The Des Moines Register released a detailed story about a 90-year-old woman who was allegedly sexually attacked. Was the alleged predator working in the nursing home? No, he was living there by court order. Not only is he living there, but his roommate is also a sexual predator. They are 78 and 83 years old. They are not locked in their rooms but are free to go anywhere. This attack was witnessed by an 8-year-old girl who was visiting.
It was hard to read that at least 15 of 188 Iowa nursing homes are housing convicted sexual predators. I suspect that may be the tip of the iceberg. Many victims suffer from such diseases as dementia. Some cannot communicate, and some are so terrorized, that they cannot or will not speak of the assaults. The story gets worse.
The same nursing home, like many, bring young children to visit the residents. The predators, many who are convicted of being child predators, are part of the group. Apparently the staff is not permitted to disclose a patient's past crimes or give warning to those who come into the facility. You have to worry about Momma, and little Suzie and Johnny who are visiting Momma.
Many aged predators are deemed as being mentally or physically challenged when they reach their senior years. They need assisted living. Evidently, they cannot be housed in prison, and the powers that be thought nursing homes would be a proper fit for them.
Why can't Iowa build one special facility to care for convicted sexual predators? According to HHS site, $3.3 million is being spent on tobacco-free policies and other redundant tobacco related spending. Would that money be better spent on keeping our mothers and children protected from sexual predators?
It is one thing to read this story and not know the victim. I implore you to close your eyes, visualize your momma laying in bed, and someone molesting or raping her, and there's nothing she can do. Visualize your child going on a field trip to a nursing home. Can you picture a friendly old man saying, "My, you are a pretty little girl, come sit on my lap?"
A moratorium on Iowa nursing home inspections has been extended for over four more years. We are left to wonder who is living with momma.




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