In this Thursday, April 4, 2013 photo, Joey Carrillo, a senior at Elmhurst College, holds his fraternity paddle in Elmhurst, Ill. Carrillo, who is gay, painted a rainbow on his paddle and, while his ... more 
In this Thursday, April 4, 2013 photo, Joey Carrillo, a senior at Elmhurst College, holds his fraternity paddle in Elmhurst, Ill. Carrillo, who is gay, painted a rainbow on his paddle and, while his fraternity brothers had been supportive of his sexual orientation, a couple of them were upset when he appeared in a college video with the paddle. Carrillo says they were afraid people would assume they were gay, too. Research shows that, while people are more accepting of homosexuality, society, and particularly men, still have a more difficult time accepting gay men than lesbians. (AP Photo/Martha Irvine) less 
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Associated Press | Photo By Martha Irvine
Sat, Apr 27, 2013 3:45 PM EDT