12 Fun Holiday Gift Exchange Ideas You Haven't Thought of

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Shopping for the perfect gift for your friends, family (and coworkers, if you do an office gift exchange!) can be a challenge—and honestly, sometimes it's easy to slip into going through the motion of gift-giving during the holidays. But there's no reason to resort to a gift card: If you need some inspiration to get you through your shopping list or make giving gifts easier and more fun, we've got some clever gift exchange ideas that make the season merry! Whether you're celebrating together in person or in different cities and need some mail-friendly options, these festive gift exchange ideas can work for just about any group of people. Plus, they ensure that everyone gets a thoughtful (or, at the very least, memorable) gift. But most importantly, they make sure everyone has a little extra fun in the process.

Secret Santa

You really can't go wrong with the classic—and it works in just about any setting, too (the office, friends, family, classrooms, etc.) If you've never done a Secret Santa or Secret Snowflake gift exchange before, it's a pretty simple concept: You set a price limit that works for your group, and then each participant draws a recipient's name from a hat without sharing who they got. The name they chose is who they have to buy a gift for. Then, gifters can either reveal their identities as they pass out gifts, or you can have everyone guess who their Secret Santa was. While it is very tempting to investigate who is shopping for your gift, you're also motivated to find something amazing in the hopes that everyone is putting in the same effort! You can easily do a Secret Santa exchange via mail if you're celebrating long-distance—you can even reveal your identities over Zoom!

Yankee Swap

Rather than draw names and shop for specific people, in a Yankee Swap, each person buys one nice, quality gift (that stays at or below a chosen price point) and wraps it, keeping their gift a secret. Come exchange day, everyone draws a number, and each number represents the order in which people get to choose their gifts. The first person will open their chosen gift before the second person chooses, and so on. Recipients can choose to steal one of the open gifts from someone who went before them (those who already opened one would get to open a new one, in this case), or open a new one.

White Elephant

White Elephant is another classic that brings in a lot of entertainment (and a little drama). In a White Elephant gift exchange, participants follow the same rules as a Yankee Swap, but with one major twist: you can choose a rule for the gifts. Gag gifts, funny gifts, gifts under $25—it definitely is an exchange that brings in a lot of laughter. More for a crowd with a sense of humor, the gifts you choose for a White Elephant swap can be just about anything (again, under a set price limit) from things you already own and no longer want to the strangest things you can find at the store—something another person might actually want or be able to use, but weird and unique nonetheless. If you don't want your gift, you can switch it for something else, but the risk is yours to take!

Pick a Theme

You can buy gifts for everyone or follow the general rules of a Secret Santa or Yankee Swap if you'd like—it really just depends on who you're exchanging gifts with. The structure is up to you, but the concept is what matters—everyone buys gifts that fit a certain theme. Try to pick a theme that everyone can get behind, or you can even have everyone submit a theme on a piece of paper and have someone draw one out of a hat. This is another great option if you're celebrating in different cities, and might even make mailing your gifts more fun.

Make It a Scavenger Hunt

Channel your inner child with a gift-based scavenger hunt. Have everyone in your crew buy small- to medium-size gifts and wrap them. At someone's home, hide the presents. You can limit it to a basement, the backyard, or even the whole house. Once everyone finds a present, gather in one room and have each person open the gift they found for a fun surprise—do it one at a time or all at once! Be sure to be creative when spreading the gifts throughout your home, and if you're participating, prepare to think like a curious kid!

Gift Auction

For a little friendly competition, set a price point and have everyone buy a gift that they leave unwrapped, so everyone can see what they are. Put the gifts on display with empty cups or jars next to them. Give everyone the same amount of fake money (Monopoly money works great for this!). Have each person go up and show off the gift they bought, asking for bids. The person with the highest bid wins the gift. Do this until all of the gifts have been distributed.

Trivia Swap

Another competitive option? Host a trivia night with gifts as prizes. Set a price cap, have everyone buy a gift and wrap it, and then get ready for a rousing game of trivia. The person with the most correct answers gets to choose first, the second-place winner second, and so on and so forth until everyone has received a gift. If you want, you can also add the option to steal gifts like in a Yankee Swap, but it might get a little too competitive and definitely won't be an early night.

Musical Gifts

This idea is basically musical chairs but for gifts. Have everyone buy a gift under the price limit and wrap it, but from there, you can do this a few different ways. Place wrapped gifts under chairs and have everyone swap chairs until the music stops—then, the present under the chair you're sitting in is the one you get to keep. Or, you could avoid swapping chairs and just pass gifts in a circle until the music stops, and whatever gift ends up in your hands at that point is yours. Curate your Christmas playlist to set a joyful mood throughout the game.

Mug Exchange

A great option for coworkers, have everyone buy a new mug and fill it with small treats and goodies (again, up to a certain price limit). You can follow the Secret Santa model with each person making up a mug for a specific person in secret, go for a Yankee swap, or even use these in an auction, trivia, or musical gifts swap—how you want to exchange them is up to you, but this way all of the gifts are pretty equal.

Give to Give Back

Another thoughtful option that works just as well for coworkers as it does for friends and family: a charity swap. Rather than buying and wrapping gifts, everyone can draw names and then donate a set amount of money to a charity of their recipient's choice, helping everyone to give back to an organization that means something to them. This is another great option for long-distance festivities since you don't need to be in the same place to make it happen.

Cookie Swap

Another option that's not quite as gift-centric, a cookie swap is a great idea, especially in an office setting. Rather than buying gifts, have everyone bake (or buy) and bring in their favorite cookie recipe (keeping any allergies in consideration, of course), then put them all out in a spread. Have everyone bring their own container to take some of each batch home for the holidays. If you're celebrating long distance, you can even consider setting up a mailing system so that everyone sends out a small package of cookies to everyone else on the list.

Christmas Crackers

If your family is looking for a new tradition or fun gift exchange, this idea will definitely make an impact. Christmas crackers are gifts wrapped in a tube-like shape and line with a confetti popping stick. Pull the tube apart and it will make a popping noise, and reveal the small gift. They're super easy to make and will be a hit for all ages. If you have any leftover stocking stuffers, here's your time to shine! Offer one to your guests as they enter your home.

Looking for more gift inspiration? Check out House Beautiful's holiday gift guides for men, women, teens, teachers, and more.


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