Kylie Jenner is ready to talk about the Kardashians' body image problem. Is it too late?

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The Kardashians have served as the standard for beauty and body image for most of the past decade. And it seems they are finally ready to have a real discussion about the unrealistic ideals they've perpetuated.

The latest episode of "The Kardashians" begins with a conversation between Kylie Jenner, Kourtney Kardashian and Khloé Kardashian. In it they reflect on how their own insecurities, based on societal expectations and public scrutiny, prompted them to change their images. Now parents themselves, the three sisters say they're more conscious of the messaging they convey about beauty standards.

"I just feel like we have a huge influence," Jenner says, claiming she has only ever gotten fillers. "What are we doing with our power? I just see so many young girls on the internet now fully editing (photos of themselves). I went through that stage too, and I feel like I'm in a better place, but other people can instill insecurities in you."

Jenner's further comments, first teased in the trailer for Season 3 of "The Kardashians," promise more discourse to come from the famous family: "All of us need to have a bigger conversation about the beauty standards we’re setting,” she says. “I don’t want my daughter to do the things I did.

"I wish I never touched anything to begin with," she adds, seemingly acknowledging past cosmetic procedures.

Jenner expressing regret for her role in dictating unrealistic beauty standards is a step in the right direction, body image experts say. But is it all too little too late coming from a famous family that has left countless viewers at home feeling like the finish line for beauty is constantly getting pushed back?

Kylie Jenner
Kylie Jenner

The Kardashians’ complicated place in setting body standards

Body image standards existed before the Kardashians, and they’ll exist after. Like it or not, experts say the images they present to the world have a strong impact on how others feel they should look.

From a biological perspective, notes University of Houston sociology professor Samantha Kwan, traits such as large breasts, clear skin and slim waist will always be considered ideals because they go hand-in-hand with beliefs about fertility and health. But what’s considered “beautiful” changes all the time in part because it’s a “social construction.”

“The world has figured out a way to commodify beauty. People like newness,” adds body confidence coach Tiffany Ima. “So after a while, people are like, ‘OK, this body has been trending for a little bit. Let’s go ahead and change what we think is beautiful.’ … If your body doesn’t happen to be in style at the time, it’s going to make you want to look like what the standard is.”

That standard is currently shifting, many have observed. Jenner’s famous large lips have shrunk. Kim Kardashian revealed she rapidly lost 16 pounds to fit into Marilyn Monroe's dress for the Met Gala last year. The New York Post published the headline "Bye-bye booty: Heroin chic is back" in the fall. And stars like Adele, Rebel Wilson and Mindy Kaling losing weight have sparked massive public interest.

Kim Kardashian attends The Metropolitan Museum of Art's Costume Institute benefit gala celebrating the opening of the "In America: An Anthology of Fashion" exhibition on Monday, May 2, 2022, in New York. (Photo by Evan Agostini/Invision/AP) ORG XMIT: NYDA489
Kim Kardashian attends The Metropolitan Museum of Art's Costume Institute benefit gala celebrating the opening of the "In America: An Anthology of Fashion" exhibition on Monday, May 2, 2022, in New York. (Photo by Evan Agostini/Invision/AP) ORG XMIT: NYDA489

“It’s not actually attainable because it’s not affordable,” Ima says, adding the problem with people wanting to look like the Kardashians is that most will never be able to. The amount of money they have means they have access to trainers, surgeries and procedures that the average person can’t afford. But many will try anyway, only to wake up one day and discover that the beauty ideal they’ve been putting time, money and effort into has suddenly been erased in favor of the next one.

The Kardashian empire's influence is further complicated by the fact that they’ve been accused of appropriating beauty styles and body features associated with Black women, usually without giving them credit. And now those features are being dropped in favor of more white-centric features.

“People like to see Black features on non-Black bodies,” Ima says. “For Black women, it’s the only time in history that our body types have been ‘in,’ so to speak. But then it also puts additional pressure on the Black women who don’t look like that.”

Are the Kardashians' comments too little too late?

The Kardashian-Jenners' comments seem to mark a growing shift in the famous family acknowledging societal beauty standards. But are they doing enough to rectify their own roles in setting and upholding those standards?

"Society gave me insecurities," Khloé Kardashian adds in the latest episode, reflecting on past photos when she says she looked like she was "wearing a fat suit." She admitted in 2021 she had gotten a nose job, but asked the public to refrain from commenting on her body.

"Ive been torn apart the minute that I've gone on TV," Khloé adds. "I didn't look like my sisters, so therefore it's not good enough. And then when I started changing my look − you get better makeup, you do fillers, I had a nose job − and there's still people constantly bullying you. It's like, so which one is it? You didn't like me then and you don't like me now. ... It's unfair to have so much pressure put on people. We're all just trying to do the best we can."

“Having one of the biggest influencers in the world embrace and promote a new standard about body diversity is an important step to real structural change,” Kwan says. “If beauty standards are in part created by mass media, these ideals can shift if prominent influencers in mass media sincerely question narrow beauty ideals, embrace body diversity, and celebrate women as entire beings beyond just their looks.”

Season 2 of The Kardashians premieres today.
Season 2 of The Kardashians premieres today.

Those who have had cosmetic surgeries can regret their choices for a number of reasons, says Kwan, who co-authored the book “Under the Knife” based on interviews with women who have opted into these procedures.

“Some wished surgery churned out better aesthetic results, while others regret that they were not able to embrace their own unique beauty,” Kwan says. “Some expressed self-loathing and an ongoing struggle to achieve self-love and forgiveness. However, they all had one thing in common: All of them desired a change in the current beauty culture that places so much of women’s worth on her looks.”

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This article originally appeared on USA TODAY: Kylie Jenner invites Kardashians to talk beauty standards. That's big.