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    Family of missing US couple accepts search end

    WHITE BEAR LAKE, Minn. (AP) — Family members of a Minnesota couple missing in the Italian cruise ship disaster said Tuesday they accept the decision to end the search.

    In a blog posting, the children of Jerry and Barbara Heil of White Bear Lake, Minn., say they are "certainly disheartened to hear the news" but understand.

    Italian emergency officials decided to end the search due to the danger to rescue workers. The Heils are the only Americans missing in the Jan. 13 wreck.

    "We cannot express enough our sincere gratitude to all those involved in the search and rescue effort. Time and time again, the rescuers faced many perils in the hopes of reuniting the missing with their families. We will be forever grateful for all those who worked so hard for people they did not even know, yet understood how important their job was for those that remained waiting for news," the Heil family said in a statement.

    "As we struggle to come to grips with this tragedy, we find comfort knowing Mom and Dad are now in a better place free from any worries. They have always been obedient to God's plan and now we must do the same."

    Some 4,200 passengers and crew were on board the Costa Concordia cruise ship when it capsized. Seventeen bodies have been recovered, of which one has not yet been identified. Sixteen people are listed as missing but are presumed dead. The last time anyone was found alive was Jan. 15.

    The Heils are active members of the Church of St. Pius X in White Bear Lake, a St. Paul suburb. Church members describe the Heils as quiet, kind people deeply involved in their congregation. Jerry Heil, 69, who retired from a job at the Minnesota Department of Agriculture, would teach religious education classes, and Barbara Heil, 70, would bring baked goods to class members.

    Diane Vorwald, 48, who uses a wheelchair, said Jerry Heil would come to her home weekly to administer communion. In the summer, he would bring her fresh pies, she recalled.

    "He's done a lot for me. It's a loss to me," Vorwald said.

    The Heil family is making plans for a memorial service.

     

    16 comments

    • J.T.  •  3 mths ago
      Heil Family, I am so, so sorry for your loss. They look like such pleasant people in the photo.
      • Tom2 3 mths ago
        They do look like very pleasant people.
        God bless you Heil family.
    • LorettaS  •  Washington, District of Columbia  •  3 mths ago
      How very sad for the family. I hope this does not effect their ability to move on without having the bodies to bury. They are in my prayers and I hope in the prayers of many others. God Bless.
    • Pearlie  •  Rochester, New Hampshire  •  3 mths ago
      How horrible that they have to move on without the last piece of closure. My condolences to the family and friends. I also hope they are able to recover them at some point so everyone can say goodbye.
    • spooky  •  Free Soil, Michigan  •  3 mths ago
      my only questions are. even though the search is ending , might they still find them in the recovery process? or are they saying the two people lost will possibly never be found.
    • LorettaS  •  Washington, District of Columbia  •  3 mths ago
      Note to the posters of all the negative and biased comments. Find another forum, you are not appreciated by good people. Your comments hurt the innocent.
      • Ted C 3 mths ago
        Good comment Loretta. Im stunned someone actually gave you a thumbs down. Unbelievable.
    • Jess  •  3 mths ago
      I wonder if they checked the hospitals? mental asylums?....I mean, sometimes people are rushed to hospitals, and they are in such mental shape don't even remember their names. And Italy is a third world country, they are in Europe but they still have laws and other stuff from third world countries.
      • kenneth 3 mths ago
        Never set foot outside the US eh?
      • Ernie 3 mths ago
        They aren't.
      • Jutta K.-E. 3 mths ago
        So agree Kenneth but I am afraid good old Jess has never left the county where he/she was born, raised, and likely will die.
    • Eric  •  3 mths ago
      The thing that really disturbs me about this is, how do we know that these "divers" searching the ship aren't taking this opportunity to paw through the underwear drawers of the female passengers? If I were a passenger I would be very worried about that. I absolutely would feel personally violated.
      • dw731 3 mths ago
        Eric, I would be more worried if they were going through the mens underwear. lol Geesh, do you really think that any passenger is worried about someone finding their skivies? I would just be glad I got off safely.
      • donsgirl 3 mths ago
        i would think the last thing on the mind of a diver who is risking his life going into the wreckage would be fondling underwear ! how ridiculus
      • MJ 3 mths ago
        Eric- you are sick- may god have mercy on your soul.
    • Bob Bowman  •  New York, New York  •  3 mths ago
      The loss of Catholics, aka child molester -enablers, is always a net positive for the U.S. and not necessarily something to be mourned but celebrated
      • Ernie 3 mths ago
        They aren't Catholic, jackass.
      • Jim 3 mths ago
        Don't blame the members, blame the organization itself. People are all to be loved. It s governments, corporations, and the idea of the church as a religion in itself that things get ugly.
      • Raist 3 mths ago
        ho Bob, such a stupid comment from a very cold-hearted man ... pity ...
    • Suit of Flames  •  3 mths ago
      The loss of Catholics, aka child molester -enablers, is always a net positive for the U.S. and not necessarily something to be mourned but celebrated
    • Cosworth  •  3 mths ago
      Fish food !
    • Senorita555  •  3 mths ago
      This can be a chance to start a new life if you have the courage to do it. Just walk away and start over with a new name. Leave behind meddling family and friends. Others have done it.
    • MJ  •  La Crosse, Wisconsin  •  3 mths ago
      No sum of money can bring justice to this situation, but this couples children better receive a huge amount of cash compensation!!
    • TBrown  •  3 mths ago
      Very sad. They sounded like truly giving people and may God bless them for the kindness they showed to so many, and may they now rest in peace with Him.
    • Garrett  •  3 mths ago
      "As we struggle to come to grips with this tragedy, we find comfort knowing Mom and Dad are now in a better place free from any worries. They have always been obedient to God's plan and now we must do the same."

      Was it "God's plan" to have a cruise ship captain deliberately veer off course and sink a ship with 4,200 people on board? Wonder why he came up with that one!
    • Izabella  •  3 mths ago
      I'm sorry to hear they can't bring your family home. My prayers are with you all as you mourn the loss of your parents/grandparents.
    • Killer B  •  3 mths ago
      I like fresh pie.
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