When is Memorial Day 2023, why and how we celebrate in Delaware

Americans are accustomed to celebrating Memorial Day annually, eager for the three-day weekend and what many consider the unofficial start of summer.

The weekend may be associated with the unofficial kickoff of the beach season, backyard barbecues and community events, but do you know what Memorial Day is all about?

Before you jump into party planning mode or pack the car for a road trip, here’s a refresher on why we recognize the holiday and a crash course in its origins.

What is Memorial Day?

A reflection of three American flags as rain falls on a pool of water during traditional Memorial Day Ceremony Sunday, May 30, 2021, at Veterans Memorial Park in New Castle.
A reflection of three American flags as rain falls on a pool of water during traditional Memorial Day Ceremony Sunday, May 30, 2021, at Veterans Memorial Park in New Castle.

Memorial Day began under the name “Decoration Day” in 1868 — three years after the Civil War ended — and was declared a time for the nation to decorate the graves of the war dead with flowers and otherwise honor those who died while serving in the U.S. military, according to the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs.

It is one of 11 permanent federal holidays observed in the U.S.

When is Memorial Day?

Many veterans continue to serve and lead, from different locations across the country.
Many veterans continue to serve and lead, from different locations across the country.

Memorial Day is observed annually on the last Monday in May. This year, the holiday falls on Monday, May 29.

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History of Memorial Day

Jennifer Davis of Stafford, Va., wipes her face from the heat as she spends time at the grave of her ex-husband, Staff Sgt. Allen Davis, during a visit to Arlington National Cemetery in Arlington, Va., on Memorial Day, Monday, May 30, 2022.
Jennifer Davis of Stafford, Va., wipes her face from the heat as she spends time at the grave of her ex-husband, Staff Sgt. Allen Davis, during a visit to Arlington National Cemetery in Arlington, Va., on Memorial Day, Monday, May 30, 2022.

On May 5, 1868, Gen. John Logan officially ordered that May 30 be designated as a day of remembrance for those who died serving in the Civil War. It is believed this date was chosen because flowers would be in bloom all over the country, according to the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs.

By 1890, all Northern states recognized the holiday, but Southern states chose to honor those who died in the Civil War on separate days.

This divide continued until the holiday changed after World War I to honor Americans who died fighting any war, not just the Civil War.

In 1966, Congress and President Lyndon Johnson declared Waterloo, New York, as the birthplace of Memorial Day after Gov. Nelson Rockefeller made a similar declaration that same year.

Former Vice President Joe Biden smiles while visiting with Gov. John Carney and Sen. Tom Carper during the annual Veterans Day ceremony at Delaware Memorial Bridge Veterans Memorial Park in 2020.
Former Vice President Joe Biden smiles while visiting with Gov. John Carney and Sen. Tom Carper during the annual Veterans Day ceremony at Delaware Memorial Bridge Veterans Memorial Park in 2020.

By the end of the century, Memorial Day ceremonies were held on May 30 throughout the country, the Army and Navy adopted regulations for proper observances at their facilities and state legislatures passed proclamations designating the day.

In 1972, Memorial Day was declared a national holiday by an act of Congress, the Uniform Monday Holiday Act, and placed on the last Monday in May, according to the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. The act also established other federal holidays like Presidents Day and Columbus Day on Mondays.

In 2000, the National Moment of Remembrance Act was signed into law by Congress and the president, creating the White House Commission on the National Moment of Remembrance.

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It encourages all citizens to pause at 3 p.m. local time on Memorial Day for a minute of silence, according to Congress.

What is the difference between Memorial Day and Veterans Day?

The American Flag flies over the Delaware War Memorial near New Castle.
The American Flag flies over the Delaware War Memorial near New Castle.

While both holidays honor those who have died serving the country, Memorial Day and Veterans Day differ in purpose.

Veterans Day, originally called Armistice Day, is observed annually on Nov. 11 and was established to honor all who served in the U.S. armed forces during World War I.

Memorial Day honors all who have died, according to the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs.

It was established in 1926 and signifies the armistice that ended combat in World War I in 1918. After World War II, the scope of Armistice Day’s purpose broadened in 1954 to recognize those who have served in all American wars.

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