
      What is this?
    • whatever  •  4 mths ago
      unwanted? how do they think thier sons will be able to provide them with grandchildren? I hope they all chose a good name and know they are wanted and worthwhile. No child should ever be told they were unwanted.
    • dang! i didn't know ...  •  Los Angeles, United States  •  4 mths ago
      For a country that widely believes in karma, calling a girl Nakusa is contradictory.
    • Rithika  •  4 mths ago
      im an indian girl and i find this hard to believe. namin ur daughter nakushi is jus sick. they should be happy that they have a child in the first place. i hope that these girls achieve their highest hopes and dreams one day.
    • kelly s  •  4 mths ago
      You really have to be an A hole to name any kid "unwanted". God bless these girls.
    • Someone  •  4 mths ago
      Who would name their child "unwanted"? That's just horrible.
    • InsertNameHere  •  Providence, United States  •  4 mths ago
      Do male-dominated societies realize that they need women to reproduce? I think that this fact alone should put women in a higher honor. So many places hate women and girls - sometimes going as far as killing them (China did that for a while not too long ago. I don't know if they still do).

      The human race is about reproduction. Men and women are equally responsible for procreation, therefore they should be held in equal respect! It is not the child's fault that she is female, so don't make her feel badly and unwanted because of her sex!
    • truth  •  4 mths ago
      In india a cow is considered sacred but a woman is considered a burden? what's this world coming to
    • AJ  •  4 mths ago
      My wife and I could not have kids naturally. It took some intervention from some – ironically – Indian doctors to help bring our daughter into the world. I cannot fathom the selfishness in naming her ‘unwanted’ simply because she isn’t a boy. There are thousands of childless couples out there who would give that girl an excellent life and make her feel very wanted.
    • xena  •  Reno, United States  •  4 mths ago
      Keep selecting for boy babies, sexist parents. In 15-16 years, it will be the 'unwanted' girls choosing from a plethora of potential mates. And a lot of those selected-for boys will have to do without wives.
    • Jaye  •  4 mths ago
      that is so sad it's not the girls fault that their mother became pregnant... I'm so happy that they got a chance to have their names changed everybody should have a good life no matter where they were born or in what order they are born.... may god bless them
    • Dogluver  •  Richardson, United States  •  4 mths ago
      Outlawing dowrys might be a good start.
    • Mary Anne  •  4 mths ago
      My parents were 4th generation Americans and the entire time I was growing up I was always told in large and small ways being first born female was a disappointment to them, there would never be resources to further educate me as my brother would be their priority.I was expected to marry and get out of the picture. Instead I just left. I don't have one memory or photograph where I was held affectionately or being played with as a child. This b_s goes on right here as well as India, Japan, China, Arabia, Africa, South America. Economics and ignorance go hand in hand everywhere women are not valued. Women still earn far less and have fewer opportunities in the home and workplace in the good old 'USA'.
    • Thommy  •  Canonsburg, United States  •  4 mths ago
      I'm glad that these girls are getting a new name. I couldn't imagine having a name that meant unwanted. Hopefully, this is a small step (for them) for rising up against gender discrimination.
    • Ariesmoon  •  Rockford, United States  •  4 mths ago
      Sure is gonna suck to be the parents of one of the 'extra' boys... no incoming dowry, no chance of marriage, and no grandkids for you. Put that under your funeral pyre and light it.
    • Whomp-Whomp  •  Los Angeles, United States  •  4 mths ago
      And American kids think they have it tough.
    • Debra  •  Richardson, United States  •  4 mths ago
      How wonderful!! A new beginning for these girls!! YOU GO GIRLS!!
    • Jim  •  Annandale, United States  •  4 mths ago
      Fortunately, God knows their true names and I'm sure that not one of them would translate into "unwanted". May this event help these girls to realize that they have genuine value!
    • TRUTH  •  4 mths ago
      OMGosh... Thats insain, no Love at all in the hearts of who named their child unwanted... I wouldn't want them for parents either!!!
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