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    Why Are Men Dominating the Debate About Birth Control for Women?

    Why Are Men Dominating the Debate About Birth Control for Women?

    Republican politicians are treading into murky (read: sexist) waters in the contraception debate. Earlier today, in protest of House Oversight Committee Chairman Rep. Darrell Issa's refusal to allow women onto a panel of witnesses at the hearing on the White House mandate to require employers and insurers to provide contraception coverage, Reps. Carolyn Maloney (D-NY) and Eleanor Holmes Norton (D-DC) walked out, garnering a significant amount of media attention and setting off an ensuing furor among women and men. Why no women? Issa said, “the hearing is not about reproductive rights and contraception but instead about the Administration’s actions as they relate to freedom of religion and conscience."

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    Currently under the Obama plan, in cases in which religious groups are involved, contraception coverage will be offered to women by their employers’ insurance companies directly, so that religious employers who oppose contraception don't have to be involved with that nasty business. What Issa means is that the hearing is about whether requiring insurers to cover birth control violates the religious freedom of people who don't believe that birth control should, essentially, exist. The people on his panel, then, were men. Religious men. (Two women appeared on a second panel at the hearing. Both spoke against contraception.)

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    But back to Issa's statement: How do you take "reproductive rights and contraception" out of a conversation about birth control? You can't. You might try to ignore those parts of the conversation because you want to get a specific answer, for a specific purpose. And allowing women on a panel to talk about how and why they need birth control -- and how and why they need insurers to pay for it -- detracts from that mission. 

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    In tackier, more sensational headlines, Rick Santorum pal Foster Friess announced on MSNBC today that back in the old days the "gals" used to just put some Bayer Aspirin between their knees as a handy (and cheap!) contraception method, thereby winning him "most moronic statement of the day." But less attention was paid to how Friess went on to further belittle the issue of birth control, insinuating that all this focus on stupid lady crap when there are more important issues at stake (like wars), is the marking of a randy, sex-obsessed culture:

    Here we have millions of our fellow Americans unemployed, we have jihadist camps being set up in Latin America, which Rick has been warning about, and people seem to be so preoccupied with sex. I think it says something about our culture. We maybe need a massive therapy session so we can concentrate on what the real issues are. 

    Rush Limbaugh comes down on this side, with a bit more of a conspiracy angle, saying Democrats "ginned up" the contraception debate to divide the GOP and distract from the real issues. 

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    But what are the real issues? Sex, and everything related to it -- you could argue that very little is not related to sex in some way -- surely, is one of them. Surely Friess knows that. (We dare say his words have the confessional mark of "methinks the man doth protest too much.") 

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    Friess, Limbaugh, and Issa, each in different ways, are trying to desexualize and downplay the importance of an issue that is, at its core, about not only sex but also men and women, power, religion, socioeconomics, relationships, healthcare, equal rights, and, not to speak too broadly, but pretty much our entire global future. We'll throw Issa a bone: Fine, this particular hearing is also about freedom of religion and conscience -- things that women have opinions on just as much as men do, just like men should care about birth control just as much as women do. But, two facts: Men don't actually get pregnant, and we have nothing to gain from a one-sided conversation about an issue that impacts us all. It's doubly insulting when women, who have been dealing with birth control on their own for years, are left out of the conversation or added as an afterthought. Come on, politicians. We're all grown ups here. If you feel the need to giggle behind your hand when someone mentions sex, you should excuse yourself from the table. Didn't we all take health class back in high school? (As House Minority Leader Nancy Pelosi said today, “What else do you need to know about the subject? I may, I may at some point be moved to explain biology to my colleagues.”)

    The simple answer of why men are dominating the conversation on birth control is that, regardless of strides made, men continue to largely dominate the conversation in politics. The more complicated answer is that the men who are dominating the conversation on birth control -- and you can count Mitt Romney, Rick Santorum, and Florida Senator Marco Rubio among those who've come out against the White House contraception plan -- are deeply afraid of losing the conservative vote, and, it seems, conservatives continue to be deeply afraid of women having free and equal control over their own bodies and all that follows from that. Like having sex. Creating fewer unwanted children. And women taking care of themselves. What a sin. 

     
    • WGAF  •  Conroe, Texas  •  3 mths ago
      Look out Ladies.....Burkas are going to be required very soon!
    • Janie  •  3 mths ago
      My sister married a Catholic boy back in the late 60's. Of course, birth control was prohibited by the church except for the rhythm method. So, before marrying this young man, she asked if he had any objections to her use of birth control pills after they married. His reply "God, I thought you'd never ask! Yes, yes, by all means yes!!!" They've been happily married for nearly 47 years. Became parents of a boy and a girl whose births they carefully planned three years apart. They were able to help both children through college and, today, are proud grandparents of three adorable little ones....also planned thanks to the use of birth control.
      • kim a 3 mths ago
        and this has what to do with whether or not the church should be forced to provide it?
      • MM 3 mths ago
        Yes Kim it does. The church has no right to dictate what is offered in health care. Do you want your church to tell you what medicines will be paid for if you pay into a health care plan? NO. You should be able to decide for yourself. Including this Catholic couple. Their lives, their decision.
      • Andy 3 mths ago
        And that is how it is supposed to work! Nobody is trying to eliminate birth control! Your sister and husband paid for thier birth control on thier own. That is the way it should be.
    • Geronimo  •  3 mths ago
      The "good ole boys" club has always joked about keeping women barefoot & pregnant in the kitchen! Anyone surprised to uncover such blatant self righteousness & arrogance under the rotten log of male chauvinism in this country? Sexism goes hand in hand with racism! We still have plenty of both in America.
    • Lasombradia  •  3 mths ago
      Ok. Remove BC from insurance. I will opt OUT of Gastric bypass for obsese people (b/c they ate too much and refuse to work out), I opt OUT liver surgery (for alcoholics who drank themselves sick), I opt OUT of preventative health for children (they are NOT mine), I also would like to opt OUT of being taxed for social security (I will not see a dime of it) and serial welfare users. Ya know what send the the list of what all American who pay into the system pays for and let me pick and choose what I dont want to pay for.

      Oh and make churches and religious institutions pay taxes. They can at least do their part in paying down our debt while condemning our moral decay.

      Ladies add more if there is something you'd like to opt out of....
      • mavis 3 mths ago
        SORRY.......MAGGOT..................CHURCHES DIDN'T "CREATE" THE DEBT...........AND THEY CERTAINLY DIDN'T "BENEFIT" FROM IT...........SORRY#$%$ LEECHES LIKE YOU DID...........AND I REFUSE TO PAY FOR IT...............AND I GOT LOTS OF COMPANY.............LOTS OF WELL-ARMED COMPANY............IF YOU AND THIS PUKE-A-DENT WANT A SHOWDOWN..............YOU WON'T LIKE THE RESULTS...........AT ALL !!!
      • Steph C 3 mths ago
        Mavis, you are a raving lunatic with poor comprehension skills.
      • Murvyn R.C 3 mths ago
        Mavis, come out of the closet. You're a man with a female handle. What's up with that? Confused? Undecided? Transgendered, maybe?
    • Linda  •  Crescent City, Florida  •  3 mths ago
      Why is birth control such an issue! I think birth control is an individual decision and should not be any concern of another individual or of the government. state or federal or religious organization. Take care of your own business and keep out of mine.
      • JCrab 3 mths ago
        It's an issue because of those who breed just to get bigger welfare checks.
      • Die Zimtzicke 3 mths ago
        And it's an issue because Catholic Hospitals take government money.
      • Aragomon 3 mths ago
        Why can't you let me practice my religious beliefs without dragging me into YOUR bedroom??? By the way if you want a condom, buy them yourself ...
    • FEED the RICH  •  3 mths ago
      Rush Limbaugh was running his fat mouth about women - Yet why doesn't he have the decently to say hes been married 4 times- no children-- You think those women and others were using birth control??
      • thingsmaynotwork 3 mths ago
        Just look at him! Hear that simple minded blather spewing from his mouth...That's his own form of birth control! Those women may have been crazy enough to marry him, but at some point common sense prevailed...'Can't in good conscience perpetuate this stagnant gene pool!'
      • mary 3 mths ago
        or maybe rushbo had a little snippy snippy---vascectomy, at the expense of his other fellow insurance members!!!!!
      • MXX 3 mths ago
        I cannot stand Rush Limbaugh. He is a disgusting fat pig. No wonder he doesn't have children. Who could stand to f#@% him.
    • thingsmaynotwork  •  3 mths ago
      To all government, on all levels, of both genders:
      keep you nose out of my uterus!
    • Robert B  •  3 mths ago
      Is this a quiz? What a foolish question. The answer is, because males still control just about everything, especially conservative religious organizations. We all know the old saying, "If men had every other baby, all families would have two kids."
    • c  •  Evansville, Indiana  •  3 mths ago
      like many women, i am grateful i have been able to choose NOT to have children.
    • the skipper  •  Atlanta, Georgia  •  3 mths ago
      How would you feel if vasectomy control was dominated by women???????????????
    • legalswashbuckler  •  Colusa, California  •  3 mths ago
      Men dominate the Republican debate on birth control.
    • Belinda  •  Chicago, Illinois  •  3 mths ago
      It is a shame nobody said one word when insurance companies pay for Viagra, but birth control pills or other forms of contraception now everybody is mad.
    • cheffy chef  •  3 mths ago
      If the government made women take birth control that would violate their religious freedom. Making it available does not. Health care plans have tons of coverage that no one wants or uses. Should they stop covering blood transfusions because Jehovah's Witnesses don't believe in them? Should we spend all kinds of money changing every insurance plan so nothing that offends anyone of any religion will be taken out? Wouldn't it be wiser for Catholics just not to use birth control if they do not want to?
    • Marie P  •  Centro, Mexico  •  3 mths ago
      This ridiculous debate is going on because it's an election year. And most of the men opposed to birth control are a bunch of hypocrites. In the end, women should have the right to decide if they want to practice birth control or not, and most women do. I'm a Catholic, but I decided i only wanted two children. I used different forms of contraceptives. And I'm not sorry about it. It was what felt right for me.
    • Java  •  3 mths ago
      Women should be free to do as they wish in regards to their wombs. Men, should stay out.
    • on vapas crier!  •  Murfreesboro, Tennessee  •  3 mths ago
      because its easier to understand than fiscal/financial policy.
    • Sam  •  Yadkinville, North Carolina  •  3 mths ago
      Santorum's money guy really helped his cause today with his d-bag comment about women holding an aspirin between their legs.......old, white guys....what idiots here in the 21st century
    • S E  •  Phoenix, Arizona  •  3 mths ago
      Like there aren't some important things to discuss besides this? Watch out ladies soon you will be forced to have a baby like it or not.
    • 13th islander  •  Los Angeles, California  •  3 mths ago
      Why do the Catholic Church and evangelicals get so much press on this issue?
      Why do women identify themselves as Catholics when it tries to subvert their rights?
      Why are so many right-wing politicians against birth control?
      Why do so many women blame "men" (most of whom support a woman's right to birth control) just because these politicians are against it?
    • mary  •  3 mths ago
      Please, if you are a man do not give your opinion on why a woman should NOT take the pill and have it covered by her insurance. Unless you have a uterus, and possible female problems which can be helped by the pill, and a large bank account to cover the costs of the pill and possible pregnancies......your comments are not necessary or wanted.

      STAY OUT OF MY UTERUS!!!!! I will make my own decisions about my female parts and what I feel is medically necessary for my own body. I too am paying for my health insurance premiums. AND....I do not want to pay for your VIAGRA or for your VASECTOMIES either, but you have not heard my complain like all of you are!!!!
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