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    Book depicts tensions between first lady, aides

    WASHINGTON (AP) — First lady Michelle Obama is a behind-the-scenes force in the White House whose opinions on policy and politics drew her into conflict with presidential advisers and who bristled at some of the demands and constraints of life as the president's wife, according to a detailed account of the first couple's relationship.

    New York Times reporter Jodi Kantor, in a book to be published Tuesday, portrays a White House where tensions developed between Mrs. Obama and former White House Chief of Staff Rahm Emanuel and former press secretary and presidential adviser Robert Gibbs.

    The Associated Press obtained a copy of the book, "The Obamas," Friday evening and The Times posted a 3,300-word adaption on its website that appeared to capture its most revealing accounts. The book is based on interviews with 30 current and former aides, though President Barack Obama and the first lady declined to be interviewed for the book.

    The book portrays Mrs. Obama as having gone through an evolution from struggle to fulfillment in her role at the White House but all the while an "unrecognized force" in pursuing the president's goals.

    She is seen publicly as the friendly and popular face of the softer side of the White House, the one reading to school kids or promoting exercise as a means to reduce child obesity.

    According to Kantor, early in 2010 as the president's health care agenda seemed in danger of collapsing, Mrs. Obama let it be known she was annoyed by how the White House was handling the strategy. After media reports indicated Emanuel was unhappy pursuing the health care overhaul, Emanuel offered to resign, Kantor wrote. The president declined the offer.

    By that spring, however, Kantor writes that Mrs. Obama "made it clear that she thought her husband needed a new team, according to her aides."

    Among the book's most provocative anecdotes, Kantor recounts a scene in which Gibbs, frustrated after tamping down a potential public relations crisis involving the first lady, exploded when presidential adviser Valerie Jarrett told him the first lady had concerns about the White House response to the flap. The initial commotion had been over an alleged remark by Michelle Obama to French first lady Carla Bruni-Sarkozy that living in the White House was "hell."

    Gibbs cursed the first lady, who was absent. Kantor writes that Gibbs later said his anger was misplaced and that he blamed Jarrett for creating the confrontation. Kantor writes that Jarrett appeared to have been too quick with her criticism of Gibbs and that two aides to the first lady later said Jarrett had misspoken.

    The White House had a cold reaction to the book, calling it an "over-dramatization of old news" and emphasizing that the first couple did not speak to the author, who last interviewed them for a magazine piece in 2009.

    "The emotions, thoughts and private moments described in the book, though often seemingly ascribed to the president and first lady, reflect little more than the author's own thoughts," White House spokesman Eric Schultz said. "These secondhand accounts are staples of every administration in modern political history and often exaggerated."

    The book, in an array of reconstructed anecdotes, depicts a first couple often wishing they could escape the confining White House life more freely; a president who at times gets deeply frustrated by how the press covers him; and a former chief of staff, Emanuel, who let loose with profane outbursts on staff members. All of those themes have been presented in some form in other publications.

    One incident recalled that Jarrett used a phone aboard Air Force One to call a New York Times reporter. The reporter was pursuing a story about how Obama's West Wing was essentially a big boys' club, and Jarrett was calling to argue that the premise of a male-dominated operation was overblown. The book says even though Jarrett was the one making the call, it was Obama himself who was managing the response to the Times' story even before it came out by "personally dictating talking points to the aides who would speak to the reporter."

    In another, the book describes how Obama, after winning a U.S. Senate seat and writing a best-selling book, "The Audacity of Hope," sought self-protection and privacy as he came to terms with his new fame. Some staffers came up with a word to describe times when the senator couldn't connect with people: "Barackward," a combination of "Barack" and "awkward."

    But despite the White House pushback to the book, Kantor also includes many positive portrayals of both Obamas as committed parents and a down to earth power couple who have not lost their perspective.

    Other revelations in the book:

    — Mrs. Obama initially chafed at life in the White House and for a short period before the inauguration had even mulled staying in Chicago in 2009 at least until the two Obama daughters completed their school session.

    — During the struggle to pass health care reform, Obama was committed to tackling the massive problem of rising health care costs despite the political costs. "Michelle and I are perfectly comfortable if we're only here one term if we feel like we really accomplished something," the book quotes the president as telling aides.

    — Despite her reticence in 2010 to campaign during the midterm elections, the book says Mrs. Obama now has no qualms about 2012. "Michelle had been playing it safe, storing up political capital, and now she wanted to spend it all on her husband's re-election campaign."

    ___

    Associated Press writers Ben Feller and Ken Thomas contributed to this report.

     
    • TicTac  •  4 mths ago
      Also if she thinks the White House is frustrating ......try being unemployed with no job prospects!!!!!
    • 56hornet  •  4 mths ago
      If she thinks her life is frustrating, she should try to live the privite life and deal with the idiots in government.
      • Michael 4 mths ago
        How about the idiots in the 'privite' life?
      • demanding 4 mths ago
        My facebook is set to privite.
      • A Yahoo! User 4 mths ago
        lolz
    • price  •  Cleveland, Ohio  •  4 mths ago
      it's bad there try being unemployed
      • Concerned 4 mths ago
        What??? You should be ashamed, read what you wrote and try again -smart person (right). Better still, don't.
      • NUNYA 4 mths ago
        Hopefully Barry and company will all find out what unemployment is...
      • thinkinthat 4 mths ago
        did you forget your meds this morning concerned??
    • John M., American  •  4 mths ago
      If she thinks it's bad there . . . She ought to see this crap from where WE are.
      • Karen 4 mths ago
        Amen brother, well said! I wished I was so downtrodden that I needed several top chefs, servants, chaffeurs, tailors, secretarys, and wine stewards! She's just a controlling elitist wench! We knew she was down on America before they were elected. Too many sheep voted for them!
      • Cpl. 4 mths ago
        Agreed I made one comment about how I didn't like her smile and when I went to defend my comment and stated I earned the right to say what I want sence I served in the USMC I got pounced on by a bunch of uneducated people.
      • Susan 4 mths ago
        But remember "SHE HAS GOOD ARMS"
    • Patrick  •  Cleveland, Ohio  •  4 mths ago
      Think life in the WH is tough lady - try unemployment
      • Just Visiting! 4 mths ago
        Her husband is about to find Unemployment!
      • Wayne 4 mths ago
        That is not a lady........
      • Unbelievable 4 mths ago
        You "try unemployment", Michelle's got a Harvard Law degree.
    • Bluedanube55  •  4 mths ago
      she says it is 'hell'? 'Hell'? try watching her vacation every other month and spend our money on her ladies in waiting'....now that is hell...
    • Mr DuckyWucky  •  4 mths ago
      oh boy, this is going to be a fun message board!!
      LOLOL!!!
    • j  •  4 mths ago
      We didn't vote for her.
    • Patrick  •  4 mths ago
      Barry's wifes white house frustrations are nothing compared to the american people's white house frustrations!
    • Behshahr  •  Miami, Florida  •  4 mths ago
      Believe my memory is correct, in that the president-elect was Mr. B.Obama, not Mrs.B.Obama; the only first lady status any presidents wife should have is being the wife, period. They don't need an overpaid, taxpayer supported multi-staff of secretaries and social event directors. She is his wife, not the queen.
    • RANCHO  •  4 mths ago
      If The First Lady has something to say about Administrations policy it should be taken up with her husband in private.
    • DAVID L  •  Lafayette, Louisiana  •  4 mths ago
      The eyes are the doorway to the soul... Look into hers. What do you see???
    • Pete in VA  •  Richmond, Virginia  •  4 mths ago
      Barack was elected, not Michelle.
    • J  •  Louisville, Kentucky  •  4 mths ago
      If you are an American NO OTHER coutry's name should be in front of the word American!
    • pamela  •  Seattle, Washington  •  4 mths ago
      "over dramatization of old news" yet blaming Bush is still current! Don't you just love politics!
    • The RiverMaster  •  Knoxville, Tennessee  •  4 mths ago
      Book sales are not that important when the US is going down the crapper, there are 90,000 brave men and women in harms way for no reason in Afghanistan, an election's coming and illegal immigrants outnumber the American Indians. I have a place for that book and it's not a bookshelf.
    • Right Side Only  •  4 mths ago
      When half of the people get the idea that they do not have to work because the other half is going to take care of them, and when the other half gets the idea that it does no good to work because somebody else is going to get what they worked for, that is the beginning of the end of any nation!
    • Penn  •  4 mths ago
      Records at the Attorney Registration and Disciplinary Commission of the Supreme Court of Illinois list her status as “voluntarily inactive and not authorized to practice law.”

      It further states that Michelle license is “on court ordered inactive status.”
    • Skeeter  •  Richardson, Texas  •  4 mths ago
      Another reason why they should all go,please let him be a 1 term president.
    • Jimmy  •  Richardson, Texas  •  4 mths ago
      We know who wears the pants in that family.
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