Debutante balls, sweaty gyms and outrageous promposals: Photos tell America's prom story

DuPont Manual High School seniors were having their prom and all was dignity and decorum until the orchestra cut loose with a few hot licks and Mary Ray Douglas, 18, and her date Joe Breen started to really to cut the rug at Louisville on June 1, 1957.
DuPont Manual High School seniors were having their prom and all was dignity and decorum until the orchestra cut loose with a few hot licks and Mary Ray Douglas, 18, and her date Joe Breen started to really to cut the rug at Louisville on June 1, 1957.

Prom season marks the rite of passage that teens have celebrated since the late 19th century – but that one special night wasn't always about the over-the-top 'promposals,' dresses, flowers, limousines and awkward photos.

According to History.com, celebratory events for young people can be traced back to ancient Greece, but the history of prom, short for promenade, is rooted in 18th and 19th century debutante balls, the popular high-society tradition with an introductory parading of guests in formal attire at a co-ed banquet.

The prom we're more familiar with today evolved in the 20th century to serve a similar function for graduating middle-class white women who might not be able to afford debutante balls.

Debutantes walk out onto the dance floor for their first waltz at the 50th Vienna Opera Ball February 23, 2006 in Vienna, Austria.
Debutantes walk out onto the dance floor for their first waltz at the 50th Vienna Opera Ball February 23, 2006 in Vienna, Austria.

The Greeks threw celebrations, called “symposia,” for elite men who were about to transition into adult society.

Greek traditions like throwing lavish dinner parties and playing music have stuck, but as cultural norms shifted, so have proms — which are slowly becoming more inclusive for BIPOC and LGBTQ+ students who have continued to push for equal access.

1951: North-Central Senior Prom, Binghamton.
1951: North-Central Senior Prom, Binghamton.
Marialice Sue Shivers, daughter of former Texas governor, bows into society at the International Debutante Ball in New York's Astor Hotel on Dec. 29, 1965.  The Texas flag is held by her honorary military escort, a midshipman from the U.S. naval academy. (AP Photo)
Marialice Sue Shivers, daughter of former Texas governor, bows into society at the International Debutante Ball in New York's Astor Hotel on Dec. 29, 1965. The Texas flag is held by her honorary military escort, a midshipman from the U.S. naval academy. (AP Photo)

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One hundred twenty debutantes dressed in white, or silver, made their debut at the Cotillion and Christmas Ball at the Grand Ballroom of the Hotel Waldorf-Astoria Hotel in New York, Dec. 19, 1949. The ball was for the benefit of the New York Infirmary. (AP Photo/Matty Zimmerman)
One hundred twenty debutantes dressed in white, or silver, made their debut at the Cotillion and Christmas Ball at the Grand Ballroom of the Hotel Waldorf-Astoria Hotel in New York, Dec. 19, 1949. The ball was for the benefit of the New York Infirmary. (AP Photo/Matty Zimmerman)

Hair used to be done at home, now girls go to a salon; couples were the norm, now groups of friends are more accepted; house parties used to be the post-prom activity, now many schools host extravagant after-proms; nails, makeup and tanning were once unheard of, now they're an unspoken requirement for attendees, three generations of women told the Des Moines Registrar, part of USA TODAY Network.

Prom is the "quintessential story of high school," Francine Pascal, creator of the "Sweet Valley High" series said during a "This American Life" episode. And it's taken historic events, including World War II and the COVID-19 lockdowns, to disrupt the gatherings. When the Great Depression hit in the 1930s, some high schools cancelled proms so that poorer students wouldn’t be “psychologically wounded,” according to author Beth L. Bailey's book on the history of dating in America.

"It's the moment that comes closest to the romantic vision of life," Pascal said. "I think it's repeated only one other time, and that would be marriage. It's that important in high school life, in the teenager life."

Southwestern High School students at their prom during the 1987-1988 school year at Southwestern High School in Detroit, Michigan.
Southwestern High School students at their prom during the 1987-1988 school year at Southwestern High School in Detroit, Michigan.
Student Theasha Bryan tries on a pair of shoes at Project Prom, an event offering free dresses, handbags, shoes and accessories to high school students on May 22, 2009 in New York City.
Student Theasha Bryan tries on a pair of shoes at Project Prom, an event offering free dresses, handbags, shoes and accessories to high school students on May 22, 2009 in New York City.
Juniors and seniors from John McDonogh High School celebrate at their prom,  its first prom since Hurricane Katrina,  June 1, 2007 in New Orleans, Louisiana.
Juniors and seniors from John McDonogh High School celebrate at their prom, its first prom since Hurricane Katrina, June 1, 2007 in New Orleans, Louisiana.
Cabrini High School junior Danielle DiMaggio (L) and boyfriend Ben Navo dance at the Cabrini High School prom May 12, 2006 in New Orleans, Louisiana.
Cabrini High School junior Danielle DiMaggio (L) and boyfriend Ben Navo dance at the Cabrini High School prom May 12, 2006 in New Orleans, Louisiana.
2005: Alex Rizzo, 16 of Schenectady High has a moment with Chenango Forks High School Junior Elaina Dybas, 17 Friday night During Chenango Forks High School Prom, at the Binghamton Regency, Binghamton.
2005: Alex Rizzo, 16 of Schenectady High has a moment with Chenango Forks High School Junior Elaina Dybas, 17 Friday night During Chenango Forks High School Prom, at the Binghamton Regency, Binghamton.
Students of the Senior Class of New York City's The High School of Fashion Industries attend the Ultimate Prom 2009 at Pier Sixty at Chelsea Piers on June 5, 2009 in New York City.
Students of the Senior Class of New York City's The High School of Fashion Industries attend the Ultimate Prom 2009 at Pier Sixty at Chelsea Piers on June 5, 2009 in New York City.
Oyster River High School student Anna Blezard, 18, poses during senior prom in Durham, New Hampshire on May 12, 2021.
Oyster River High School student Anna Blezard, 18, poses during senior prom in Durham, New Hampshire on May 12, 2021.
Spaulding High School students attending prom walk in a grand march Sunday, May 23, 2021 in Rochester.
Spaulding High School students attending prom walk in a grand march Sunday, May 23, 2021 in Rochester.

When was the first prom in the US?

It's unclear where the first American prom was hosted, but news articles from colleges in Massachusetts provide some clarity on early celebrations during the late 19th century, according to History.com.

In Cambridge, The Harvard Crimson Dec. 5, 1879, issue references the junior prom.

In 1895, an Amherst College student named Dwight Morrow, who later became the ambassador to Mexico and a U.S. senator, wrote a diary entry detailing his invitation to attend Smith College’s junior prom.

When did high schools adopt proms?

Susan Ford and her escort Billy Pifer, 21, from Winchester, Va., dance the "bump" Saturday night during the Holton Arms School senior prom at the White House, May 31, 1975.
Susan Ford and her escort Billy Pifer, 21, from Winchester, Va., dance the "bump" Saturday night during the Holton Arms School senior prom at the White House, May 31, 1975.

According to History.com, segregated white high schools introduced proms in the 1920s to show teenagers how to behave cultural norms and stereotypes of their gender — for example, women being subservient to men — and race.

Proms really took off in the early 1930s and again in the a post-war boom of the 1940s, which is when companies geared more of their products to teens.

Dubbed the “golden age of prom” by author Ann Anderson in “High School Prom: Marketing, Morals and the American Teen,” the 1950s were a transitional period for dances. Proms in sweaty gyms became passé, with more schools opting for hotels and banquet rooms, and choosing a prom king and queen to crown became commonplace.

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