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    Critics say that new Michigan anti-bullying bill actually condones bullying

    There's nothing like a good culture war conflict to produce unintended consequences--as when, for example, so-called zero tolerance school policies fail to improve safety and sometimes correlate with spikes in the very behavior education officials want to curb.

    But a new bill wending its way through the Michigan legislature may represent a new landmark in culture-war legislating: It has acquired a last-minute amendment that deliberately seeks to undermine the legislation's stated purpose.

    The measure is supposed to enact new restraints on bullying in Michigan schools; it's known as Matt's Safe School Law, named for Matt Epling, a 14-year-old Michigan student who committed suicide after sustained bullying from fellow students. But before the state Senate approved the bill, Republicans in the chamber added an amendment stipulating that it does not abridge First Amendment free speech rights or impinge on the expression of religious or moral views.

    Partisans in the religious-secular wings of culture combat can, of course, weigh in on the question of whether religious and moral traditions condone bullying--but that's not the point of this particular legislative maneuver. As Amy Sullivan, a Time magazine columnist on the religion-and-politics beat, explains:

    Michigan is already one of only three states in the country that have not enacted any form of anti-bullying legislation. For more than a decade, Democrats in the state legislature have fought their Republican colleagues and social conservatives such as Gary Glenn, president of the American Family Association of Michigan, who referred to anti-bullying measures as "a Trojan horse for the homosexual agenda." In that time, at least ten Michigan students who were victims of bullying have killed themselves.

    This year, Republicans only agreed to consider an anti-bullying measure that did not require school districts to report bullying incidents, did not include any provisions for enforcement or teacher training, and did not hold administrators accountable if they fail to act. And they fought back Democratic attempts to enumerate particular types of students who are prone to being bullied, such as religious and racial minorities, and gay students. But it was the addition of special protections for religiously-motivated bullying that led all 11 Democratic senators to vote against the legislation they had long championed.

    The new provision reflects a longstanding belief among social conservatives that legal efforts to curb hate speech and bullying actually target the body of beliefs in various faith traditions that castigate homosexual behavior. In similar disputes over federal legislation, Sullivan notes, social conservative lawmakers and interest groups "unsuccessfully fought for the inclusion of a provision protecting religious freedom when Congress expanded the definition of a hate crime to include crimes motivated by a victim's sexual orientation. They also strongly oppose legislation that would prevent discrimination against gay individuals in the workplace, charging that such a law would endanger religious freedom."

    Michigan's amended bill drew sharp rebukes from anti-bullying activists and Democrats in the state senate. Matt Epling's father, Kevin Epling wrote a letter of protest that state Sen. Glenn Anderson read on the chamber floor during the debate over the measure on Wednesday. "I am ashamed that this could be Michigan's law on anti-bullying when in fact it is a 'bullying is OK in Michigan' law." Senate Democratic leader Gretchen Whitmer echoed the same point in an emotional floor speech, which you can watch in the video clip above.

    "Here today, you claim to be protecting kids, and you're actually putting them in more danger," Whitmer said. "You may be able to pat yourself on the back today and say that you did something, but in actuality, you're explicitly outlining how to get away with bullying."

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    • Disappointed  •  Cadiz, United States  •  6 mths ago
      I am a retired educator. I always tried to teach my students to walk away or stand up for themselves, report the bullying immediately, and defend others who were being bullied. As a last resort I told the students to fight back if they were physically attacked. The bullied students were always hesitant to fight because they did not want to be suspended from school. I assured them that a few days suspension was far better than allowing the bullying to continue. Bullies do not want to pick on people who will fight back. Parents thanked me and principals chastised me. I did not care that I was chastised. Sometimes you need to fight to rectify a wrong. Worked for me when I was in 8th grade with 2 separate bullies. I am female. One bully was male and one was female. No problems after that!

      I think it is shameful that some parents do not discipline their children or teach them right from wrong. It is also shameful that laws must be enacted because parents refuse to do their jobs. We are so busy trying to be politically correct that common sense and decency have fallen by the wayside.
      • ponyo 6 mths ago
        Amen sista, PREACH!!!!
      • scott b 6 mths ago
        teachers and administrators just let it go on. i used to get in trouble with my principal for what he called interference in their private conversations because i would tell them to be quiet if they started bullying anyone. its not the kids fault its the parents and the administrators for allowing it to go on. if we need legislation then our society is finished
      • Bob Phantom, the ghost wh ... 6 mths ago
        had that problem when i was little. got out of the service,legally carry a 9mm. never had another prob.
    • Ali  •  Albany, United States  •  6 mths ago
      My son's middle school has a zero tolerance policy in place for fighting. He called me on his cell phone from the restroom one day last year and said that if I didn't come and pick him up he was going to get in a fight. Two boys were picking on him during PE and they got into a shoving match. I emailed his homeroom teacher to see if he could stop the fight from happening and my son promply wound up in the principals office with the other two boys. All 3 of them received one day in ISS (in school suspension.) I told my son that I would never again call the school to stop a potential fight from happening. From now on he knows that he is not to start a fight but if someone shoves him or hits him, he is to beat the dog s**t out of them. We know he will wind up in ISS anyway, so may as well handle it himself.
      • Shipoopi 6 mths ago
        truth is, the schools are not interested in protecting kids.... only themselves (against any litigation).
      • Matthew R 6 mths ago
        @Shipoopi. I wish you were wrong. (clearly though, we are over-generalizing. I'm sure there are plenty of good schools/administrators/teachers....there are just so many bad ones. Sad.)
      • P 6 mths ago
        Good for you Ali! I've told both my kids the same thing, don't start it but if someone lays 1 finger on you, you have my full permission to know the S**T OUT OF THEM! And just know that you're going to be suspended and that's okay so you better make it worth your while!!
    • Who Me  •  6 mths ago
      I raised my son to always to treat other with kindness and tolerance and not to fight. Yet when the kids in a new school started to bully him I told him to walk away if he could BUT if ever cornered there was only one rule...................to be the last man standing. He was Not to start anything but if he had to he would finish it. He was a great kid in school but all it took was one time and the kids left him alone.
      • Sunni W 6 mths ago
        I have taught my kids the same thing. You treat everyone the way you want to be treated and if you are in a situation where you can't walk away because they won't let you then you stand up for yourself and you don't let them walk on you.
      • Christina Guevarra 6 mths ago
        Same thing happened to my ex-husband. The other kids didn't know he was a black belt, and yes, he was the last man standing and they never bothered him again.
      • Smiter 6 mths ago
        But thats not the flowers and hugs group think of modern schools. 'Cause talking things out ALWAYS solves conflict. lol

        I agree with you wholeheartedly Woof!
    • Penrod  •  Oakland, United States  •  6 mths ago
      I remember being severely bullied in school. Looking back on it, I should have just kicked whoever was pushing me around that day in the nuts, and had it over with. I did learn later in life though, that once you fight back, the bullying will immediately end.
      • Vance 6 mths ago
        Very well said. Excellent point!
      • Michael 6 mths ago
        I'm sorry that you never learned this early on but you are 100% correct and I hope you teach it to your children. Bullies always go for those who don't put up a fight because they have nothing to lose. As soon as you show that your willing to make it difficult to be bullied they will avoid you because your no longer an easy target and they have to work or possibly hurt themselves to continue.

        I'm sorry you never learned that lesson later on but I'm glad that you know it now and I hope you teach your children it in the future!
      • Gary 6 mths ago
        or your child will be put in the hospital or dead... whichever.
    • Marlin  •  Blairsville, United States  •  6 mths ago
      I'm a retired teacher and now it looks like states have to make laws requiring teachers and school administrators to do their job. A proficiently trained teacher knows how to identify and handle discipline and bullying. It is called, knowing and doing their job. Competent teachers know their students by name, they are able to observe abnormal behavior, and recognize the body language that indicates stress. Competent school administrators maintain a school policy directing students to school counselors and obtaining parental involvement. Legislation does not replace incompetence. Incompetence is replaced by proper training or people who have chosen to be competent.
      • Jonathan 6 mths ago
        You are quite right. Too bad school funding is usually the first to go when budgets are being cut. If we put half the money we spend on prisons towards a decent education, we would all be better off.
      • W 6 mths ago
        That's not their job. Teachers teach. This is a parents job or a cops job.
      • YOMAMMASDONG- 6 mths ago
        We have spent trillions on school In the last 3 decades and the scores have gone down. Money aint the problem, people are. Greedy teachers unions are the problem. They can't pay there retirees yet can afford millions for tv adds to support their flavor of the month. You speak of turning a blind eye to bullying, but the unions do the same thing in turning a blind eye on all the incompetent teachers and administrators.
    • Bearbut  •  6 mths ago
      Spin, spin, argue, distort facts, spin some more, call each other names……….I have seen second graders get along better than our politicians.
    • Dee  •  6 mths ago
      Instead of putting laws in place, why don't we raise our kids not to be arrogant heartless cruel selfish spoiled insensitive lil monsters? How about that idea? Geesh
    • Ryan  •  Red Bank, United States  •  6 mths ago
      How about instead of an anti-bullying law, come up with a "make a parent be a parent and teach their kids right from wrong" law? If people would step up and be parents, it would really solve a lot of the world's problems...
    • lynn  •  Meriden, United States  •  6 mths ago
      A few years ago my daughter was being bullied by another girl and that girls followers. They never touched her just made life hell for her. The school did nothing after several complaints. Finally I told my kid the next time she starts just punch her in the nose. Then she will leave you alone. My daughter replied with tears in her eyes "but I don't want to get in trouble". I spoke to the girls mother, who is apparently where she learned it. Left with no options I threatened the girl. She didn't like being bullied by me, but my kid got some peace and her grades improved. You might think i was wrong, but I was left with little choice. The schools can either do something about the bullies or let the kids fight. You can't do nothing then punish the victim.
    • integrator  •  Springdale, United States  •  6 mths ago
      Freedom of speech was intended to allow you to speak out against the government without fear of retribution (something you couldn't do against the King of England at the time). It wasn't intended for you to say anything anywhere anytime. It wasn't meant so you could walk down the street or through Target spouting obscenities or whatever. It wasn't meant so you could verbally harass or bully people, no matter what your beliefs. That wasn't what the founding fathers intended.
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      Freedom of religion was intended so that anyone could practive whatever religion they wanted, or none at all, instead of having to practice the ruling leaders religion or be persecuted. It was never intended so that you could harass or bully someone who's beliefs were different than yours, even if what they believed was considered a sin in your book. Your freedom is to practice or believe what you want, it was not intended as a freedom to judge. Using your religious beliefs to persecute is still religious persecution. Instead of being persecuted because of their religion, they are being persecuted because of yours.
    • Sahm  •  6 mths ago
      Want to stop bullying? Get rid of the zero tollerance policy! That is just an excuse for teachers and principals to not get to the root of the matter. They just punish both, out of sight out of mind I guess. Bully: low grades, skips school, doesn't care about punishment or suspension.
      Victim: cares about grades, goes to school, parents would skin him alive if he got suspended or expelled. Bully picks fight with victim. Victim has asked for help from teachers, only makes the bully cautious and meaner. Victim decides to fight back and get the bully to leave him alone. Teacher snatches them both up and sends them to office. Principal asks what happens but either doesn't care or knows he has to follow the rules or the super will be on him. Bully and victim get sent home. Bully enjoys vacation. Victim is punished by parents and is made even more miserable. Feeling there is nothing to say or do to make it stop he thinks of the gun in the safe.......
    • Donna  •  6 mths ago
      It is the parents responsibility to teach their children to be kind. And it is the parents fault when children follow their example and are rude, judgemental, and cruel. Cannot make laws to prevent mean people on the planet. I pity the kids today. Not many good role models out there who call themselves parents. Poor showing for the adults in our country.
    • Debbie S  •  Tampa, United States  •  6 mths ago
      "...special protections for religiously-motivated bullying..." - are they serious??? So you can bully if it's 'religious'??? How ridiculous. 'Bullying' is not excusable under any label.
    • B  •  Woonsocket, United States  •  6 mths ago
      My son has dyslexia and spends much of his time with few friends and by himself. He is very content and gentle child and a very good athlete. He was bullied ONCE and although he attempted to walk away the bully pursued him and made physical contact. My son elbowed him in the face, broke his nose, and knocked him to the ground, got on top of him and with one hand on the bully’s throat and the other clenched in a fist he explained that wasn’t to be touched. As a result my son was suspended and the parents are pursuing civil charges. I hung his suspension paperwork on the refrigerator and told my son I was proud of him and as far as I am concerned the parents of the bully can shove their charges up their arse. In today’s liberal society the victims are persecuted for doing the right thing while the perpetrators are exonerated and protected. Regardless no one has a right to put a hand on your child…another child or adult and your child has a right and obligation to protect themselves by any means available. Fight back…just because it is a law or rule doesn’t make it right.
    • Shipsayke  •  6 mths ago
      I am a Christian, but too many times I see so-called "Christians" focusing on certain areas of the Bible while forgetting the most important commandment (according to Jesus, equally as important as loving and honoring God) which is LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOU LOVE YOURSELF. We are supposed to love all others, regardless if they are sinners or different from ourselves. We are all sinners, so what makes these people think they are better than gays (if you believe that homosexuality is a sin anyway). A TRUE CHRISTIAN would be against bullying under any circumstances.
    • Deb  •  6 mths ago
      Kids from our generation DID commit suicide. Bullied kids just were more invisible back then. Families hushed it up out of shame. Of course some kids did pound the heck out of their tormentors and the bullying stopped...in today's society the bullied kid would get kicked out of school for doing that. Why should a kid have to put up with stuff that will be against the law when they are adults? Harassment is illegal, stalking is illegal, assault is illegal.. When we do not enforce the law, why do we wonder that kids grow up with no respect for the law? Sheesh.
    • Robert  •  Nashville, United States  •  6 mths ago
      My dad was in the US Air Force. I was always the new kid in school and got picked on. When I got into middle school,I started standing up for myself. I got suspended for it,but the kids quit picking on me,because I showed them I would fight back. Sometimes I won,sometimes I lost. I never thought about killing myself. Real christians wouldn't bully someone. There is a difference bullying and voiceing your opinion. There should be no protection for bully's. I'm a registered republican,but I tend to think for myself. I think that those that put the amendment in the bill should be replaced. I believe homosexuality is wrong because it's a sin,but I wouldn't bully someone because of my belief. I also believe all human beings are sinners and for me to bully someone for any reason would be sinful in the LORD's eyes. JESUS said,we are suppose to love one another as he loves us. I don't agree with atheists,but I also wouldn't bully them either. I was always taught we can discuss religion,but we aren't suppose to argue or fight over religion.
    • Martin  •  6 mths ago
      Nobody is trying to make it a crime to hold a particular belief. You can disagree with homosexuality all the live long day and won't get into any trouble. But when "disagree" turns into tease, push, hit, beat, choke, stab, kill...THEN it becomes a crime and must be stopped.
    • First L  •  6 mths ago
      Legislation won't work. The best course of action is to teach kids to fight back.
    • Claire N  •  6 mths ago
      This law doesn't just allow bullying for religious reasons, it allows bullying for any "moral conviction." So don't bully people unless you REALLY REALLY want to. That's a good, strict law.
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