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    The Daily Beast

    Life gets better at 50

    Happy birthday, Mr. President ! You’re 50. So what now?

    As the baby boomers grow older, research on aging—the good, the bad, and the ugly—is growing too, and revealing some surprising findings.

    The bad news first, since we all know it already. With age comes decay. Things—many things—begin to slide. The metabolism slows; muscles degrade; fat accumulates and shifts into all the places where it is most unwelcome.

    Then there’s the wear and tear. “We tend to accumulate injuries we might have had when we were young, especially the baby-boom generation that tended to be very physically active and damaged a lot of body parts, as I have done myself, over the years,” says Art Kramer, who studies aging and exercise at the Beckman Institute . “We certainly don’t move as quickly.” Related: 50 things Obama should wish for on his 50th

    One can’t help but think of certain vivid Obama iconography. There he is on the basketball court , poised to spring for the shot; or twisting his back on the golf course; or bounding up the steps of the Lincoln Memorial, gleeful at the chance to greet young travelers. Dear Mr. President: Caution, please!

    The slowing down that occurs with age applies both to our physical and mental capabilities, says Kramer. Yet when it comes to the latter, Kramer and others draw a crucial—and comforting—distinction between “fluid” and “crystallized” intelligence.

    Fluid intelligence is all about raw processing speed: the agility with which you are able to solve new and unfamiliar problems. Crystallized intelligence, on the other hand, flows from experience; it’s hard and fast knowledge, garnered over years.

    Gallery: Presidential Birthday Bashes It’s “your ability to solve problems based on knowledge of the world that you’ve acquired over time,” says Neil Charness, a psychology professor at Florida State University . Happily, this second form of intelligence—the crystallized kind—stays ... well ... crystallized as the brain gets older. It weathers the storm. In fact, it thrives.

    As Charness points out, “If you look at measures of knowledge like information tasks, vocabulary tasks, then those abilities seem to rise at least into the 50s and hold maybe even to the 60s and 70s, and probably start to decline after that.”

    Furthermore, Charness says, “one of the things that people are under the misapprehension of is that as you get older, job performance declines. But lots and lots of meta analyses ... show that there’s virtually no relationship between age and job productivity.”

    From industry to industry, there’s a lot of variability in the age at which people tend to hit their prime. In mathematics , for instance, great accomplishment comes on the earlier side—it's likely that the 30s are the most potent decade—but neuroscientists , as David Eagleman pointed out in a recent issue of The New Yorker , tend to take years before they make their greatest breakthroughs. They must first get a true “feel” for how the brain works.

    The story of aging becomes more complicated as researchers continue to poke and prod at it. Laura Carstensen, a psychologist at Stanford , is well known for her work on the changes that naturally occur in the priorities people set for themselves.

    She even has a name for this phenomenon: the socio-emotional selectivity theory. “There’s a general set of goals that guide human behavior throughout life,” she says. “We have goals about mating, about attachment, about gaining information, and also about regulating our emotions. And when time horizons are vast and nebulous, as they typically are in youth, people prioritize those goals in different ways than when time horizons are short.”

    Carstensen believes, and has demonstrated in her research, that when people have a sense that a lot of time lies ahead of them, they are constantly, chronically focused on gaining information, gaining insights, gathering up an enriched supply of knowledge that will help them in their future.

    On the other hand, she says, as people become more viscerally aware of the constraints of time, goals that had seemed salient—future-oriented goals—are no longer so compelling. Instead, what people tend to care about is “meaning in life, emotion, emotional significance,” she says. “In some ways, they’re relieved of the burden of a future.”

    It’s a startling idea in some ways, Carstensen’s concept of being “relieved of the burden of a future.” But it’s a concept that is already old news to many.

    “It turns out that when you’re focused on the here and now, just as Buddhism would say, when you’re focused on the present, it’s really good for mental health,” she says.

    As we age, emotions tend to be more positive, more deeply experienced, and more easily regulated. In many older adults, Carstensen has shown, there develops a natural bias toward aspects of life that are emotionally gratifying—as well as a natural disregard for those things that would have, at a younger age, caused anxiety or distress. Carstensen has demonstrated this phenomenon using several experimental methods, from brain imaging to clinical interviews. But the trend stays the same.

    The research as it exists already has much to say that should give us hope about our own futures. But there’s more. There are researchers like Judith Campisi at the Buck Institute, who questions why it is we have to get worse as we get old—and what can be done about it.

    “I think there’s a lot of confusion between aging, time, and death. And they’re very distinct,” she says. “Time passes, you accumulate experience, and you can become more creative and wiser—and that’s terrific. But that’s not aging. Aging is a process that turns an organism that’s fit into an organism that’s less fit. And I don’t see anything that’s good about that.” But whereas the old thinking had it that aging was “inexorable—like rusting,” says Campisi, biologists have since pinpointed specific genes that set the pace of aging and differ from person to person. Campisi argues that with the identification of these specific pathways, it’s at least theoretically possible to intervene in the process of human aging.

    So, with all of this in mind, what are you to think on your 50th birthday?

    Cliché tells us that it’s time to buy a Porsche and have a breakdown. But research tells us that this might be the most appropriate moment for optimism—a time when one can look forward to an enriched store of knowledge as well as feelings of positivity and calm. And if one has two beloved daughters singing “Happy Birthday ”? Life at 50 doesn’t look so bad.

     

    521 comments

    • Rockbay8  •  9 mths ago
      It is at its worst right now, anyone over 50 is having a tough time staying and finding employment. Most will be forced to retire because there isn't anything out there for us. While Congress guaranteed itself Soc. Sec. it is doing everything it can to eliminate it from those over 50 so that when our time comes, after years and years of paying into the system, we will have nothing. I don't know who canvased for this report, but apparently no one visited Michigan and Indiana. We truly need to wipe the Congressional slate clean and start over, vote them all out, its really the only way to start over and we do need to start over.
      • BillB 9 mths ago
        Most of us agree they all need to voted out. But we all have different ideas - often drastically different ideas - about who to replace them with. That would be a recipe for more of the same.
      • Rockbay8 9 mths ago
        Agreed. But unless we stop pretending that its "someone else's congressman or woman who is 'wrong' we will never see real change. Its all of them. By booting the majority out we send a clear message that is undeniable. It is about WE the people, not 'they' the people. Term limits, limits on campaign money which would include a stipend to spend on getting elected. They would not be allowed to accept campaign money from individuals over 100$ and no money from corporations or special interest groups. They must get themselves elected by the will of the people, not the wallet of the CEO.
    • Summer L  •  9 mths ago
      Not if you're unemployed; life doesn't get better at 50. Age discrimination is running rampant in this country. They don't ask outright, but ask what year you graduated from high school.
      • dontWiretapMeBro 9 mths ago
        You could get a GED and say "last year"
      • ! 9 mths ago
        Summer L...try to find new employment at 59 ....they ask for the last digits of your SS and then can determine your age w/o even asking your birthdate.
        AGE DISCRIMINATION IS DEFINATELY GONE WILD.
      • D1 9 mths ago
        We'll need a new law soon to cover that problem.
    • xwallster  •  9 mths ago
      You're out of your mind. Try being unemployed at 50.
      • Tommy 9 mths ago
        I'm going to help Obama have that feeling!
    • Josie  •  9 mths ago
      I literally fell apart the day after my 50th birthday.
      10 specialists and $11,000.00 later, I'm doing better physically but have yet to find a job that offers me more than 12 hours a week.
      • JaDo 9 mths ago
        Your profile says you are 41, and you live in New Jersey. I really feel sorry for you bud, I know things are tight. Down here, construction crews are always hiring, heck, I'm hiring, and I need 40+ hours per week per person.
      • Charles 9 mths ago
        i feel your pain !
      • Josie 9 mths ago
        @ JaDo-
        That's not my profile-it's my last bosses (he thinks he is the reason I fell apart so he laid me off) I'm a 50 YO female. You don't say where down here is but I also have a farm to run. Would be more than happy to go to work for you-know how to use power tools, heavy equipment and I'm not afraid to sweat or bleed. Despite what folks say, very few construction companies would hire a 50 YO female. Doing hay-I outwork the other 3 guys and they are all younger than me.
    • adivawoman  •  9 mths ago
      Try being 55, a widow and unemployed as I am. I have been looking for a year, and though I have the resume and great job skills I am finding that due to my age, I would be lucky to get a job at minimum wage, which I would take if I could even land one . Less worried about the future... give me a break. If I don't find employment soon my future is pretty dire. Any one have an extra refrigerator box available for rent? Lets not even speak of how my body feels.
      • GLD 9 mths ago
        I hear and feel your pain. You are far from alone. A whole generation of lost people. We are treading water and many of us are going down. I have no pension to look forward to, no social security unless I can find a job and work another eight years (I stayed home to raise my kids and am now divorced). No one wants to hire me. I have many health problems that I have to just ignore. I am still raising small children. It is hard to stay positive. All those promises they made us..... those who are already retired got the best deal. Those who come behind us will have to find an answer, those of us who are 45 to 65 are doomed.
    • Anne  •  9 mths ago
      I'm a 51 year old female. I've been with the man I love for 12 years. We have a cheap apartment in NYC. I earn my living doing the work I love. My health is good. I have great friendships. I'm far from wealthy, but my life is so rich. Was it always this way? Hell no!!! I had many crappy jobs, bad relationships, health issues, made stupid decisions... you know, all the things one does in life, but I've emerged into mid-life better than ever.
    • ckbdk  •  9 mths ago
      Getting old is still better than the alternative!
    • Arthur  •  9 mths ago
      I just hope that my 401K can survive to 2012
    • Joseph  •  9 mths ago
      I wish I was 20 again and know what I know now.
    • Mitch  •  9 mths ago
      Regardless of political leanings, this birthday celebration brought me to the realization that he put me into a new realm. For the first time in my life, I am older than the president of the United States. I have been since his inauguration but it sunk in last night. This sucks! LOL
    • J.D.H.  •  9 mths ago
      TODAY IS THE FIRST DAY OF THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!!!
    • Mike  •  9 mths ago
      I soon turn 65.
      Would like to be having a 50th birthday today.
      All things are relative.
    • Eric  •  9 mths ago
      50+ is great if you have money, if you need Social Security or Medicaid you are pretty much screwed now.
    • Who am I  •  9 mths ago
      Maybe for some it gets better, but for the majority of us "50 somethings" it's getting more and more depressing. Not enough money for retirement, no jobs for someone our age, and no health insurance. Yep, the "Golden Years" are truly something to enjoy....
    • Russell  •  9 mths ago
      I wish I was back 50. and could live a better life.
    • moderate  •  9 mths ago
      I turn 50 soon. Hope it gets better because the last 3 years have really sucked.
    • ELLIOT  •  9 mths ago
      Hey let me tell you. 50 is the new 30. I feel as physically fit at 57 as I did in my late 20's. I still have a waistline of 30, my weight is a comfortable 160, I have low blood pressure and an excellent heart rate. I am not a jock or very physically active. But I do know that if I pig out on a meal I'm gonna take a nice walk so as to put all that food to good use. Maybe they've been genetically modifying and enhancing the food all these years. But it's great to look and feel this way as I approach 60 and life here on South Beach let's me know that I have a lot of good years still ahead. I haven't slowed down at all. Look out 70, there's a NEW generation coming through.
    • A Yahoo! User  •  9 mths ago
      If you are 50 enjoy it, it is the youngest you will ever be, but you don't have to carry all that baggage from always worrying about the wrong priorities, now you know what's important, and life is to be treasured.
    • Mr. Krampus  •  9 mths ago
      Oh yeah, life is so much better at 50! I hated hanging out with my biker pals, the 3 day keggers, the rock concerts, racing my 2 x 4bbl. V8 on .79 cent a gallon gas, girls calling all the time. Yep it sure is better now, it really is....... think I'll go mow the grass.... *sniffle*.
    • Visa Declined  •  9 mths ago
      if your life gets better at 50, you were doing something wrong for the first 49 years.
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