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  • MARRIED COUPLE'S SEX LIFE HAS BECOME ALL ABOUT THE NUMBERS

    DEAR ABBY: I have been married to a wonderful man for 30 years. Our marriage may not be perfect, but it's quite good. My dilemma is this: My husband keeps track of every time we have sex and has a personal goal of 100 times a year. In 2013, he informed me that we'd had sex only 76 times, and that…

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  • DON'T MEDDLE IN OFFICE AFFAIR UNLESS IT INTERFERES WITH WORK

    DEAR ABBY: I manage a group of 15 employees. A few months ago, I hired the wife of an old friend. Until now she has been a great employee, but recently she and a male co-worker have been taking lunches and breaks together in a way that leads me to believe they are flirting or have already crossed…

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  • AGING MOM WHO WANTS TO DIE MAY FIND RELIEF FROM DOCTOR

    DEAR ABBY: My 83-year-old mother has decided she wants to die. She says she's miserable, but I think she's causing her own misery. She has medications to address her physical ailments -- none of which are critical. My siblings live in other states. Mom feels it's a "burden" for them to travel to…

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  • GRIEVING DAUGHTER ANTICIPATES EACH MOTHER'S DAY WITH DREAD

    DEAR ABBY: It has been a year since my mother passed away. The month of February was especially tough because it was the month of her birthday and also the month in which she died. Mother's Day will be here soon, and I'm already feeling bitter, anticipating all of the commercials, advertising,…

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  • TEENAGE GIRL'S BOYISH FIGURE IS OFTEN DECEIVING TO OTHERS

    DEAR ABBY: I'm a 14-year-old girl with a problem. Because of my buzzed short hair, slim hips and flat chest, I frequently get mistaken for a boy. It really bothers me because, despite my haircut and body shape, I have a feminine face and I wear women's clothes and makeup. I'm not too much of a…

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  • ASSISTANT'S GRUFF ATTITUDE NEEDS TO BE SMOOTHED OUT

    DEAR ABBY: How do I deal with an assistant who keeps calling me a "brownnoser"? She did it again yesterday at a staff meeting in front of my boss and another assistant. It was the third time she has said it. She is gruff and rude, and several people have complained to me about her attitude. Should…

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  • FATHER OF FOUR IS SELFISH TO PUT HIS HEALTH AT RISK

    DEAR ABBY: I am a 34-year-old wife and mother of four. I'm concerned about my husband. He is 44 and drinks at home every evening after work. I don't mind him having a few cans of beer, but he drinks between six and 12 a day. He refuses to see a doctor for checkups or when he is sick. I am worried…

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  • CELLPHONE SNOOP DISCOVERS HER BOYFRIEND IS CHEATING

    DEAR ABBY: I have been in a long-distance relationship with "Victor" for several years. Recently I began to suspect he was cheating. What raised my suspicion was that I suddenly couldn't reach him on the weekends. Usually we would Skype -- Sunday night for me, Monday morning for him. Last February…

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  • SIGNS OF AN ABUSER APPLY TO WOMEN AS WELL AS MEN

    DEAR ABBY: I read your Jan. 8 column about the warning signs of an abuser. Would you use your influence to say that men are also victims of abuse? My son was in a three-year relationship with a woman who scored 15 out of 15 on your list. We knew it was a toxic relationship, but he couldn't see…

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  • COMMUNICATION ONLINE LACKS PERSONAL TOUCH FOR SOME USERS

    DEAR ABBY: I recently exchanged pleasantries via email and text messaging with a lady I met on a website. One day later, I received a message from her stating she'd prefer our method of communication be kept to email and texting because she wasn't much of a phone talker. Over the past few months, I…

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  • BOYFRIEND HEADING WEST MAY CAUSE GIRLFRIEND TO MOVE ON

    DEAR ABBY: I'm in a tricky situation. My boyfriend of four years, "Ian," and I took a break from our relationship for two months because he was scared he'd miss out on the single life. We started hanging out again soon after, and everything fell into place. We were talking recently, and he…

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  • JOY OF HAVING A SERVICE DOG IS DIMINISHED BY PUBLIC ATTENTION

    DEAR ABBY: I use a service dog, and I'm constantly barraged with requests to pet him. Other people who use service dogs warned me this would happen. Although the ADA does not require him to wear a vest, I bought one for him that reads, "Do Not Pet," which he wears in public. They ask me anyway!…

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  • STATE OF MODERN MARRIAGE MIRRORS DISPOSABLE SOCIETY

    DEAR ABBY: My wife and I were discussing our sons-in-law, and young men in their 20s and 30s in general. We were wondering where the attitude of "any money I earn is mine" in a marriage or live-in situation got started. For the first few years of my daughter and her husband "Joe's" marriage, Joe…

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  • MAN IS PATIENT AS INDEPENDENT WOMAN STRUGGLES WITH INTIMACY

    DEAR ABBY: I'm a 27-year-old woman who has never had a boyfriend or been kissed. I was never interested in romance or having a significant other. I felt strong being independent and taking care of myself. Now that I have a degree, a career and a house, I feel ready to try to let a man into my life.…

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  • WOMAN WITH TRANSGENDER LOVER IS LOOKING FOR FAMILY SUPPORT

    DEAR ABBY: I'm a divorced woman with grown children. I have always supported gay rights and thought of myself as straight. But a few months ago, I met a woman, "Stephanie."We hit it off immediately, and I was shocked to learn she's a transgender woman who was born male. We have spent a lot of time…

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  • DAUGHTER HAS NO OBLIGATION TO EXPLAIN MOTHER'S SUICIDE

    DEAR ABBY: My mother committed suicide when I was a child. She was severely depressed, and although she sought professional help, the worst happened. When conversing with acquaintances, the subject often turns to family, and I will say that my mother "passed away" when I was young. Most of the time…

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  • MOTHER WHO LOST BABY WANTS TO FIND RIGHT WORDS FOR GRIEF

    DEAR ABBY: My 1-year-old baby recently passed away. I have two other children, one with special needs. I find it irritating and not at all comforting when people tell me that "at least I have other children and that I should concentrate on them."How can I politely tell them that I have never…

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  • WIFE IS HURT OVER BEING IGNORED BY HUSBAND'S DAD

    DEAR ABBY: I have been married to my wonderful husband for 10 years. My father-in-law, "John," has always been a man of extremely few words with me. He mostly just ignores me when I'm around. I have mentioned it to my husband and mother-in-law over the years, and they say he's just "weird."Last…

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  • TEEN SHARES IN FRIEND'S GRIEF WITHOUT SHEDDING ANY TEARS

    DEAR ABBY: I'm 15. Yesterday, they told our class that one of my friend's parents had died suddenly. Every single person in our grade cried, except for me. I felt bad about not crying for my friend's loss, but I just didn't. Another friend told me that last night people were texting, and it had…

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  • Romantic Night Out Comes At A Cost For Relationship

    DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. We recently spent a romantic night at a hotel, complete with dinner, drinks -- the whole shebang -- that he organized. I know he was a little stressed about money because he mentioned it. He asked if I could shell out some money, which…

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