This February 2010 photo provided by the family shows siblings Benjamin and Nancy Dreyer in New York. Nancy, a lesbian, says she has noticed the different ways society treats gay men and lesbians, ... more 
This February 2010 photo provided by the family shows siblings Benjamin and Nancy Dreyer in New York. Nancy, a lesbian, says she has noticed the different ways society treats gay men and lesbians, partly because Benjamin is gay. The two say it's difficult to compare their experiences because he came out in college, and she in her early 30s. So he was the first to tell their parents. "They yelled at me. They took you to dinner," Benjamin Dreyer, who's 54 and works in publishing in New York City, now jokes with his sister. (AP Photo/Nancy Dreyer) less 
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Associated Press | Photo By Nancy Dreyer
Sat, Apr 27, 2013 3:45 PM EDT