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    Brandon Marshall Reveals Struggle with Borderline Personality Disorder

    The Facts About BPD

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    Miami Dolphin Brandon Marshall recently brought his diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder into the open. According to Fox Sports Florida, the disorder has caused the athlete to struggle for most of his life; although he is an NFL star, his career and personal life have been falling apart.

    Marshall said he's been trying to get help for some time, but people just pegged him as another misbehaving athlete.

    Here are the facts about Borderline Personality Disorder, and the behaviors that led to Marshall's diagnosis.

    * BPD is a serious mental illness that follows a pattern of omnipresent instability of moods, interpersonal relationships, self-image, and impulse control.

    * The disorder manifests itself in angry outbursts as well as depression and anxiety that can last for an hour or an entire day.

    * Marshall has been involved in two domestic disputes that have ended in his arrest. On the football field, he said he felt like a "ticking time bomb." He said, "My actions and my behavior was inappropriate at times" and "there was a lot of conflict with me and the coaches, and the way I handled it was inappropriate."

    * People who are diagnosed with BPD often have an insecure sense of who they are. This leads to tumultuous relationships; in one moment they may idealize a person, and the next they feel hatred toward them.

    * Marshall stated that he feared his actions were about to ruin both his personal life and his NFL career. He commented, "I would have thrown away my career, and there was a good possibility my life. I'm still suffering from the consequences of this. Another reason why I am so passionate (about) it is because I may lose my wife still, and that hurts me."

    * According to the Mayo Clinic, people with BPD may be fully aware of their self-destructive behavior but feel unable to change it. They find that most areas of their lives are affected, including social relationships and work relationships.

    * The Miami Dolphins became especially concerned after the latest event between Marshall and his wife. The team stated he has had numerous domestic violence incidents within his past relationships with women, in addition to his current troubles, reports the Miami Herald.

    In April of this year, police were called to his home and charged his wife with stabbing Marshall in the stomach. He denies that it was her fault and said, "Out of the respect for my marriage and where we're at today, and my family, I will not go into any detail of any situation, but I want to make clear that my wife did not take a knife and stab me."

    * In order to get someone the help they need, sometimes an intervention is needed. In Marshall's case, his assistant and agent convinced him that he needed help.

    * Marshall flew to Boston's McLean Hospital, where he was finally diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. He says he wants to turn his life around for not only himself but for his wife and those around him.

     

    12 comments

    • Glenn  •  9 mths ago
      Mental illnesses are not made up. They are brain disorders. Don't be so quick to judge. I used to be a nurse and had a severe mental breakdown in 1995. Also, many elderly patients whom I took care of were often in psychosis from dementia or Alzheimer's due to the fact they were either neglected - or do-gooder associations wanted them off of pills...
    • Mike Myers  •  9 mths ago
      I've been working in the MH field for more than 20 years and I can't ever remember coming across an AA male with a BPD diagnosis. More often than not it's a white female (often lesbian) who tend to carry this disorder. AA males are most often diagnosed with Antisocial PD, which is more likely the case here with Mr. Marshall.
      • Gerald Sandusky 9 mths ago
        Homosexuality is a mental disorder in itself
      • Dubble Cheeze 9 mths ago
        And studies also show that AA males are often misdiagnosed with APD and psychotic disorders due to cultural differences.
    • Drey B  •  9 mths ago
      I have BPD and I know where he's coming from. Good luck, Brandon.
    • erin.  •  9 mths ago
      I was diagnosed at McLean with BPD in September of 09 after having the wrong diagnosis of bipolar I for 17 years and have been attending DBT groups there twice a week there ever since. I know about twenty straight women and two men from DBT, so I would have to say the lesbian comment is an opinion.
      I congratulate and wish Mr. Marshall the best of luck for this a lifelong struggle and not a "quack" disorder as some are commenting.
    • Gerald Sandusky  •  9 mths ago
      Blah blah blah...another made up mental disorder, constructed to line the pockets of pharmacies and psychiatrists (a.k.a. "quacks")
      • Lee 9 mths ago
        Obviously neither you nor anyone close to you has ever suffered from anything like this. I was skeptical, judgmental and cruel with my evaluation of my brother, when he was taken out of school to get his head right. And of my college roommate for being a shut in. Now I regret the way I handled those instances beccauseim dealing with something remarkably similar to Mr. marshalls case myself(hence the name train wreck, get it?), and I can barely leave the house. I used to love going to the gym, now I can hardly even go because of all the mirrors and people. I even brush my teeth in the dark so that I dont sit there and criticize myself into a depression. I am so worried about what others think about me that I actually make them feel that way because it is so obvious I am not comfortable in my own skin! I actually cause my paranoia to become reality! But like you said...Blah Blah Blah, right? Everyone should just be as incredibly wise and intelligent as you! Then all of our problems would be solved!
      • Gerald Sandusky 9 mths ago
        Get over yourself Trey Nek. Maybe if you would focus on a cause other than yourself, then you wouldn't be so pathetic.
      • Dubble Cheeze 9 mths ago
        Made up? I guess diabetes is made up because it was given a name. I guess heart disease was made up because it was given a name too. All medical and mental health disorders have to be decided upon by some panel. Once a medical or mental health association has determined the symptoms and behaviors, it is studied through "science", and entered into a medical or mental health journal. Why do you eat a low fat diet? "SCIENCE" shows it's healthy. Why does it not apply to matters of the mind? To be honest, you sound like someone that has been diagnosed with some type of personality disorder. At least his life will improve. You will probably continue to blame society and live a miserable life: your death will be celebrated because your family, and the few, friends you have will feel relieved that they no longer have to deal with you dysfunctional behavior. If you're not as stupid as you appear to be, give scientific facts supporting your stance. If you just write off science you will just show your ignorance.
    • ButkusGirl  •  9 mths ago
      I also wish Brandon Marshall the best of luck controlling this illness and commend him for his courage coming forward about it.
    • ButkusGirl  •  9 mths ago
      I know it's less common, but BPD is not unheard of in males. When researching info in how to deal with the BPD who latched onto my boyfriend and we cannot get her out of our lives (intense avoidance of anything that even remotely feels like rejection is another common characteristic), I found many first-hand accounts of women who were trying to get dangerously BPD men out of their lives. Remember Fatal Attraction? That's one manifestation of BPD and I am here to tell you it is not made up.
    • matthew  •  9 mths ago
      I wish him the best and hope he can turn his life around as I am trying to do. BPD can get in the way of human relationships, something I struggle with everyday and money or success can't fix that.
    • Ryan  •  9 mths ago
      GOOD JOB BRANDON! with dealing with the problems you have and im going to pray for you.... Lets win the SuperBowl this year buddy!
    • iliketohavefun  •  9 mths ago
      Good for him
    • Sir Charles  •  9 mths ago
      At least he's getting help...In my opinion, Floyd Mayweather Jr needs to look into this too.
      • Dubble Cheeze 9 mths ago
        i think you mean Terrel Owens and Randy Moss. And 75% of the soccer moms out there.
    • A Yahoo! User  •  9 mths ago
      This piece oh *hit beat the hell out of her and terrorized her. He smashed the window of the taxi she was in while she was trying to flee from another beating. I wish nothing but the worst for him. Karma is a #$%$
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