In this photo taken Tuesday, March 25, 2014, messages written by visitors on fabric strips blow in the wind outside the Genocide Memorial Centre in Kigali, Rwanda. Alice Mukarurinda lost her baby ... more 
In this photo taken Tuesday, March 25, 2014, messages written by visitors on fabric strips blow in the wind outside the Genocide Memorial Centre in Kigali, Rwanda. Alice Mukarurinda lost her baby daughter and her right hand to a manic killing spree. Emmanuel Ndayisaba wielded the machete that took both. Yet today, despite coming from opposite sides of an unspeakable shared past, Alice Mukarurinda and Emmanuel Ndayisaba are friends. She is the treasurer and he the vice president of a group that builds simple brick houses for genocide survivors. They live near each other and shop at the same market. Their story of ethnic violence, extreme guilt and, to some degree, reconciliation is the story of Rwanda today, 20 years after its Hutu majority killed more than 1 million Tutsis and moderate Hutus. The Rwandan government is still accused by human rights groups of holding an iron grip on power, stifling dissent and killing political opponents. But even critics give President Paul Kagame credit for leading the country toward a peace that seemed all but impossible two decades ago. (AP Photo/Ben Curtis) less 
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Associated Press | Photo By Ben Curtis
Sun, Apr 6, 2014 9:21 AM EDT