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    Minn. couple missing after Italian ship capsized

    MINNEAPOLIS (AP) — A Minnesota couple missing after a cruise ship capsized off the west coast of Italy are devout Catholics who spend part of almost every day at church, where he teaches religious classes and she hands out baked goods and other sweet treats to parishioners.

    Church members described the kindness and good deeds of Jerry and Barbara Heil on Monday as a search continued along the Italian coast. The Heils are among more than two dozen people still missing after the Costa Concordia hit a reef and ran aground near Tuscany on Friday night.

    Six people have been confirmed dead, and prosecutors are investigating the ship's captain for manslaughter, abandoning ship and causing a shipwreck. The ship's owner said the captain, Francesco Schettino, caused the crash by deviating from the authorized course.

    Diane Vorland, who is confined to a wheelchair, told The Associated Press that Jerry Heil, 69, came to her house every Thursday for the past three years to administer her communion and recite the rosary. The trip, she said, "was a big deal for them."

    "On the Thursday before he left, he said, 'The next time you see me I'll have been to Rome,'" Vorland said.

    Other members of Church of St. Pius X in White Bear Lake described the Heils as quiet, kind people deeply involved in the congregation. They joined the church in 1973, and their four children attended its elementary and middle school, said Larry Erickson, the parish administrator.

    Jerry Heil taught religious education classes for everyone from children to senior citizens. Dennis Hardy, who attended one of his classes, said Barbara Heil, 70, often accompanied her husband, bringing baked goods she gave to class members.

    "Both of them are at the church, I'd say, pretty much every day," Erickson said.

    The Heils live in White Bear Lake, a suburb of about 25,000 people 15 miles outside St. Paul. The community sits between two large lakes, White Bear and Bald Eagle, which are encircled by opulent homes and historic cottages dating to the early 1900s when the area was a weekend destination for wealthy St. Paul residents. Today, the city retains vestiges of a resort aura but also is home to middle- and working-class neighborhoods.

    Jerry Heil retired from a job at the Minnesota Department of Agriculture. While reserved, he possesses a dry sense of humor, Vorland said. After communion and prayers, she said, he would engage her in deep and thoughtful conversations about history or church teachings.

    "Every Christmas he and his wife would come and give me some fudge," she said. "They're just solid people."

    Jerry Heil also is a longtime member of the congregation's Knights of Columbus chapter. Duane Jabas, a former grand knight, called him a jack-of-all-trades who helped plan and run nearly every chapter function for years. "You always knew every detail would be covered if Jerry was involved," Jabas said.

    Shawn Gutoski, who works at St. Pius X, said the Heils were the type of people every church needs to function. "They're not people that want to draw attention to themselves, but you knew if they were involved that it would get done," Gutowski said.

    The church's music director announced before Sunday Mass that the Heils were missing after the shipwreck.

    "A lot of people gasped," said Hardy, who was in attendance. "I know there are a lot of prayers going over to Italy right now."

    Hardy, who recently lost his driver's license, said Jerry Heil offered to drive him around on errands.

    Several family members did not respond to phone calls from the AP on Sunday and Monday. A family friend outside the home of the couple's son, Aaron Heil, gave the AP a statement from the family.

    "We are waiting patiently for the rescuers to safely try to find our parents," it said. "Our prayers and thoughts are with our parents; those others that are still missing and their families; and the brave rescuers. We are working closely with the U.S. Embassy in Italy and are confident that everything is being done to find our parents."

    Sarah Heil, their daughter, told WBBM radio in Chicago that her parents had been looking forward to their 16-day vacation.

    "They raised four kids and sent them all to private school, elementary to college, so they never had any money," Sarah Heil said. "So when they retired, they went traveling. And this was to be a big deal — a 16-day trip. They were really excited about it."

     
    • Centrist American  •  Indianapolis, Indiana  •  4 mths ago
      It's a very large ship. There are places that they could be waiting.
      It is very possible that they could be found alive. Never give up hope until there is a confirmation of their demise.
      • mike 4 mths ago
        HOPE SO. Hope they are surviving on cheese and crackers waiting to be found.Can't believe this happened.
    • Louie Lou I  •  4 mths ago
      worked hard and sacrificed for this :-( ... wishing for the best outcome
      • stirandsavor 4 mths ago
        Probably worked their whole lives, saved every penny they could muster and somehow put all their kids through private schools......that's a story in itself............I have hope they will find them alive.
      • K 4 mths ago
        I pray they will be found alive.
    • icemilkcoffee  •  4 mths ago
      The ship captain abandoned the ship? What an #$%$
      • KendraB 4 mths ago
        Yes- all higher ranking officers bailed out.The heroes were the housekeepers and lower workers.They were putting people in the emergency boats.I agree with you-what an #$%$......
      • Iwowth 4 mths ago
        sounds like the officers abandoned their ship duties before the wreck happened
      • Gary 4 mths ago
        The Captian was the first one on shore...
    • Ginger  •  Dallas, Texas  •  4 mths ago
      So sad and such a wonderful couple. Hoping for the best outcome for all.
    • Mary M.  •  Minneapolis, Minnesota  •  4 mths ago
      ROME (Reuters) - Rescue workers have located two people still alive on a capsized Italian cruise ship, state television reported on Sunday.
      Fire fighters on the ship had heard the voices of a man and a woman several decks below where they were searching. It said voice contact had been made but the two had not been reached.
      Let's hope and pray this is the MN couple.
      • Patriot 4 mths ago
        I sure hope its them, weird to see someone from MN in the news halfway around the world..wish it was good news.
      • Angel Eyes 4 mths ago
        My thoughts and prayers go out to the couple and their family.
      • LoVe 4 mths ago
        That was a Korean couple, I read that in the news the other day.
    • Liza S.  •  4 mths ago
      I am hoping for the best outcome to those who a still missing. My prayers and love to those who loss family on that ship.
      • vyAhRtis 4 mths ago
        If your god was watching all this, he wasn't doing much about it, so praying now won't help much either. And the word is "lost"....
      • A Yahoo! User 4 mths ago
        Merula, God wont stop an idiot from making a mistake any more than He will stop an idiot like you from posting about something it doesnt understand. Free will, is a blessing and a curse, as your existence exemplifies.
      • Tangie 4 mths ago
        Wow Merula... you are super classy. I was just thinking to myself, "who in their right mind would thumbs-down a person posting love and prayers to victims?" Now I see it was probably you, and I think it takes a special breed of jerk to carry around your hostile and vile attitude. Thumbs down to you, wacko.
    • Vegas Joe  •  Minneapolis, Minnesota  •  4 mths ago
      This is a very nice family; anyone with feelings should pray for the best possible outcome, but prepare for the worst.
    • Caliday  •  4 mths ago
      Why does the press have to be so callous as to try and contact the familes of the missing? Is a dollar or a "well done" from the editor, or do they have editors anymore, make it all right to acost people in their time of pain? I hope they find them alive, and am amazed that there are so few unaccounted for, no thanks to the Captain and first mate!
    • jsmca22  •  Conroe, Texas  •  4 mths ago
      I hope the captain realizes the lives he has effected by his actions.....most people put their blind trust in people everyone expects to be a professional, looks like this captain was anything but professional!
    • A Yahoo! User  •  4 mths ago
      Imagine the horror of being five floors down, in a massive, pitch-black maze that's been turned on it's side.
    • alex  •  Quincy, Illinois  •  4 mths ago
      I can't believe that there are as many aholes making crude comments to a situation like this. I hope you get what you deserve either in this liofe or the next!
    • Jack  •  4 mths ago
      Never know when our time is up, life is fragile.
    • Tom  •  Newark, New York  •  4 mths ago
      What kind of people give a thumbs down to posts hoping for these people to be found alive? There are some real @#$holes in the world!
    • wonsetihw  •  4 mths ago
      I like to know where the State Dept gets its information, they claim that all 129 Americans were accounted for, and now we read that 2 people from Minnesota are missing.
    • Christine  •  Lafayette, Louisiana  •  4 mths ago
      God be with all the families missing or recused, just so sad.
    • VickyK  •  4 mths ago
      Hope they are okay.
    • Bimbo  •  Salt Lake City, Utah  •  4 mths ago
      Good people or bad people, Catholics or Mormons, black or white, what does it matter????? For Heavens sake, these people are Humans or have we forgot?? and they have children and grandchildren and these people have feelings and are morning and are probably scared. Have a little concern and empathy for the human race for once!! My heart goes out to everyone on that ship and their families!
    • Just me  •  4 mths ago
      Such a tragic story. We never know what the future brings; I hope for good news. From reading this story it is absolutely clear, though, that this couple was right with their maker.
    • Bunny  •  4 mths ago
      to the Heil family and friends...please ignore the trolls on here who have posted vile things...they are only looking for attention....hoping that they will be found.....God Bless !!
    • prin  •  Pasadena, Texas  •  4 mths ago
      All of you heartless , noncompassionate people must have been raised by wolves.
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