This June 2012 photo provided by the family shows Joan Koffman, left, Nancy Dreyer and their son Gabe Dreyer in Newton, Mass. Nancy Dreyer says, "With gay male friends of ours who have kids, people ... more 
This June 2012 photo provided by the family shows Joan Koffman, left, Nancy Dreyer and their son Gabe Dreyer in Newton, Mass. Nancy Dreyer says, "With gay male friends of ours who have kids, people will say, 'My gosh, who takes care of this baby?' - as if they're not capable." The assumption, she says, is that men aren't nurturing. And if they're too nurturing, she says, people get suspicious, noting that no one has ever questioned her and her partner about their ability to raise their son, who's now in college. (AP Photo/Nancy Dreyer) less 
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Associated Press | Photo By Nancy Dreyer
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