Loves' story: Houlka man recovering after near-death brain injury

Jul. 1—TUPELO — Undray Love of Houlka recently had his final appointment with Dr. Joaquin Hidalgo after a four-wheeler accident literally turned his world on its head.

The past two years have been tumultuous, marked by peaks and valleys during his recovery.

"It was kind of sad," said Love's wife, Chastity Love, of the June 6 appointment at North Mississippi Neurosurgical Services. "They have been there at every step."

On Aug. 16, 2020, Undray Love had just finished working a six-day stretch at the Winchester Ammunition in Oxford. Love's mother came over to watch their three children so he and Chastity Love could ride four-wheelers nearby with friends. As evening came, Chastity Love asked her husband to run her home.

"We were never separated—we always rode together," she said. "But I just had a bad feeling that I couldn't shake, and I wanted to go home."

Chastity Love had only been home long enough to shower when she suddenly heard banging on their door. The news was devastating: Undray Love's four-wheeler had caught the back tire of another four-wheeler and sent him hurling headfirst into a metal trash bin.

"He was unconscious," Chastity Love said, "and he was not breathing." Paramedics arrived and intubated Undray Love, then the CareFlight medical helicopter flew him to North Mississippi Medical Center's Emergency Department in Tupelo. Chastity Love also rushed to the hospital, where she met Hidalgo.

"He used big words I'd never heard of. I tried to take them in, but my brain couldn't process them," she said. "I was given Undray's wallet, wedding ring and necklace. It felt like goodbye."

Hidalgo drilled a small hole in Undray Love's skull — known as a burr hole procedure — to relieve pressure from the traumatic brain injury and inserted an intracranial pressure monitor.

"All I wanted to hear from him was that he was going to fix Undray. He told me he couldn't tell the outcome, but he would do everything he could — and I knew that he meant it," Chastity Love said. "That wasn't at all what I wanted to hear, but it was everything Undray needed — someone who would work night and day to bring him back to us. I was inconsolable. Dr. Hidalgo listened to my every tear-filled plea with more compassion than most see in a lifetime."

Sedated and on a ventilator, Undray Love was admitted to the Critical Care Unit; his wife rarely left his side.

"I wanted to be there while he literally fought for his life," Chasity Love.

She soon met nurse practitioner Keshea Mims, who works alongside Hidalgo.

"She spoke life into that room and was a constant advocate for Undray," Chastity Love said. "Day or night, they were at his bedside working."

In addition to his brain injury, Undray Love also battled breathing issues. His left lung collapsed, and he developed pneumonia and a bacterial infection. Doctors brought in a specialized bed to keep Love in a prone position and help him heal.

"It was a big scary bed," Chastity Love said. "It was a last-ditch effort for him because his lungs were in such bad shape, and it worked."

Gradually, doctors began to reduce the sedatives that had allowed Undray Love's brain to rest and, hopefully, recover.

"I was praying that he would wake up because I didn't believe that was the end," Chastity Love said. "All signs pointed to 'this is really bad.' The brain scans showed no brain activity, but I wasn't willing to accept that."

After 38 days in the CCU, Undray Love moved to a stepdown unit and then to a regular room.

"On Day 42, I went down to the hospital's Food Court to get lunch, and when I came back, Undray was rubbing his nose — purposeful movement," Chastity Love said. "God knows when to show up and show out. Undray is a fighter, and he never gives up. I knew we were one step closer to moving to rehab."

After 46 days in the hospital, he was transferred to a rehabilitation hospital in Jackson. He spent one month there before graduating to outpatient physical, occupational and speech therapy at NMMC's Outpatient Rehabilitation Center in Tupelo. In November 2021, Undray Love underwent a second brain surgery.

One of Undray Love's goals was to drive again, and with the help of his rehabilitation team, he reached that goal last fall. Love now drives three days a week to AbilityWorks in Tupelo, a community program through the Mississippi Department of Rehabilitation Services that provides job training and work experience.

"Undray wants to get back to work," Chastity Love said. "He doesn't want this to be his forever. He wants to do everything he can go get his life back."

The Loves are slowly but surely embracing their new normal — and they are forever grateful to those who helped them get there.

"Our brains are amazing," Chastity Love said. "Undray had to learn how to do everything again, and then he also had to remember how to do it. Unlike a broken leg or arm, doctors can't repair the brain and they can't replace it. There is no one answer. The only constant can be their care."

And the Loves contend the miracle God performed and the care Undray received at NMMC made all the difference.

"The people who were brought into our lives, these are special people," Chastity Love said. "They saw him through near death. They cheered him on and genuinely wanted the best for our family. For almost two years, they have been a constant in our lives."