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    Teens of Lesbian Parents Appear Well-Adjusted

    MONDAY, Jan. 16 (HealthDay News) -- Teenagers with lesbian mothers are as well adjusted as their peers being raised by heterosexual parents, according to a new study from the University of Amsterdam.

    These teens reported having a good quality of life, despite teasing or other stereotypes they may face.

    "Adolescent offspring in planned lesbian families do not show differences in quality of life when compared with adolescents reared in heterosexual families," wrote researchers led by Loes van Gelderen.

    In the study in the January issue of the Journal of Developmental & Behavioral Pediatrics, 78 teens with lesbian mothers living in the United States took an online survey about their quality of life. The researchers compared these with surveys completed by teens with heterosexual parents.

    The study revealed all the teens had similar favorable views on their quality of life, such as how well they got along with their parents and how much they looked forward to the future, according to a journal news release.

    "Adolescents living with lesbian parents function as well as, or sometimes better than, those reared by opposite-sex parents," the researchers wrote.

    Survey responses of the teens with lesbian mothers were not affected by whether they knew who their biological father was or whether their mother had changed partners since their birth.

    Although about 40 percent of these teens admitted they faced unfair or unkind treatment related to having a lesbian parent, that did not affect how they rated their quality of life.

    The researchers said schools should educate students on diversity and enforce a no-tolerance for bullying policy, as classmates were the most common source of this ridicule. "Such changes to the educational system would benefit youths from all family types," they concluded.

    More information

    The American Psychological Association provides information on same-sex parenting.

     
    • Doug Murphy  •  Dallas, Texas  •  4 mths ago
      The article really relates to surveying technique and identifiable measures of success by measurable observations that are not necessarily related to the sexual orientation of the
      parents. Here is what you can take from the article: Children who have a consistent stable home environment, positive reinforcement, access to good healthcare and education, as well as a range of choices and opportunities, tend to become well adjusted adults, even if the parental unit consists of same sex partners.

      You can't measure parents, good or bad, solely by their sexual orientation. No comparison study between gay and non gay parents would be statistically accurate because the number of factors, measurable and not measurable, are simply to great. Also, gay parents will not be the genetic source for the child, so allowing for genetic characteristics per-ordained is an impossible measurement to ascertain.
      • Grim Reaper 4 mths ago
        I agree that the sexual orientation of the parent is not important for the production of a stable home environment. Unfortunately statistics aren't always heeded especially among those fervent that homosexuality is unnatural. Personally I am heterosexual but do not shun homosexuals anymore than I would shun any other race or creed or group of people. And I believe they have the right to become lawful partners enjoying all the benefits of such a union.
      • Dawnelle 4 mths ago
        Couldn't say it any better Doug!
    • Autumn  •  Denver, Colorado  •  4 mths ago
      It's more important that you have loving parents who care about you than what sex they are. These women obviously wanted children very much and probably treat them better because of the opposition they face from society.
    • throwbacksSuck  •  4 mths ago
      i know 2 brothers who were raised by their lesbian mother and her partner. she was married to their father when they were born but he hasn't been in their lives since they were very very young. you'd never know they were raised by a lesbian. they're perfectly normal.
      • Newbie 4 mths ago
        ...what do you suppose they feel like when not in public?
      • Carrie White 4 mths ago
        Good gawd you're an idiot, noob.
      • throwbacksSuck 4 mths ago
        honestly, i highly doubt they think about it under normal cirumstances. if you had a parent die at a very young age, you probably dont think about it 24/7..obviously its a part of your life and who you are, but it doesnt define a person. it's so absolutely ingrained in their life since they were so young so that they dont know any different (obviously they realize its not typical) so as long as their parents are good parents that love them, i doubt they put much thought into it
    • Kristen  •  4 mths ago
      The best parents are the ones that love you.
      • faith 4 mths ago
        my dog loves me, is he my parent too? Little Johnny is confused:-(
      • BanCu 4 mths ago
        Dog = animal. Parent = human. I know it's difficult concept but there it is.
    • Not Today  •  4 mths ago
      Online survey huh? How many teens would actually do a face to face interview? These kids are forced to endure this #$%$ because they don't have a choice. Let's see an article about how many of these kids are runaways and rejects. U of Amsterdam? if this was an article on drug potency then maybe it would be beleivable.
    • Missa  •  4 mths ago
      Look ... raising children is pretty much a crap shoot. While it is true that two loving, comitted, involved parents, irrespective of gender and sexual stereotypes, are more likely to raise loving, comitted, involved children, there are no guarantees. I know some really screwed up people who came from the "best" of families, and I know some saints who survived upbringings that would curl your hair.
      • erika 4 mths ago
        anyone can come from a bad background but it is what you do with it that matters. I gave my life to JESUS CHRIST and though i may have ups and downs God never changes. he is an awesome parent . he is loving but he also has another side that can disipline. thats a good parent..Read his word bible and youll see.
    • Tiffany  •  Bloomfield, New Mexico  •  4 mths ago
      It shouldn't matter what the parents preference is as long as the child is in a loving stable environment.
      • myopinionrocks 4 mths ago
        SO SEXUAL PERVERSION IS OK WITH U?
      • Omnipotent 4 mths ago
        One person's water is another person's wine. It's a matter of perspective. How two consenting adults show love and intamacy for each other is nobodys business but theirs.
      • Foufana 4 mths ago
        tiffany..if parenys love their children they will not lie to them. To tell, or demonstrate, that a sexual relationship other than between a man and woman who are married to each other is acceptable, is to lie.
    • CJ  •  4 mths ago
      This is the second study just today that I've seen on this topic. The conclusions in both studies show that: Contraty to the ignorant belief that it is somehow damaging to children, in actuality the parents' sexual orientation has NO negative affect in how "well adjusted" and otherwise, happy and normal the children turn out. In fact, it shows that there are some ways that same-sex parents "as-a group" may even be "better" parents ie: They make the conscious choice to be parents (vs, having unplanned pregnancies), and they are more likely to teach such positive attitudes as diversity, tolerance,acceptance, non-discrimination, etc. It appears that the ONLY thing that negatively affects children of same-sex parents are NOT therir parent's sexuality but rather, the ignorant, stupid, closed-minded attitudes and resulting treatment they may suffer from, at the hands of the self-righteous human garbage that feels entitled to mistreat others who don't believe exactly the same as they themselves do. To my way of thinking then, regardless of their so-called justification, our society would be far better off to be rid of those that advocate hate towards homsexuals or same-sex parents/parenting. Children are FAR BETTER off not being raised by parents that would instill those negatives values in them. Everyone has the right to believe and act as they choose within the law (providing they don't victimize or hurt someone else)..but that goes for EVERYONE. No one has the right to deny or begrudge others the right to live their own life happily as they choose.
    • Amber  •  Charlotte, North Carolina  •  4 mths ago
      Of course same sex parents would be good parents. They can't have children accidentally and have to prepare carefully for them. Children raised by same sex parents are wanted, and many children of hetero parents are unplanned and unwanted.
    • Sierra  •  Little Rock, Arkansas  •  4 mths ago
      Okay, so what I'm getting from these hateful comments is that the majority of people are worried that by having homosexual parents, the kids themselves will turn out homosexual, therefore they believe there is a coming of the extinction of the human race....and what I have to say to this is "loololololololol"! Seriously, guys, where do you think the homosexual population of today came from in the first place? That's right, perfectly straight parents, many of them God fearing Christians like yourselves. The people speaking with hate are speaking in ignorance, and it is these people who will end up bringing up the extinction of the human race with that hatred that fuels war and greed, especially since the someone as "powerful" as the Pope is giving sanction to these people. And, honestly people, if you are going to quote the bible and try to make your unsound hatred sound intelligent, at least use proper grammar and spelling. Lol!
    • Chickidy56  •  4 mths ago
      Reading these comments are making me so sick! people that use the bible to hate people are the biggest hippocryites! I am a Christian in the sense that I believe Jesus Christ is the son of God. I also think that the bible is mostly a bunch of crap not written by God, but by man who imposes what they think is right. For the people that are saying being Gay is a choice, I ask you.. could you be gay? Really could you let yourself have sex and fall inlove with someone that is the same sex as you if that was what society told you to do. Lets take a straight man and put him in a room and tell him that loving women is wrong and perverted, and that he is going to hell. Would he still be attracted to women even though society is telling him that he is wrong? Being gay is not a choice, its a way of being. As a straight woman, I feel so sorry for people that discover they are gay. Not because its wrong, but because of all the crap that self rightous like to put them through. They have to give up so much, just to live right by their own terms. How can the bible say we have a forgiving God that loves us all, and create these feelings in people and then say oh well your going to hell now? if you are not gay and dont agree with it, then fine, just keep your #$%$ mouth SHUT! and let people live their own lives!
    • cantdrive85  •  Denver, Colorado  •  4 mths ago
      The key word is 'appear', and appearances can be deceiving.
    • Ashley  •  4 mths ago
      Oh yeah because straight parents are so much better? I'd take these two women as mothers over some of the idiots you see raising children these days... How about the couple who starved their child over video games?

      The gender of your parents does not matter any more than the race... Any one who says other wise is just an ignorant schmuck.
    • Mo105  •  4 mths ago
      OMG, online survey and so small sample, only 78 teens, how valid is that? Not at all.
    • ditto  •  4 mths ago
      hmmm....was there suppose to be a difference?
    • A Little Bit Queer  •  Houston, Texas  •  4 mths ago
      Does it ever occur to any of you that it is wrong to hurt and insult people for being different than you. You really ought to know better but you let your overdeveloped sense of self-righteousness pour out ugliness at other people.
    • Mrjesse  •  Dayton, Ohio  •  4 mths ago
      Kids are better off being raised by homosexuals than they are evangelicals. At least homosexuals might actually come to Jesus, whereas modern evangelicals want nothing to do with Him.
    • john q  •  4 mths ago
      the gay gene defense is pretty much shot down when they repetively try to recruit straights. after all, they say its a gay gene so they cant be changed straight ... but they never once thought it would have to work the same way with the straight gene not being able to be converted gay ... hmmn.
    • Independant Thinker  •  4 mths ago
      A good parent is a good parent regardless of sexuality. Not every homosexual parent is perfect, but neither is every heterosexual parent.
    • Jason C  •  Albany, New York  •  4 mths ago
      I just wish people would just understand that Gay and Lesbian people ARE people too! Homosexuality is just as natural as Heterosexuality! And NO being gay is NOT a choice! And also, why does everyone think of homosexuality as "Perverted"!? How the hell is it perverted? People wouldn't be saying it's perverted if it was two straight people!
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