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    Woman Conquers Fear by Meeting Facebook Friends Face to Face

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    What are you most afraid of? One woman's debilitating anxiety disorder is to blame for her fear of being in situations that are not easy to escape or embarrassing to do so. ArLynn Presser, a writer who lives in a suburb of Chicago, made a 2011 resolution to overcome her agoraphobia. How did she set do it? She decided over the course of a year that she would try to meet all 325 of her Facebook friends--in person.

    Chicago filmmaker Benjamin Gonzales, an acquaintance of Presser's, decided to chronicle her journey in a documentary titled, "Face to Facebook." Gonzales said he initially got involved because he was fascinated by Presser's attempt to make a "visual connection into something real." Presser said she rarely left her community or even her home for most of her adult life. Presser added that she was even afraid of getting on a plane. On December 31, 2010, Presser blogged about wanting to conquer her fear and planning to travel the world to meet her Facebook friends. Her trek took her on 39 flights to 13 different countries. She traveled to Canada, the Philippines, Germany, Italy, Dubai, India, and Ireland to name a few.

    Presser now says that the idea of doing what she once called "insanity" has not only helped her overcome agoraphobia, it has also given her new skill sets as well as acquainted her with 292 of her virtual friends. Among the new activities Presser experienced were riding in a motorcycle sidecar, learning to sing opera, training to be a bodyguard, and climbing a mountain in California. Most of her virtual friends welcomed the idea of meeting in person, but some people blocked or unfriended her. Presser says that social networking on sites such as Facebook helped her mask her agoraphobia. However, there were times when her anxiety was so acute that she was convinced she was having a heart attack. She would even go to the ER in the worst-case scenarios. Presser's advice to people trying to overcome their fears: "Do one brave thing a day, and then run like hell." Presser and Gonzales plan to release their joint video blog in the fall. To help them raise funding to finish their film, they started a Kickstarter Campaign with a goal of raising $15,000 by January 13. So far, they've raised just under $2,000.

    From one person bringing social networking to life to conquer her fears, to a media tycoon joining the Twitter nation and causing a public backlash all in the span of 24 hours.

    News Corp. Chairman and CEO Rupert Murdoch is the latest high-profile person to open a Twitter account, and in a matter of hours has already made his first gaffe. Murdoch joined Twitter on December 31, 2011, and quickly accumulated more than 85,000 followers. The media tycoon's tweets covered a number of topics, but there's one tweet in particular that stirred a public backlash. Murdoch's tweet read, "maybe Brits have too many holidays for broke country." A number of people in England expressed their outrage on Twitter. But the story does not end there. A reply that appeared to be from Murdoch's wife, Wendi Deng, tried to get him to delete the tweet. On January 1, a verified Deng account replied to Murdoch with the message, "RUPERT!!! delete tweet!" While Murdoch did delete the tweet, it was not because of his wife. Although several news outlets reported the account was real because of its verified status, the @WendiDeng handle set the record straight this morning, saying the account is fake and does not belong to Murdoch's wife.

     
    • uncle jj  •  4 mths ago
      39 flights to 13 different countries? Must be a successful writer.
      • L-Pop 4 mths ago
        nothing wrong with that. she could have taken domestic flights flying to different states within a country.
      • uncle jj 4 mths ago
        My point is 39 flights.... = $$
      • Wee 4 mths ago
        FYI, domestic flights can be dirt cheap.
    • A Yahoo! User  •  Arden, North Carolina  •  4 mths ago
      I also have Agoraphobia, suffering from this condition all my life and I was so happy to see that this lady had the courage to travel, Meet Friends she made on facebook that supported her & helped her overcome & face her fears. I have always been ashamed to tell my friends about me for fear people llike those leaving negative comments on here. If she is reading this, you are my new hero. I have also taken small Brave steps over the years to face my fears with the help of my Husband & doctors who are also my hero's. So happy for you & keep up the good work I could only dream of being that brave. Carley Simon, Kim Basinger, Paula Dean, Donnie Osmond, are just a few who had the nerve to come out and face their fears with this condition. The ones on facebook that de-friended you were never your Friends anyway, The ones that stuck around and helped were.
      • Gerald 4 mths ago
        Know the feeling. Been a semi-functioning shut-in for almost 30 years. This story gives me hope to escape my self-imprisonment someday. Good luck to all of us that suffer from this terrible affliction.
      • A Yahoo! User 4 mths ago
        Amen !!!
        I am in your corner, It is something we live with that others can't see, Just because it can't be seen doesnt mean it ins't real.
      • Scarlett65 4 mths ago
        Right there with you (so to speak)! Good for you BEB and Gerald! :)
    • nope.  •  4 mths ago
      I cannot believe so many people are being negative about this woman's goal. Good for her! I can somewhat relate to her even though I don't share her phobia. It sounds like a good goal for shy people as well.
    • AzHunyBuny  •  Lake Havasu City, Arizona  •  4 mths ago
      For people that don't suffer from Agoraphobia, they don't realize what an accomplishment this is. Good for you girl. It doesn't go away but you learn ways to live with your anxiety. Keep up the good work ArLynn.
      • Duffy Sinclair 4 mths ago
        I had agoraphobia when I was in my mid 20's, overcame it and haven't had a sign of it in about 20 years. Completely gone.
      • nope. 4 mths ago
        Good for her!
      • Princess Rapture 4 mths ago
        They don't understand, but that's a good thing. No one should have to live like I do.
    • Lanie  •  4 mths ago
      I just deleted my fakebook account. I found that once I friend people I was already friends with, they stopped actually talking to me via phone or in person. I just came to easy to only IM me. I began to miss their voices and their faces. Now if they want to talk to me, they have to call me. Same for my daughter that is off to college. We stopped talking on the phone and only communicated on Fakebook. Fakebook serves only to create more distance. And with it, a little more of our humanity goes with it.
      • PeterR 4 mths ago
        So so true. Well said, Gigi.
      • BG Wang 4 mths ago
        hi Gigi. what do you look like?
      • Lanie 4 mths ago
        Getting rid of Fakebook was the best I have ever done. @ John, are you hitting on me? lol You live on the other side of the country.
    • A  •  4 mths ago
      Maybe its just me... But I've already MET all of my "friends" on Facebook!
      • Cynthia 4 mths ago
        I was thinking the same thing. There is no one on my "Friends List' that I have not already met face-to-face!!
      • Rob1969 4 mths ago
        I've met almost all of my 420 friends, kind of a rule I have to meet people before adding them, with rare exception. Saves the embarrassment of being blocked when to ask to meet them! LOL
      • Retirement-bound 4 mths ago
        Just because you have seen their piture and chatted them by i-net does not mean you have "met" them. You can get a better feeling about someone by a real face-to-face meeting. Using your criteria, did you meet your lover or spouse the same way?
    • Castlet  •  Eugene, Oregon  •  4 mths ago
      This is GREAT News for the roughly 2.7-5.8% of the U.S. population between the ages of 18 and 54 who suffer from agoraphobia at any given time. Probably not newsworthy if you're not one of them.......but if you are......news like this gives hope for successful recovery. There IS a light at the end of the tunnel and in the end, life is that much richer for having gone through the experience. For those who are currently prisoners within their own lives: Hang in There; it really doesn't last forever. A very good resource for the path out is: "The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook" by Edwin Bourne, PhD.
    • riverrat  •  Watertown, Connecticut  •  4 mths ago
      Most of you people don't know how awful this disease is. You can overcome it.
    • Suzanne  •  Dickinson, Texas  •  4 mths ago
      I've never friended someone on facebook that I didn't already know...
    • TOO OLD  •  4 mths ago
      Happily, I have a life.
    • pink  •  San Francisco, California  •  4 mths ago
      Wait a minute why do you have that many friends if you don't even know them that well? Then there not your friends , they're your acquaintances.
    • Kyle  •  4 mths ago
      Dubai is not a country. United Arab Emirates is the country. Brush up on your geography, author.
    • Marty12  •  4 mths ago
      Is not interesting that she now has 1726 friends. Is she still going to meet them all. I doubt it.
    • Allan  •  Kitchener, Canada  •  4 mths ago
      Sounds to me like a pilot for a new .... REALITY TV SHOW ..........in reality ........it is giving reality a bad name....ha ha
    • wtf  •  Las Cruces, New Mexico  •  4 mths ago
      Wish I had the income and a job that would allow me to visit ALL of my Facebook friends
    • Zhan Haoran  •  4 mths ago
      Seeing so many people say that you must see someone and meet them face to face to be friends with them made me thing of this. If you must see someone face to face is required to be friends with them!!! How do people that are born bland get friends they never see there friend face to face?
    • Iguana  •  4 mths ago
      I have Ya-phobia -- fear of reading past the first paragraph of any Yahoo article because you know if you finish you can't 'unread' your way out of the shame of having wasted precious time on yet more Yahoo garbage.
      However, if keeping informed on the latest Kardashian hairdo is what you desire, Yahoo is the place!
    • Dr. GreenThumb  •  Boston, Massachusetts  •  4 mths ago
      This is news?
    • Californiagirl  •  San Diego, California  •  4 mths ago
      Yes, we've met all our friends on Facebook, but we don't always phone them or hang with them as often as we used to BEFORE Facebook, right? And what about tumbler or twitter. Anyone out there have 1,000+ followers? Did you ever try to meet them all? I think this woman is very brave, and very, very rich.
    • G MAN  •  4 mths ago
      wow so she meeting supposedly friends she met on facebook how can they be friends if she doesnt know them ,,,

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