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    Minn. school board ends policy blamed for bullying

    COON RAPIDS, Minn. (AP) — Minnesota's largest school district has abandoned a much-criticized policy that required teachers to remain neutral when issues of sexual identity arose in the classroom, replacing it with a policy designed to create respectful discussion about controversial topics.

    With only one dissenting vote, the Anoka-Hennepin School Board on Monday dropped a policy that is the subject of two lawsuits by critics who contend it muzzled teachers and prevented them from holding effective discussions to reduce bullying against students who are gay or perceived to be gay.

    The old policy had the support of some parents who believe homosexual conduct is immoral and who worried that their children might be taught otherwise.

    The new policy says when contentious political, religious, social matters or economic issues come up — it does not specifically cite sexuality issues — teachers shouldn't try to persuade students to adopt a particular viewpoint. It calls for teachers to foster respectful exchanges of views. It also says in such discussions, staff should affirm the dignity and self-worth of all students, regardless of race, religion, gender or sexual orientation.

    "This policy is truly a compromise," board member Scott Wenzel said after more than an hour of testimony from more than 20 people. "And I truly hope that it will move this district and community forward."

     

    Rachael Hawley, a senior at Anoka High School who led a petition drive against the old policy, said she isn't sure how much of a difference the new "Respectful Learning Environment" policy will make in the long run but hopes it opens the door to better discussions.

    The debate over how teachers should handle controversial classroom topics ballooned after six students in the district committed suicide in less than two years.

    A parent of one of the students who committed suicide says her son was bullied for being gay. Gay advocacy groups say some of the others students who killed themselves were also bullied. The district has said its investigation found no evidence that bullying contributed to the deaths, but the district changed its anti-bullying and anti-harassment policies in 2010 to state that harassment or bullying of gay students wouldn't be tolerated.

    The district, which is the target of two lawsuits over the old policy, has found itself in the national spotlight over the issue, and board member Kathy Tingelstad and several parents who testified said they didn't appreciate it.

    "I just think we could have done a lot better job," Tingelstad told reporters after she cast the lone no vote. "I think we were being pushed by outside influences that were outside of our school district. I know we're setting some national standards here tonight but I'm disappointed," she said, adding that the board could have better addressed the concerns of those who testified against the change.

    Julie Blaha, president of the Anoka-Hennepin local of the teachers union Education Minnesota, said the months of discussions about the old policy may prove to be more important than the language of the new policy itself because of the awareness raised about the problems of bullying. She said the new policy sets a better tone, and the next step will be for teachers to discuss how they'll translate it into a welcoming environment for all students.

    Barb Anderson, of Champlin, spoke up for parents who supported the neutrality policy. She asked the board not to give in to demands to change it.

    "We are at a crossroads. You either cave in to the demands of the homosexual activists, an action that will make our schools unsafe for all kids, or you stand firm and protect the children," Anderson said.

    The new policy takes effect immediately in the district of about 38,500 students and 2,800 teachers. It may speed settlements of two lawsuits filed by students, former students and parents over the neutrality policy.

    The next round of mediation in those lawsuits is March 1 and 2. Both sides have been keeping those discussions confidential, but the National Center for Lesbian Rights and the Southern Poverty Law Center, which are representing the plaintiffs, issued a statement generally applauding the policy change.

     
    • Laura  •  3 mths ago
      Forbidding kids from bullying each other at school isn't really a gay agenda kind of thing, IMHO. It's more of a decent human being agenda sort of thing.
      • Saol Garcia 3 mths ago
        it's unrealistic... i get the whole we are all equal theory..but it just doesn't work that way
      • Laura 3 mths ago
        Some kids will always be more popular than others, and that's fine. But it's not really that hard to teach kids not to attack unpopular classmates. Any half-engaged parent can do that, or even any teacher permitted to punish kids who try it in his or her class.
      • The Saint 3 mths ago
        Kids need to fight for themselves and figure out how to get beyond bullying.
    • Rich  •  Phoenix, Arizona  •  3 mths ago
      "But the district changed its anti-bullying and anti-harassment policies in October 2010 to clearly state that harassment or bullying of gay students wouldn't be tolerated."

      How about we just say ALL bullying will not be tolerated?
      • John T 3 mths ago
        That wouldn't be divisive enough, remember, this is an election year.
      • k 3 mths ago
        bullying is a lifestyle choice and as such will now be givin a protected status
      • T.W. 3 mths ago
        K......you are ignorant. When did you choose to be straight? Will you choose to be straight tomorrow?

        A straight man doesn't wake up and think..."Hey, I'd like to be with a man today"...i am straight and never thought of that...its not my thing....thats how I know I am straight....you on the other hand obviously are dealing with gay/straight issues...maybe you struggle with making a choice everyday..you think "Do I continue to live a lie and be straight, or do I choose to be who I am"...I bet thats it

        Am I right K?
    • CEE  •  Cannon Falls, Minnesota  •  3 mths ago
      The bullies flourish because their is no peer pressure condeming attacking the weak. What is weaker that searching out the smaller, less aggressive in the herd? Bullies only manage to equate bullying the weak with power because those around them allow it.
      • Gary 3 mths ago
        So then you are saying gay people are the weaker, lesser humans?
      • jeffro 3 mths ago
        No, she is saying that the "strong" lord over the "weak and meek". Bullies will go for the weakest person they percieve, be they gay, straight, blue or purple. Imagine if Mike Tyson were gay, or Muhammad Ali. Do you really believe anyone would try to bully them?
      • liam oneal 3 mths ago
        Ali who suffers from Parkinsons could be bullied these days however no one in his right mind would do it.
    • CB  •  3 mths ago
      Novel idea. We don't have to agree with each other at school, but we are required to treat each other with respect. I wish Congress would adopt this policy.
      • Lobo 3 mths ago
        congress respects "special" people. Anyone not upper class isn't one of them.
      • Vincent 3 mths ago
        how is congress treating each other with respect going to help everyone else?
      • Bradford 3 mths ago
        It will help everyone else, EXCEPT*YOU, Vincent...
    • JL  •  Pelion, South Carolina  •  3 mths ago
      It is not fostering gay anything to say bullying is wrong. Just for the record BULLYING IS WRONG!
      • EP3Bob 3 mths ago
        In BOTH directions.
      • GG 3 mths ago
        Bulling has always been a problem,why is Queer Choice Agenda thing thrown into everything,go back to closet where its safe
      • Clark S 3 mths ago
        Hey, if libs are against talking about God in the classroom they can FORGET a gay discussion!
    • Uzumati Moon  •  Longview, Washington  •  3 mths ago
      Bullying sucks bad and my daughter and I have suffered greatly because of this. Back then it was concidered gang violence. My daughter was attacked at school several times by abusive students claiming to be gang members. The last time she was attacted by 4 girls who had beaten her to the ground and kicked her repeatedly all about her body. They had permenately taken her quality of life away from her when they kicked her in the neck injuring her corotive artery causing her to have a stroke at 15 years old, having her secound stroke at 18. Today she strugglles with epilepsy caused by the scar tissue on her brain. This is a horrible ordeal for her to go through. One of thev most painful moments I have gone through with her was when I went to check on her one night and found her crying in her bed. I sat down besides her and asked her what was wrong. Crying she said I don't want to die daddy.
      She is 28 years old today with limited use of one of her arms and hand. She doesn't have a very good memory but she tries hard to convince others she hasn't forgotten. She tries hard to adjust to her dissabiltys but she is often angered about it all.
      All of this happened because the bullying wasn't controlled or stopped in the first place and I hold the school and truency laws responcible because with their truency laws they were forcing known violent students into the same classrooms with none violent students. They were breaking their own rules and laws where they owe the students a safe and peaceful learning enviroment.
    • greg  •  3 mths ago
      Anyone who has been bullied for any reason must see the Logic in Wenzel's statement. Being neutral in a bad situation sets the stage for continued bad behavior. Bullies come from both sides and bullying and bullys need to be clamped down on. Take a stand on fair treatment and make it stick.
    • Ivan  •  Kansas City, Missouri  •  3 mths ago
      If parents don't want the school system to teach their kids morals and how to respect everyone else then they should be doing the #$%$ job themselves! The apathy of parents for this newest generation of kids is alarming.
    • Leonard W  •  Flushing, New York  •  3 mths ago
      You don't have to like gays, but if a gay kid is just minding his own business, leave him alone.
    • Jordan  •  Palos Hills, Illinois  •  3 mths ago
      I'm having a hard time understanding what the problem is here. You have several kids who killed themselves over bullying and parents are afraid of giving into homosexual activists? Bullying of anyone, for any reason is wrong. There should be severe penalties for participating in bullying. Parents that think harrassing a kid that's gay, bi, mexican, black, handicapped should be be heavily fined just to drive the point home that it is NOT okay to bully. Period.
    • Ashley  •  Minneapolis, Minnesota  •  3 mths ago
      I graduated from Blaine High school. A school in Anoka Hennepin ISD #11. When I was in Middle school I was bullied RELENTLESSLY. The kids would stalk my house. Write sexual harassment letters and stick them in my locker. The ENTIRE cafeteria threw food at me in lunch. And the response that Roosevelt Middle school had was "We would like to send your child to an alternative school in Coon Rapids." Or some #$%$ along those words. They wanted to send me to CROSSROADS. A school in Coon Rapids that is for the DROP outs and expelled students of main stream. I graduated with a 3.0 GPA. You CAN'T just make the problem GO AWAY! DEAL WITH IT!
    • Bruce  •  El Cajon, California  •  3 mths ago
      Do on to others. As you would want others to do on to you. I learned that in Kindergarten. Sixty years ago.
    • Connie  •  3 mths ago
      Children learn by example and the parents of bullies need to look in the mirror...
    • skim  •  Fresno, California  •  3 mths ago
      I agree... bullying is bullying... I'm a teacher and students who bully any other students are scorned and given detention in my classroom. They have no right to destroy liberty of ANY one...
    • LA  •  Houston, Texas  •  3 mths ago
      No bullying or harrassment of any kind should be tolerated... no matter what race, religion, sexual orientation, etc.
    • Matt F  •  3 mths ago
      Good to see a policy that protects all students. Schools shouldn't be a place of fear, they should be a place of learning and understanding.
    • Scooter  •  3 mths ago
      Read the bible. You will be appalled at the terrible things it contains.
    • casazza65  •  New York, New York  •  3 mths ago
      It is shocking to me that any parent would condone their child bullying any students for any reason whatsoever!!
    • Andrew  •  Whittier, California  •  3 mths ago
      I dont get it i am Democrat and one of my favorite teacher who is a Republician always debate political ideas in class we respect each other and our opions also I have As in her class so she doesnt affect my grade based on what i believe in.
    • Apt Consideration  •  3 mths ago
      Bullying of any kind should be banned by both children and parents. It has way too many detrimental effects.
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