The Fayetteville Observer's 40 Under 40 Class of 2023: Meet Deanna L. Coleman

Deanna L. Coleman, 38, of Fayetteville, is a managing attorney at Ray, O'Connor, Coleman & Halverson PLLC.

She was nominated for 40 Under 40 because she "goes out of her way to show care and compassion to all those that she comes into contact with, whether it be client or stranger. She not only manifests a spirit of acceptance and inclusion in her life, but she also holds herself to a high standard of excellence, drive and determination that sets her apart," a nominator writes. "Those who know Deanna are fortunate and those who call her friend are blessed to have her in their lives. Her influence is immeasurable."

Here's what else you should know about this member of The Fayetteville Observer's 40 Under 40 Class of 2023.

Deanna L. Coleman
Deanna L. Coleman

Who are your immediate family members?

My other half, Ben; my fur babies, Titan, Roxie and Jinxie; my parents (my rocks!) Cindy and Will Coleman; and my amazing siblings, Tana, Katie and Jamie.

What does your job entail?

My areas of practice include estate planning, estate administration, business representation and related matters. I assist clients with planning their legacies, forming and operating their businesses, and assisting with the estate and administration processes when a loved one passes away.

Where did you receive your education?

University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill; North Carolina Central University School of Law; University of Florida Levin College of Law

What community and professional groups are you affiliated with?

I am the incoming president of the Cumberland County Bar Association. I recently (5/4/23) graduated from the inaugural class of the Southeast Fellows Institute of the American College of Trust and Estate Counsel. I have scaled back my nonprofit involvement due to the recent passing of my mentor, Bob Ray, but I look forward to getting back into the community and supporting worthy causes.

How do you volunteer your time in the community?

I gladly and freely volunteer my time to educate the citizens of Fayetteville and nearby areas regarding my practice areas. I have been involved with local nonprofits, generally planning annual fundraisers. I love nonprofits supporting those without a voice — especially puppies, babies and the aging!

What is one thing you wish people knew or understood better about your profession?

Being an attorney is a noble profession! I thrive on helping my clients through hard times. When I hear the horrible jokes about attorneys, I cringe! I am proud and honored to help so many people in this community and I hope I have the privilege of doing so far into the future.

What's the best advice you've ever received and/or the worst advice you've ever followed?

Ron Aucutt, an American College of Trust and Estate Counsel fellow, recently reminded me that clients want to know how much you care before they care how much you know. I think that applies in so many aspects of life. You should always lead with kindness. The worst advice that I have ever followed is my own. I have fought imposter syndrome for a long time. I convince myself that, no matter how successful I am, it is somehow not enough. I fight every day to remind myself that it's OK to be your own biggest fan!

What goal have you already achieved, and how did you make it happen?

I am a first-generation attorney in my immediate family. I made this happen because, at a young age, my parents instilled in me the importance of hard work. I have always known that life will throw me punches, but with hard work and resilience, I continue to be successful.

If you weren't in your current profession, what would you be?

If I weren't an attorney, I would be ... very sad. Just kidding. I would strive to be the director of a reputable nonprofit organization with a focus on benefiting my hometown of Fayetteville.

What are five things (not people or pets) you can't live without?

Wait ... I can't name people or pets? My sense of humor. Blue Moon Cafe on Hay Street. Laughter. Still can't say pets? What about puppies? Women's rights. I still really want to say my dogs. Honor.

What's something you do outside of work to enrich yourself?

I love learning about gardening and working in my yard. I currently have some version of a garden year-round. My yard is designed to flower in every season. I have to credit the Bleecker family for that, as I purchased their family home recently. My house is in the historic Haymount District, and I enjoy the benefits of the botanist hired way back in 1915 when the house was built. I credit my love for nature to my dad. He taught me the value of being in touch with nature and he has always reminded me that time spent with family is the best way to spend time. I will always cherish the time I spend with Dad working in the garden and the time I spend taking his advice regarding the value of the same.

Some responses may have been edited for style and grammar.

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