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    For Houston mourners, a dearth of places to grieve

    NEWARK, N.J. (AP) — In Whitney Houston's hometown, her family plans a private church service, with no public memorial set. In Los Angeles, where she died, there's not even a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame for fans to pile flowers. So for the legion of music lovers mourning a global superstar, where do broken hearts go?

    Fans who have gathered outside the church where Houston will be eulogized Saturday at an invitation-only service — and outside the funeral home where her body now rests — say they understand why the family wants to keep the world out the best they can. But they also yearned for the chance to fully share in the grief and the remembrance of a native daughter who made it big and made them proud.

    Samuel Turner Jackson, of Newark, said he was looking forward to heading down to "The Rock," as the Prudential Center is known. Before, that is, the funeral home announced Tuesday that no public service would be held at the 18,000-seat arena, an option that had been discussed.

    The arena, home to the NHL's New Jersey Devils, displayed an image of Houston on a screen outside Tuesday.

    "We don't know what the circumstances are, but we're sure that the family did want to share something with the community that she gave so much to," Jackson said. "But they have their reasons, and we're going to do the best we can to pay our respects and to mourn her."

    Antonio Ballinger, of Newark, also hoped to attend a public service and "see her off," and said he was saddened to hear he wouldn't get the opportunity.

    "But my blessings go out to the family, and I wish them nothing but the best," he said.

    The family said Tuesday it had no plans right now for a public memorial. Still, fans in this downtrodden city held out hope.

    "Maybe at some point down the road, they might do something," said B.J. Frazier, of East Orange. "It's like they're saying today, they shared her for a long time and they just want her to themselves for now."

    Houston, a sensation from her first, eponymous album in 1985, was one of the world's best-selling artists from the mid-1980s to the late 1990s, turning out such hits as "I Wanna Dance With Somebody," ''How Will I Know," ''The Greatest Love of All" and "I Will Always Love You." But as she struggled with drugs, her majestic voice became raspy, and she couldn't hit the high notes.

    Houston, 48, died Saturday at a hotel in Beverly Hills, Calif., just hours before she was scheduled to attend producer Clive Davis' pre-Grammy Awards bash. Officials say she was underwater and apparently unconscious when she was pulled from a bathtub.

    Authorities said an autopsy found no indications of foul play or obvious signs of trauma on Houston. It could be weeks, however, before the coroner's office completes toxicology tests to establish the cause of death.

    Houston was born in Newark and raised in nearby East Orange. She began singing as a child at New Hope Baptist Church, where her mother, Grammy-winning gospel singer Cissy Houston, led the music program for many years. Her cousin, future pop star Dionne Warwick, also sang in its choir.

    The family decided that, after sharing Whitney with the city, state and world for more than 30 years, "this is their time now for their farewell," said funeral home owner Carolyn Whigham.

    "The family thanks all the fans, the friends and the media, but this time is their private time," she said.

    The hearse that carried Houston's body from an airport to the Whigham Funeral Home came into Newark under the cloak of darkness, in the middle of the night, denying local folks another opportunity to grieve publicly.

    Police met with church officials Tuesday to discuss logistics and how to handle the large crowds expected to gather Saturday in the streets outside the New Hope Baptist Church, about a mile from the funeral home.

    In Newark, perennially ranked among the nation's poorest and most dangerous cities, a public memorial at taxpayer expense is a tricky proposition. New Jersey's largest city, at more than 270,000 residents, laid off more than 160 police officers in November. The dismal school system is relying on a large grant from Facebook founder Mark Zuckerberg for salvation.

    And whether the megastar's estate would pick up any slack for a memorial is up for debate. The singer failed to fulfill a $100 million recording deal in 2001 that reportedly called for six records. Since then, only four have come out, including a greatest hits collection that was not released in the United States. She lost two homes to foreclosure several years ago.

    Newark's quandary is similar to the decisions Los Angeles had to make when Michael Jackson, another pop superstar brought down before his time, died in 2009. A public memorial at the Staples Center, a professional sports arena, cost taxpayers about $3 million but pumped a million more than that into the local economy through hotel stays, restaurants and other businesses, according to a city report.

    In Los Angeles, it has become a tradition that whenever a major celebrity dies, fans lay flowers and other gestures of sorrow and tribute on the deceased's star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame. Houston had no star, leaving Angelenos with nowhere to express their grief.

    The Hollywood Chamber of Commerce, which manages the Walk of Fame, explained that Houston was selected for a star in 1995, but a date was never requested by the singer's representatives for an unveiling ceremony. That selection expired in 2000, it said, but can be reconsidered if desired by the family.

    Gospel singer Marvin Winans, a Grammy Award winner and longtime family friend, has been chosen to give the eulogy in Newark, his son, Marvin Jr., and Winans' office at Perfecting Faith Church in Detroit told The Associated Press.

    Winans, in his role as a pastor, married Houston and fellow singer Bobby Brown in 1992; the couple later divorced. The Winans and Houston families have been friends for years, and Houston performed with Winans' siblings CeCe and BeBe, members of one of gospel music's most prominent families.

    Houston was especially close to CeCe and BeBe Winans and performed with both. She and CeCe Winans sang "Count on Me," for the movie "Waiting to Exhale," in which Houston starred.

    In a show of support for the local community and in lieu of flowers, Houston's family asked that any donations in her memory be sent to the Whitney Houston Academy of Creative and Performing Arts, a public school in East Orange serving students in kindergarten through eighth grade.

    Houston attended the school as a girl, when it was named the Franklin School, and regularly visited for many years afterward. On Monday, students held an outdoor service in her memory.

    Houston left behind one child, daughter Bobbi Kristina Brown, 18, from her marriage to Brown.

    Gov. Chris Christie ordered flags flown at half-staff Saturday at state government buildings, describing Houston as a "cultural icon" who belongs in the same category of New Jersey music history as Frank Sinatra, Count Basie and Bruce Springsteen.

    "Her accomplishments were a great source of pride for the people of the state," he said.

    ___

    Associated Press writers David Porter in Newark and Ryan Nakashima in Los Angeles contributed to this report.

     
    • Rebecca  •  Sterling, Massachusetts  •  3 mths ago
      I really respect the family for making about their loss. We as a public didn't know her and it should not be a spectacle as we have seen with so many others. It is their pain and loss of a mother, daughter, friend and we have no right to demand anything from them. Whitney already gave us enough of herself an we should give her family this final moment with her.
      • Peter 3 mths ago
        I agree but as a public figure sometimes you need to consider others. I do feel however some may want to "go to the funeral" just to see other celebrities and be in the hub bub of the event. We can all show our appreciation for Ms. Whitney's talents by saying a prayer and donating as her family suggested. We don't need to be in the church with the body.
      • E E 3 mths ago
        I could not agree more, this is a private thing and we should respect the family. Big displays of flowers and teddy bear is a bit too much for me, why couldn't that money be spent to give some kid in those school sports equipment or books for them. Lord know the schools in Newark could use the funds, and name a building after her as a memorial.She made a lot of money and I am sure her daughter will be care for,money wise,but those kids in the countless school that go to class with nothing to look forward to, need a little infusion of hope from a native daughter. Not a large group of people displaying grief?? or what ever they call it. The mass display of so called grief over any important person in the entertainment field is a little crass to say the least.RIP lovely song bird, your beautiful voice will live forever.
        we know you stumbled and fell a few times ,but God forgives and we know he cares about you.
    • Suzie Q  •  Sacramento, California  •  3 mths ago
      I am grieving right where I am although there is no free food or crowds here.
    • michelew  •  Mt Hamilton, California  •  3 mths ago
      ok, it just needs to be said... If the fans, who are perfect strangers to Whitney and her family, feel the need to be someplace specific to cry and remember this amazing woman, then.... why don't they do it themselves? WHat is this trend in AMerican society with demanding that the government or others pay for them? Gather together at a church, arena, park, musical stage or whatever, and make your OWN celebration! That is all that is needed!!!!! when I lived in France during 9/11, we gathered at various places... Can't you do that/??????
      • geniusandinsanitywalkdown ... 3 mths ago
        What are insane fans to do? They want to pretend she was important, like a head of state, and she should she get some public funeral paid for by the government?
        .
        if her fans want a public place to mourn, they need to fork over some dollars, honey. That DIVA spent most of her wad (and had none left for a public funeral service).
      • Lindsey D 3 mths ago
        The world has to many "hero worshipers".
        So here we have a person who could sing. A person who got heavily into drugs. Are we as a nation supposed to treat anyone who has made millions off of ordinary people and then died as a result of their fame an fortune a national hero?
      • Christiana 3 mths ago
        it true
    • Ann  •  3 mths ago
      Most of those with "no place to go" would have had to spend something to get there. Whatever that amount is, send it where the family has requested. Other than that listen to some songs and have yourself a good cry. That is cathartic in itself.
    • ayesiga Stella  •  Kampala, Uganda  •  3 mths ago
      RIP Whitney I will always love and miss you.I loved your great voice, beauty, and vigorous performances.
    • JOSEPH  •  Dallas, Texas  •  3 mths ago
      Where do "broken hearts go"? To answer this reporter: "Get a life." Yes, this is tragic and sad news but isn't anyone in the press concerned that its core of "reporters" are so caught up in trying to create headlines that they have lost sight of the fact that a death memorial should first and foremost be private and dignified---in short, respectful of the grieving family. Gee, I recall Marilyn Monroe's death as a very young child and she is still HUGE but the press was not wailing and wailing and wailing at the time of her demise---and there was plenty of fodder in Ms. Monroe's troubled life as was in Ms. Houston's. I repeat: reporters GET A LIFE and GROW UP.
      • Southern Belle 3 mths ago
        Visit the sick and shut in. Go lift someone's spirit in a Care Home. Volunteer at a homeless shelter or a food kitchen. Pray for our troops. Need I go one? Yes we may be sad but so many live and die alone.
      • Christiana 3 mths ago
        by the power u can may it
    • dankkies  •  Lagos, Nigeria  •  3 mths ago
      R.I.P but your voice speak more for you, i love you
    • Lesedi  •  Gaborone, Botswana  •  3 mths ago
      I send my condolences to the family, i know they are going through a hard time but God is there to protect them.
      • jr 3 mths ago
        what do u know u know nothing
      • Christiana 3 mths ago
        for u,u can protected them cos is only God
    • Thel  •  3 mths ago
      let thisfamily and personal friends be in peace as they grieve. We surely do not need to judge the "WHYS" and reasons of her death but instead just remember she has a daughter and other family .Itis thier time to grieve and have remembrance of thier love one that left them so very soon in her life.She was a daughter,a mother and love one to so many.May she rest in peace.May God be with all her family and true friends. A great voice and so much beauty and sweetness to all who knew her. God Bless this family and true friends. Thel
      • WizardKnight 3 mths ago
        avoiding the obvious racist jerk above, she was also a dughter, a mother etc when she was cooking up rocks, didnt much matter then!
      • Thel 2 mths ago
        Michael,I read your reponse just this Morning.I am not dumb as you stated. I just know it is not up you to judge this lady or the way she died.I know what drugs can do. I had a family member that done the same thing and she meant to do so...I did not know how tormented she was nor did others in my family.I do not know if Whitney Houston meant to kill herself.No one but God above knew her sadness."Judge Ye Not,Lest You Be Judged"..GOD SAYS. Fell free to say i am dumb or whatever you wish to call me...I just say "God Bless You in your stupidy" and hope you figure out how bad your comment is for others to read.Thank you,"Wizard Knight" for your kind words. Thelma
    • Shawn H  •  Kingwood, Texas  •  3 mths ago
      I'm not trying to be cold hearted, and yes, it's a sad thing that she's gone. But unless you are family or a close personal friend, you do not need a place to mourn. People that were close to her mourn. All others that feel that they need a place to "mourn" need to get a life; or if they have one, get on with it. We carry this celebrity worship way too far in this country.
    • Churchil  •  Nairobi, Kenya  •  3 mths ago
      As a force we convey a message of condolence to the family friends and relatives of Whitney and wish them Gods strength and comfort at this time of grief.
    • Mary  •  3 mths ago
      If you feel the need to grieve for a person you admired but never met, then grieve privately.
      Private. What a concept?
    • heather  •  Miami, Florida  •  3 mths ago
      It is very sad to see her go so early. She could have done so much more with her life. Though, I do wonder.... flags at half staff? I think this is something that should be reserved for men and women who give their lives for our country. Not pop-stars! Sorry...
    • K  •  3 mths ago
      just cuz you knew her music doesn't mean you knew her
    • Sunny  •  3 mths ago
      So get yourself a box of tissues, crank up the music, get some friends together and start wailing; inside , outside in a park, at a church or write a letter. Do what you need to do. Leave her Family alone.
    • Linda  •  3 mths ago
      Take a trip to your own place of worship and say a prayer for her. God will know who you're talking about.
    • Nightwings  •  3 mths ago
      RIP, Ms. Huston.
    • Aldoro  •  3 mths ago
      she was given great gifts of talent, beauty, charisma. She squandered her gifts with drugs.
      what message are we sending to children? i much admire those who do so much more who were given so much less.
    • Donald J  •  Los Alamos, New Mexico  •  3 mths ago
      U.S. Troop Casualties - 4,486 US troops; 98% male. 91% non-officers; 82% active duty, 11% National Guard; 74% Caucasian, 9% African-American, 11% Latino. 19% killed by non-hostile causes. 54% of US casualties were under 25 years old. 72% were from the US Army. This was the losses in Iraq. All of these hero's have no stars on Hollywood.
    • Max Fubar  •  3 mths ago
      Pharm drugs KILL
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