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    Sexual Predators Living with Momma in the Nursing Home

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    The Des Moines Register released a detailed story about a 90-year-old woman who was allegedly sexually attacked. Was the alleged predator working in the nursing home? No, he was living there by court order. Not only is he living there, but his roommate is also a sexual predator. They are 78 and 83 years old. They are not locked in their rooms but are free to go anywhere. This attack was witnessed by an 8-year-old girl who was visiting.

    It was hard to read that at least 15 of 188 Iowa nursing homes are housing convicted sexual predators. I suspect that may be the tip of the iceberg. Many victims suffer from such diseases as dementia. Some cannot communicate, and some are so terrorized, that they cannot or will not speak of the assaults. The story gets worse.

    The same nursing home, like many, bring young children to visit the residents. The predators, many who are convicted of being child predators, are part of the group. Apparently the staff is not permitted to disclose a patient's past crimes or give warning to those who come into the facility. You have to worry about Momma, and little Suzie and Johnny who are visiting Momma.

    Many aged predators are deemed as being mentally or physically challenged when they reach their senior years. They need assisted living. Evidently, they cannot be housed in prison, and the powers that be thought nursing homes would be a proper fit for them.

    Why can't Iowa build one special facility to care for convicted sexual predators? According to HHS site, $3.3 million is being spent on tobacco-free policies and other redundant tobacco related spending. Would that money be better spent on keeping our mothers and children protected from sexual predators?

    It is one thing to read this story and not know the victim. I implore you to close your eyes, visualize your momma laying in bed, and someone molesting or raping her, and there's nothing she can do. Visualize your child going on a field trip to a nursing home. Can you picture a friendly old man saying, "My, you are a pretty little girl, come sit on my lap?"

    A moratorium on Iowa nursing home inspections has been extended for over four more years. We are left to wonder who is living with momma.

     
    • No1BadBoy  •  6 mths ago
      Build another wing on the prison and put them in there.
      • jennie 6 mths ago
        I agree is they can't build a whole new building, then build just a bigger wing, keep our elderly and young children safe.....
    • Marie  •  6 mths ago
      I worked at the Wisconsin Veterans Home. We had a lot of old pervs there. They isolated them away from the women on their own floor in a an all male building. And the aids and nurses always went into their rooms in pairs.
      • Lina S. 6 mths ago
        wow its ridiculous that these people are so perverted they have to be isolated its like get a life
    • creed08  •  Charleston, United States  •  6 mths ago
      What happens now when this person is convicted of assault? Where will they put him? Why are nursing home staff not allowed to tell parents a child predator is living in the facility? Where is our duty to protect our children and elderly? I hope the woman's family sue the sox off that facility and the state of Iowa. It is very hard to know that a criminal's past can not be divulged so we can be protected against them.
      • rose 6 mths ago
        i gless the people that work there know who they are and should watch closer
      • stephen 6 mths ago
        This family should sue the state and the facility!
      • bama4ever 6 mths ago
        i work in a nursing home as a cna and i can tell you we do not even know who or what our residents are or have. we are not allowed to view their charts or know anything about them other then what we are told by our supervisors. when we ask to many questions they tell us its none of our business. so dont go blaming the aides who work there blame the administrators who let them come in.
    • Kelly  •  Fredonia, United States  •  6 mths ago
      They don't have to disclose past crimes?? Why the hell not? If they were living in the general public they'd be listed as sex offenders for ALL to see! This is SICK!! What morons thought this was ok??
      • stephen 6 mths ago
        Politicians, Lawyers and judges as usual!
      • Dawn 6 mths ago
        IF you were in their shoes, would disclose that information KNOWING that you would be looked down upon or excluded from long term medical treatment that is necessary? I don't agree with the practice, but you have to look at both sides here
      • J 6 mths ago
        Dawn, there is no "both sides" in this situation. these pervs chose to do what they did and people should turn a blind eye? Hell yes, they should be looked down upon like the scums they are. These monsters don't need long term medical treatment - for what? so they can get better, be healthy and continue to molest children and the elderly? Get real! If people are soooo concerned about these pervs well being then lock them up in a dedicated facility so that the general public and other residents are not subjected to their assaults.
    • r2d2  •  6 mths ago
      What a depressing article. Thank you for bringing attention to this topic. This should be forwarded to every congressman and senator in Iowa.

      I am so tired of hearing about pervs who prey on other humans the way animals prey on weaker animals in the wild. These people are of no use to society and need to be locked up forever, first offense.
      • dolores 6 mths ago
        I agree that this article is depressing. Bad people grow old too & often they are alone... for a reason.

        I disagree with your comparison of them to wild animals. Animals are not evil. If you are vegan then perhaps I can understand your comparison.
    • mindstar3000  •  6 mths ago
      This is one of the most depressing articles I've read in a long time. Set up a separate facility for these pervs.
    • Fred  •  6 mths ago
      Why are they in nurseing homes instead of prisons or dead.
    • gin  •  Fayetteville, United States  •  6 mths ago
      Having a mother that has Alzheimer's this literally makes me sick to my stomach. I only pray I do not have to put her in one of these horrible places. This is so screwed up.
    • Greg789  •  6 mths ago
      If the victim has alzheimer's, they can't report and I doubt a privately run nursing home is going to report if because of lawsuits.
    • Francesca  •  Norristown, United States  •  6 mths ago
      The 8 y.o. girl spoke up about the abuse faster than the Penn State characters did about what they witnessed.
    • Add 1 - 3 Inches  •  6 mths ago
      Pray you do not grow old and poor in America.
    • MICHAEL  •  Albuquerque, United States  •  6 mths ago
      THE UGLIEST THING IN AMERICA....the disposal of the aged.....thrown away like garbage....
    • Nikki  •  Contoocook, United States  •  6 mths ago
      I would personally castrate anyone who harmed my Nonna, I don't care how old he is. Perverts and molesters cannot be cured no matter what their parole officers say.
    • InquiringMindsWantToKnow. ...  •  6 mths ago
      Boy are they (facilities & the state) setting themselves up for a lot of lawsuits.
    • Sam  •  6 mths ago
      My friends mother was turned away from a nursing home in Dallas because she was a former smoker who hadn't had a cigarette in many years. Any elderly person, no matter their problems have to go somewhere. I think Marias answer was best, put them in an all male area and double team the staff. But remember, a sex offense is a very broad area. From a 19 year old having a relationship with a 16 year old (wrong but it happens) to a man who wont take no for an answer. My uncle, who was a preacher, was not a convicted sex offender but no one left any little girls around him. I guess my point is, You never know who is around you so precautions should always be foremost in the minds of everyone, no matter their age, their gender or who they are in contact with. Be cautious.
    • Crown Royal  •  Green Bay, United States  •  6 mths ago
      Bullets are cheaper.........
    • Honesty  •  6 mths ago
      Where is commonsense in all this? It seems we are more interested in protecting these evil
      predators, than their victims or society. I donot care about their rights, safety, or welfare. Keep them in a locked (prison) away from the most vulnerable and unsuspecting.
    • Wylene  •  Jackson, United States  •  6 mths ago
      It is illegal to disclose information about a nursing home resident to someone other than the responsible party. This is a federal regulation. It is sad that our government does not do more to protect the elderly and children. It is time to tell congress that we are tired of the budget cuts aimed at the elderly.
    • Menace  •  West Palm Beach, United States  •  6 mths ago
      Thy're crimminals, lock 'em up. So what if its tough for them, or they dont get the 'assisted care" they "need". Tough luck, let them suffer like thier victims have. karma's a #$%$
    • Dawn  •  Carbondale, United States  •  6 mths ago
      I can agree with 99% of the posts here but as having worked in nursing homes my entire career, I can tell you that most elderly men are 'pervs' and pose no threat to anyone, but those cases are dealt with on a case-by-case basis (in a facility where communication with administration is open, and the administrators care about what their "eyes & ears" tell them).
      Now as for sex offenders living amongst everyday residents in a facility, there needs to be provisions put in place to ensure the safety of the fellow residents, the staff, and visitors... Criminal background checks should be a part of the admission process (not to be used as a qualifier for placement, just knowing the background [if any] of the patient, as families are hesitant to give up that information). If something in that check turns up, then it should be evaluated by the administration and medical director...and the medical history and current diagnosis' need to be the center of the discussion, not what this person was convicted of before they got sick (but it needs to be acknowledged).
      I am not saying there are those who shouldn't be in a prison type, long term care facility for the nature of their crimes, but if they are free, that is against their rights (as horrible as that sounds, they still have them) to put them back into a criminal setting as they have already served their sentence to the public... I guess I should have pointed out earlier that NOT ALL PEOPLE ON THE SEX OFFENDER REGISTRY ARE A THREAT TO THE GENERAL PUBLIC...
      The only thing we can do is provide education for the people and businesses running our long term care facilities about the importance of these background checks to ensure the safety of the persons living in, working in, or visiting the facility...but if a person is denied admittance to a NH based on the SOR, you open yourself up to discrimination lawsuits and more problems...this isn't a clear cut case of 'drop em off a cliff and be done with it'... Our state governments need to put in place some policies that will force companies and administrations to do the checks, but they have so much else going on that our elderly population is on the back burner, which deeply saddens me...
      I am sure this case is an isolated incident and the facility is taking the steps now to prevent another (but I do agree that is should have [and could have] been prevented had they done the simple SOR check upon admission) Hind sight is 20/20
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