Dating In 2023: Rizz Pickup Lines To Break The Ice

Dating is complicated, unpredictable, and sometimes just confusing. From podcasters tossing out unverified advice to people playing mind games, meeting “your person” is more difficult even with technology technically making it easier to do. Yes, dating includes meeting “the one,” but it should also be fun.

The times, fashion, music, and meet-cutes might change, but some things remain the same. Introducing yourself to someone new — especially for romance — is a nerve-wracking experience for many. Thankfully, the latest trend on TikTok, rizz pick up lines, can help you break the ice, make your paramour smile, and maybe even lead to you getting a number and a date.

What Are Rizz Pickup Lines?

Don’t get confused here. “Rizz pickup lines” is just the latest Gen Z way of saying that someone has game. They have charisma, they know how to be charming, and they know how to be smooth. That’s because “rizz” is short for “charisma.”

Yes, they’re using a line. Yes, it’s a little cheesy. And yes, you know it’s a pickup line. But, you’re not exactly mad at it, and you’re actually open to giving them the time of day afterwards. These days, sliding into someone’s DMs is more common for a first meeting versus in-person. A good pickup line protects you from being left on read or stitched for violating on TikTok. Instead, you might actually have a conversation that goes somewhere.

In particular, rizz pickup lines can be a smart alternative to (honestly boring and overplayed) openers like “Good morning queen” or the dreaded “wyd”. They show that you’re witty, you have a brain and know how to use it, and that you can do that weird thing where — you know — you actually talk to people.

Are Rizz Pickup Lines Just for Men?

Rizz pickup lines are an equal opportunity thing. No matter your gender, if you’re trying to start a conversation but want to be playful to up your chances of a reply, these pickup lines can be a good opener for you. In fact, since the onus is usually on men to make the first move, women choosing to step up to the plate with their own rizz pickup lines might just be a breath of fresh air.

Tips for The Perfect Rizz Pickup Lines

A pickup line is a pickup line. In theory, anyone can use them. However, if you’re using them in the digital wild, use your best discretion when approaching someone. Don’t just copy and paste the same trite pickup line into 20 different DM screens and hope for the best. This is the equivalent of digital catcalling and it’s obnoxious. Plus this is how you become a meme or stitched, along with becoming internet famous for all the wrong reasons. Do a little detective work by looking at someone’s profile (if it’s public) and getting a feel for their personality or likes and dislikes.

Don’t use a NSFW rizz line to approach someone who’s clearly posting about their spiritual journey or quoting daily scriptures. Sure, it’s possible that this person might be down with your blatant booty call, but it’s also more likely that your “rizz” will fall flat. Similarly, avoid neg rizzing. Pickup lines are by no means new, and neither is the “let me bring you down to force you to engage with me” tactic known as negging. It’s transparent, it’s offensive, and you’ll deserve the incoming stitches that are queued and ready to go.

Rizz Pickup Lines That Aren’t So Cringe

Again, everything is personal. The rizz lines that get a smile from one person can get you side-eyed by the next one. But here are a few TikTok viral rizz lines that might help you break the ice the next time.

• Do you have low iron? Because every time I get up too fast I end up falling for you.

• Are you a heart because I’d never stop beating for you.

• Are you asthma? Because you take my breath away.

• Are you lingo because we could make a good duo?

• I’m a pen and you’re a highlighter, I write the future and you make it brighter.

• You already stole my heart so why not steal my last name?

• Are you a pencil because you draw my attention.

• Are you a 3 because you need 2 know I’m the 1 made 4 you.

• Are you a berry? Because you’re berry much my type.

More Rizz Pickup Line Inspiration

Need more inspo for your rizz pickup lines? Check out these TikTok videos. Yes, we know, they’re younger TikTokers, but just modify the lines that you like the most.

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