Criminals, or just bad parents? Jury will hear case against Oxford school shooter's parents

More than two years after the Oxford High School massacre, a historic trial begins this week for Jennifer and James Crumbley, as prosecutors seek to do what has never been done before: hold parents criminally responsible for a deadly mass school shooting.

After months of legal feuding and mudslinging by lawyers, it will finally be up to a jury to decide this unprecedented and significant issue. Legal experts stress that the first critical task at hand, jury selection, could ultimately decide the case.

At 8:30 a.m. Tuesday, a pool of prospective jurors will fill a courtroom in Pontiac, where both sides will try to seat an impartial jury that can set aside their emotions and opinions, and decide the fate of a mother whose teenage son murdered four classmates, using a gun his parents had bought him as an early Christmas present.

James and Jennifer Crumbley are charged with involuntary manslaughter, though the wife will go to trial first; the husband's trial is scheduled to start March 5. The charges are linked to their son Ethan Crumbley, who at 15 killed four and wounded seven people at his school on Nov. 30, 2021. The son pleaded guilty and was sentenced to spend the rest of his life in prison.

Jennifer Crumbley, sat to the left of attorney Mariell Lehman as her husband, James Crumbley sat to the right in the Oakland County courtroom of Judge Cheryl Matthews on March 22, 2022, regarding pretrial matters.
Jennifer Crumbley, sat to the left of attorney Mariell Lehman as her husband, James Crumbley sat to the right in the Oakland County courtroom of Judge Cheryl Matthews on March 22, 2022, regarding pretrial matters.

The prosecution has long portrayed the Crumbleys as selfish and uncaring parents who ignored a mentally troubled son and bought him a gun instead of getting him help. The defense, however, says the parents had no way of knowing their son was going to shoot up his school, that the gun at issue was properly secured and that the charges are an overreach for parents everywhere.

"Jury selection will be especially important in this case," said former federal prosecutor Mark Chutkow, stressing: "Given the risks of a hung jury in a groundbreaking case like this, the prosecutors will be looking for nonpolarizing jurors who can work collaboratively with people of different backgrounds to reach a verdict."

Veteran defense attorney Art Weiss said picking open-minded jurors will be key, though noted the verdict could come down to this: "Who is better at jury selection may have an edge."

Jurors will no doubt have a daunting task in an emotional and complex case involving parental rights, guns, mental health and the pervasive problem of gun violence in America's schools. Perhaps most noteworthy, if the Crumbleys are convicted, this could set a legal precedent for parents everywhere.

Here's what jurors have to decide

To win their case, the prosecution must convince the jury that the Crumbleys were grossly negligent by ignoring a mentally ill son who was spiraling out of control, and bought him a gun instead of getting him help. Prosecutors must show that the shooter's actions were "reasonably foreseeable" given what his parents knew about him: He was depressed, lonely, hallucinating, texting his mom that he was seeing demons throw bowls around the house, and hearing toilets flush when no one was home.

Prosecutors also argue the parents, more than anyone else, could have prevented the shooting had they disclosed to the school that their son had access to a gun on the morning they were summoned to the school over his troubling behavior. Ethan Crumbley had drawn on a math worksheet a picture of a gun, a bleeding body, and the words, "The thoughts won't stop, help me."

The parents vowed to get their son help in the coming days, then returned to their jobs without telling school officials their son had access to a gun. Their son went back to class. Two hours later, he emerged from a school bathroom and opened fire, killing four students and injuring seven others, including a teacher.

Why prosecutors say the parents are responsible

At issue, legal experts say, are two key questions: Did the parents know or "reasonably foresee" that their son might shoot up his school? And, did they have a legal duty to inform the school that their son had access to a gun?

The prosecution argues the answer to both questions is yes.

"The duty owed here is to prevent the community from their son intentionally harming somebody when they knew he was preoccupied with violent material, that he had access to a gun, he could use it when he wanted to and he was disturbed," Oakland County Prosecutor Karen McDonald argued previously. "It's a parental duty. It goes far beyond careless. It's gross negligence."

Oakland County Prosecutor Karen McDonald speaks to the press after the sentencing of the Oxford School shooter in the courtroom of Judge Kwame Rowe a at the Oakland County Courthouse on Friday, Dec. 08, 2023.
Oakland County Prosecutor Karen McDonald speaks to the press after the sentencing of the Oxford School shooter in the courtroom of Judge Kwame Rowe a at the Oakland County Courthouse on Friday, Dec. 08, 2023.

At trial, prosecutors plan to show jurors text messages the shooter sent a friend about his mental health problems and a journal he kept before the shooting, in which he claimed his parents ignored his pleas for help.

"I will cause the biggest school shooting in Michigan’s history. I will kill everyone I f------ see," Ethan Crumbley allegedly wrote in one entry. "I have fully mentally lost it after years of fighting my dark side. My parents won’t listen to me about help or a therapist."

In another journal entry, he wrote: "I have zero help with my mental problems and it’s causing me to shoot the school. My parents won’t listen to me.”

Defense attorneys Shannon Smith and Mariell Lehman, who are representing the Crumbleys, have long maintained that their clients never saw this journal, did not know about it, nor about text messages their son sent to a friend in which he alleged his parents wouldn't get him help for his mental health struggles.

Moreover, the defense has long argued that there is no evidence that the teen ever told his parents that he planned to carry out a mass shooting, nor is there any evidence that the parents knew he would do this.

"The element that they can never prove is that Jennifer and James Crumbley knew that their son was going to commit the school shooting," Smith said. "The prosecution knows this, which is why they stretched hard to make these people look like the worst parents in the world."

Picking the jury: Cut anyone 'too polarizing'

Defense lawyers and prosecutors alike concede that in picking the jury for the Crumbleys, anyone who comes off as too polarizing or too opinionated should be excused.

"I learned as a prosecutor that rather than look for individual jurors who might be good for the government's case, it is more important to think of the jury collectively," said former U.S. Attorney Barbara McQuade, a former federal prosecutor in Detroit. She noted the jurors in the Crumbleys' trials, as in all trials, will need to work together to follow the law and reach decisions based on facts.

"I would remove anyone who would be too polarizing, even if I thought they might otherwise favor my side, because they might make the job of the group more difficult," McQuade said.

Longtime criminal defense attorney Bill Swor stressed the defense will want jurors "who demonstrate their ability to think independently and analytically." Perhaps most noteworthy, he said: "They will look for people who are skeptical of the government."

Gun issues a factor in selecting jurors

Weiss agreed, saying he would want Crumbley jurors who are "skeptical of governmental heavy-handedness" and "willing to stand up for what they believe is right, regardless of how others may feel."

Weiss cautioned, however, that the topic of guns should be "broached carefully" when questioning jurors in this case, stressing that some people are "very lofty about being very, very careful" with how guns are used, while others have a more "anything goes" attitude.

Chutkow, a former federal prosecutor who has tried numerous cases, agrees, noting: "Gun owners and gun-rights advocates might be risky for both parties."

"On the one hand, such jurors might not appreciate how the Crumbleys handled their son's gun," Chutkow said. "On the other hand, they might not like the idea of expanding criminal responsibility for someone else's misuse of a gun."

From a prosecutor's perspective, Chutkow said, the prosecution will be looking for jurors with life and professional career experience, particularly those with backgrounds in managing or supervising others. They will also try to identify people with a strong sense of personal responsibility and accountability.

"Such jurors might be critical of the Crumbleys' oversight of their son, (given) the fact they gave a gun to a kid in his mental state, and that they didn't take him out of school when they learned of his disturbing drawings."

Multiple courts have spoken: Jury must decide Crumbleys' fates

From the time of the Crumbleys' arrests, the defense has sought to have the case dismissed, though multiple courts have ruled against them, concluding a jury should hear the case.

The first judge to do this was 52-3 District Court Judge Julie Nicholson, who on Feb. 24, 2022, ordered the Crumbleys to stand trial on involuntary manslaughter charges, concluding they could have stopped the rampage that was carried out by their "troubled" son.

"The court finds that the deaths of the four victims could have been avoided if James and Jennifer Crumbley exercised ordinary care and diligence in the care of their son," Nicholson said in reaching her decision. "There was extensive testimony that Ethan Crumbley was certainly a troubled young man, and that the (parents) had knowledge of that situation. But they purchased a gun, which he believed was his and and that he was free to use."

The Crumbleys appealed.

On March 23, 2023, the Michigan Court of Appeals ordered the Crumbleys to stand trial, concluding their son's act of terror was "reasonably foreseeable, and that is the ultimate test that must be applied."

"The record squarely supports that 'but for' (the Crumbleys') acts and omissions, (Ethan Crumbley) would not have killed the victims that day," the appeals court ruled. The court added: "a reasonable fact-finder could conclude that (the son) would not have been able to shoot and kill four students but for (his parents') decision to purchase their mentally disturbed son a handgun, their failure to properly secure the gun, and most importantly, their refusal to remove (their son) from school when he made overt threats to hurt other people. 'But for' (the parents') informed decision to leave (their son) at school, these murders would not have occurred that day."

The Crumbleys appealed to the Michigan Supreme Court, which refused to hear the case and consequently sent it to trial.

Other parents admit to crimes in shootings

While the Crumbleys hold the title as the first parents in America charged in a mass school shooting, other parents have recently faced a similar fate for similar gun crimes.

And they've been convicted.

Just last month in Illinois, in a case similar to the Crumbleys, the father of the accused Highland Park mass shooter started his 60-day prison sentence after pleading guilty to reckless conduct on the day his trial was to start. Illinois prosecutors argued the father should have known his son was a danger to the public when the son applied for a gun ownership identification card.

The shooter, Robert Crimo III, was 19 at the time and needed a parent to sign his application. His dad obliged, even though he allegedly knew his son had violent ideations, threatened suicide and expressed an interest in committing a mass shooting. Crimo is charged with murdering seven people and injuring 48 others during a Fourth of July parade in downtown Highland Park in 2022.

Also this year, the mother of a 6-year-old who shot his first-grade teacher in Virginia pleaded guilty to child neglect and lying on a background check about her marijuana use while purchasing a handgun — the gun her son used to shoot his teacher. The boy said he took the gun from his mom’s purse. The mom said she is taking responsibility because her child cannot. She got 21 months in prison.

The Crumbleys, meanwhile, present the biggest test yet as prosecutors in Michigan seek to hold the parents criminally liable for the deaths of the four students killed, which has never been done before.

The Illinois and Virginia cases did not involve involuntary manslaughter charges, though both had elements similar to the Michigan case: the Illinois father should have known their son was a danger to others, while the Ohio parent was negligent in leaving her gun in an insecure place where her child could get it.

The Crumbleys are accused of both: knowing their son was a danger yet buying him a gun anyway and giving him easy access.

Tresa Baldas: tbaldas@freepress.com

This article originally appeared on Detroit Free Press: Crumbleys finally go to trial in historic Oxford school shooting case