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    Pedophilia and Baby Ayla -- Side Story or Central Theme?

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    Pedophilia has crept into the investigation into what happened to missing Maine baby Ayla Reynolds. It remains unclear whether pedophilia is a side bar story or a central theme in the missing baby case.

    Public awareness of the possible role of pedophilia in the case stems from a Facebook post by the organizer of prayer vigils for Ayla. Bob Vear announced on the now-defunct Ayla's Community page (post copied here) that he is a pedophile. Case followers wonder if pedophilia played a role in baby Ayla's disappearance.

    * "I am a pedophile," Vear said in his post. "But because of Maine's law, I do not have to register as a sex offender, for it happened over 30 years ago. I had a blip in life. I was on street drugs, and they were heavy hitters." Vear's use of the present tense describing himself as a pedophile generated a strong reader reaction on the Statement Analysis blog.

    * Vear added Ayla Reynolds to his now-removed Facebook page as his "granddaughter" on Dec. 16. But like his Ayla Community page post, it was preserved by readers. "I know that with my other grand, I now take that much needed time, to hold him, to tell him that I love him, and before he turns his eyes inward at night, just give him a big ol PapaBoot hug. One never knows when the opportunity will present itself again. In the meanwhile, I just hope and pray, that my 'Little Buggie' will come home, so that I too, can give her that special PaPaBoot Hug and Kiss," Vear said.

    * Vear is a close friend of Lance DiPietro, Ayla's uncle, according to the Boston Globe. Vear claimed to have inside information about the case, stating he knew about blood found in the basement of the DiPietro home since Dec. 24, well before that information was released publicly. He also posted Jan. 29, "I, personally am involved deeper than you may, or even I realize, or in my personal case, realized."

    * One troubling aspect of the Vear post was his advice to an unnamed friend, "I know what you know. The 'Gig' is over. It's time to Fess Up. To be a man and do the right thing."

    * Readers expressed concern about the implications of Vear's word choices. For example, he said in a Bangor Post interview, "Tonight if you have a small child at home, hug and caress them. One never knows." Case followers pointed out the oddity of using the word caress to talk about a parent-child hug.

     

    22 comments

    • Adam  •  Washington, District of Columbia  •  3 mths ago
      What a #$%$ pervert. How someone can openly admit that they are a pedophile AND advise others to 'caress' their own children....I"m shocked. The world is full of evil. God protect us all.
      • Donna 3 mths ago
        I didn't get the impression at all that this man was "evil". I applaud his honesty. He said he made a drug-addled mistake 30 years ago. Neither you nor I know the story and he could have been just barely an adult, if that, and had an improper relationship with someone underage. In some states, if one is of age...17 or 18 and has sex with a minor girlfriend/boyfriend...maybe 14 or 15, he/she could be arrested and labelled a sex offender. As far as the word caress goes, I don't think he meant "fondle". He was merely stating that one should love their child today, because tomorrow the opportunity may be gone. Geez! Maybe my take on this is incorrect, but he didn't "have" to admit that he is or was a pedophile. Takes a lot of courage. I'm sure he has paid for his past inequities. His concern for Ayla sounds genuine and not of a "sick" nature. JMHO
      • Jessica 3 mths ago
        Pedophilia is someone who is sexually attracted to prepubescents. There's a big difference between say a 19 year old dating a 16 or 17 year old, and an adult man desiring a CHILD. I don't applaud anything about this man, or any like him.
      • Oogah-Boogah! 3 mths ago
        Donna must be a liberal. There is nothing to applaud this #$%$ bag for. He's done once before, he's bound to do it again.
    • jamiel  •  Lakewood, Washington  •  3 mths ago
      Psychological fact, there has never been a single case of a reformed pedohile, not one. If you are hard wired to find sexual arousal only from young children then you are always a danger. They need to be removed from society at the very least.
    • Poster  •  3 mths ago
      "Caress a cheek" wouldn't be creepy (though unusual verbiage in modern society). "Caress" as a stand alone....VERY creepy.
      • RoseH 3 mths ago
        which cheek?...
    • MZLAUREL  •  3 mths ago
      So this baby rapist feels good about the sewage that is going on in his heads?
      Why is this pond muck sullying grand parenthood?
      Instead of giving this POS newspaper space, why not encourage him to give a public speech, at the elementary school!
      Invite the local Dads and Moms to witness his "words of love" for baby raping...
      See if he lives to see another day!
    • Native American  •  Van Nuys, California  •  3 mths ago
      That dudes a weirdo.......
    • Rhonda Behmke  •  Watervliet, New York  •  3 mths ago
      wish someone would listen to me when I first let people know what a sick man he is. I was his victim and in a way will always be his victim.
      • johnette 3 mths ago
        Don't let him have that power over you Rhonda. You WAS his victum when you was a 9 year old innocent little girl. Tell everyone what he did to you. Let the world know how EVIL Bob Vear is. Give him that and only that....because it's the only thing he deserves! He named his daughter after my daughter.....So he must have been keeping "tabs" on our family for a long time after he got out of jail..... It makes me sick to think about him! ARGHHHHHH
      • Jessica 3 mths ago
        I'm sorry you went through that. I can't imagine what that would do someone emotionally, and I applaud you for being so courageous to come forward, it must be difficult. I hope you have a beautiful life. :)
    • Me  •  San Diego, California  •  3 mths ago
      I don't understand what has happened to these people to cause them to do such bad things to children. Are they born this way? Do they exhibit signs while growing up and can an intervention prevent them from offending in the first place? I know it's been going on as long as man kind has been around but there must be some way to end this. I know, I hear kill them all the time but unfortunatly killing them does no undo what they did. Theres gotta be a way to stop it!
      • John Boyd 3 mths ago
        It would be helpful if once they are caught & convicted they are NEVER again let out of jail. Some first time perverts don't even get jail time.
      • Joel 3 mths ago
        Evil isn't that confusing.
    • Walter  •  Livingston, New Jersey  •  3 mths ago
      Sad. You are what you are. They abuse children, want to abuse children until they physically can't anymore. A tradition in some households. Turns my stomach.
    • CeeCee  •  San Angelo, Texas  •  3 mths ago
      This guy is an exhibitionist. He wants us to KNOW he's a pedophile. He wants us to PICTURE him in our minds, raping a baby. He's dangling a carrot in front of us, and this gets him lots of attention. Also, he's toying with our emotions, carefully picking his words so they just stop short of fully incriminating himself. He knows that he won't be sought out by Law Enforcement, because some of his words can be taken in two different ways. What a #$%$ bag.
    • me  •  3 mths ago
      One words describes this whole mess: disgusting. I must go shower now.
    • Always Right  •  3 mths ago
      Something is way not right , someone look into this .
    • cc  •  3 mths ago
      Death penalty for pedophiles please...they lost societal privileges, and serve no purpose to keep them around.
      • RoseH 3 mths ago
        not blanket conviction... case by case... like you said, an 18/19 year old with a younger girl/boy friend... should not be included unless they make it a habit going after underage as they grow older
      • RoseH 3 mths ago
        God does not Condone this evil, people do.
    • nuk  •  Livingston, New Jersey  •  3 mths ago
      It is time for the United States to quit allowing this sickness to thrive in our environment. I cannot understand how someone finds children and infants sexually stimulating. I cannot understand killing children either. How much more of this can we allow?
    • Charles Martel  •  3 mths ago
      How can anyone think these monsters, these animals, can be rehabilitated? Those evil thoughts are still floating inside his brain. If not the death penalty, then at the very least a penal colony from which there is no return.
    • ohmy  •  3 mths ago
      #$%$ creeper...the only good pedo is a dead pedo
    • WonderingWanderer  •  3 mths ago
      Drugs+Sex=Dante's Inferno
    • Dee  •  Columbia, Missouri  •  3 mths ago
      Conservatives know how to deal with this. Liberals think it should be hands across america to get this guy counseling and treatment.
    • Commander  •  3 mths ago
      Considering the slippery slope that we are on. Pedophilia will be made legal by the liberals in less than a decade. Hey, if the gay argument that they were born that way worked the pedos will make the same arguement.
    • auwal  •  Newton Abbot, United Kingdom  •  3 mths ago
      Please, can someone tell me if it is a fiction? It reads fictitious.
    • RoseH  •  3 mths ago
      some body ought to take this twisted creep to the mill pond and toss him in it with the millstone... him and others with him who do this to children... Let God Judge him...
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