6 ways to help dads and daughters stay close
LANSING, Mich. (WLNS) – It’s Parenting Connection Tuesday and 6 News is here for you with tips, strategies, and helpful reminders from child development experts on how we can be better parents and guardians.
Today’s topic: 6 ways to help dads and daughters stay close.
I’m in the middle of trying to make sure the relationship I have with my daughter remains special. She’s now a middle schooler, and so what I say doesn’t matter as much as before. She’s also making more of her own decisions now, getting influenced through friends and screen time, and it’s clear my role is changing.
A clinical psychologist at the Child Mind Institute says adolescence can be a difficult time for fathers and daughters. Doctor Jerry Brubick says, when little girls grow into young women, it can be hard for dads to figure out where, and how, they fit in. The role goes from being the hero of the house to more of a consultant, but here are 6 ways dads can stay close during this transitional time:
Listen, don’t lecture. Doctor Brubick says, instead of making decisions for them, we want to hear what they’re saying and then guide them in making smart decisions for themselves.
Be generous with praise. This will help build and maintain her confidence during a time that can filled with all sorts of pressures.
Get involved with the things she’s interested in. It can be as simple as her favorite show or musical artist.
Watch your language. Experts say young girls look to their fathers for cues on how men should behave in relationships.
Be an ally. It’s important to offer her support on things you’ve never had to experience, and that you take her seriously.
Show your love. Doctors say it’s important not to withdraw your affection. Navigating the changes that come with adolescence isn’t easy, but doctors say, well worth it to keep a dad-and-daughter relationship strong.
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