ARLINGTON, VA - MAY 30: Local resident Denise Hlavaty leans on the head stone of her boyfriend Army Staff Sergeant Steve Butcher, Jr., of Rochester, New York, on Memorial Day May 30, 2011 at ... more 
ARLINGTON, VA - MAY 30: Local resident Denise Hlavaty leans on the head stone of her boyfriend Army Staff Sergeant Steve Butcher, Jr., of Rochester, New York, on Memorial Day May 30, 2011 at Arlington National Cemetery in Arlington, Virginia. Butcher was killed May 23, 2007 of wounds from an IED attack while he was serving in Ramadi, Iraq. (Photo by Alex Wong/Getty Images) less 
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