'This is my mission:' How a NY foundation is aiding veterans, families of premature babies

Sharon Toney-Finch understands the struggles that come with service.

She was injured twice while serving in Iraq, and continues to deal with a disability, a traumatic brain injury. She earned a Purple Heart for her actions during an attack on her convoy, after which she required a lengthy hospital stay in Germany and numerous surgical procedures.

Despite those injuries making it unlikely, she became pregnant nine years ago while still in service. Shortly after an episode in South Korea in which she suffered immense pain and was put on bed rest, she gave birth in her 23rd week.

Her son, Yerik Israel Toney, was born in April 2014 weighing just over one pound. He survived more than seven months, with Toney-Finch visiting the hospital every day. Aside from the emotional toll taken by the experience, in which he needed multiple surgeries and intensive care treatments, there was a financial strain that came with taking cabs to be by his side.

Sharon Toney-Finch beside a collage dedicated to her son, Yerik Israel Toney, the namesake of YIT Foundation in Monticello on December 6, 2022. The YIT Foundation's mission is to raise awareness of premature births and support families who's children are premature.
Sharon Toney-Finch beside a collage dedicated to her son, Yerik Israel Toney, the namesake of YIT Foundation in Monticello on December 6, 2022. The YIT Foundation's mission is to raise awareness of premature births and support families who's children are premature.

“I created my nonprofit based on my experience,” said Toney-Finch, who founded the Yerik Israel Tony Foundation in 2016. She was a logistics administration manager in the Army, serving for a decade until late 2015.

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“It's tremendous to me," she said. "This is my mission − to bring what I can and help as many as I can within all communities that we are in.”

The Yerik Israel Toney Foundation’s mission is twofold: Providing aid to families of preterm birth children and to assist low-income and homeless veterans. And with assistance from Holiday Helping Hand, the nonprofit will be able to further its goal.

Holiday Helping Hand has served Dutchess County charities for 40 years, raising funds for holiday programs, gatherings and other charitable organizations. The charity drive, a collaboration between the Poughkeepsie Journal and the United Way of the Dutchess-Orange Region, raised more than $40,700 last year, with money split between 32 charitable programs this holiday season.

The Yerik Israel Toney Foundation received $500 through Holiday Helping Hand, which will go toward its winter coat drive. The money will allow the nonprofit to provide coats for 40 veterans in the Poughkeepsie area.

The nonprofit serves roughly 600 veterans, with roughly 300 in the Dutchess region. Toney-Finch said sometimes a small act of kindness is enough to make a difference, especially for veterans who can feel isolated during the holiday season.

Much of this help also comes from within the veteran community, with those in a stable place assisting others.

Sharon Toney-Finch, founder of the YIT Foundation in Monticello on December 6, 2022. The YIT Foundation's mission is to raise awareness of premature births and support families who's children are premature.
Sharon Toney-Finch, founder of the YIT Foundation in Monticello on December 6, 2022. The YIT Foundation's mission is to raise awareness of premature births and support families who's children are premature.

“People tend to forget that it really just takes somebody to sit and talk with,” she said. “So that's why when it comes to our volunteers, we actually pair them up with different veterans that we have, that we are currently helping. Veterans that we have helped in the past, they come back and give it forward to the veterans that are in need. It’s a revolving door.”

The program’s goal with its veterans is to instill a sense of family and companionship, Toney-Finch said.

“We make sure that they have a sponsor so they are not just spending time by themselves, but also being able to have a family feeling,” she said.

To learn more about the foundation, get help, or donate, visit yitfoundation.org

How to donate to Holiday Helping Hand

Holiday Helping Hand
Holiday Helping Hand

For four decades, Holiday Helping Hand, a joint venture between the Poughkeepsie Journal and United Way of the Dutchess-Orange Region, has funded Dutchess County programs that assist local kids and families in having a happy holiday season, through the generosity of local donors. The donations through this season will fund programs next year that include warm clothing, gift card and utility bill payment giveaways, and holiday parties.

To donate, visit uwdor.org/hhh or mail a check to Holiday Helping Hand, United Way of the Dutchess-Orange Region, 75 Market St., Poughkeepsie, NY 12601. Checks should be made payable to Holiday Helping Hand.

As of Dec. 8, 83 donations have been made to the 2022-23 Holiday Helping Hand campaign, totaling $9,945,87. In the past week, 64 donations were made totaling $7,401.68. They are:

Janet Houston, $50

Gaidis and Barbara Tirums, $25

Bernard Handel, $250

Frank and Lois, $250

Linda R. McCluskey, $50

Frederick and Alice Bunnell, $30

John and Laura Williams, $300

Clarence and Joan Glover, $300

Andrew and Kristine MacDonald, $100

William and Elizabeth Harrel, $75

In loving memory of Jerry and Shirley Delaney and Chris Hunt, Jr. from Michael and Debra Brown, $100

Clarence and Joan Furman, $50

In memory of our parents and grandparents Walt and Joyce Herrmann and Curtis and Anna Martinson, love Jim, Cindy, Dave and Jeff, $100

Anonymous, $100

William M. Peckham, $50

Carol Gray, $50

Rita Banner, $102.65

Stephen and Cheryl Kerins, $256.64

Anonymous, $256.64

Mia Anderson, $25.66

Leola Ruffin-McPhee, $102.65

Keith Axelrod, $102.65

Anonymous, $513.29

Thomas Morris, $123.19

Susan Partington, $25.66

Christine A. Petrone, $50

In honor of St. Jude, mrom Mr. Anonymous, $20

Gerald and Margaret Kelly, $100

Dana Lynn and James Herrington, $200

Alan and Rosemary Thomas, $250

Therese and Walter Hendricks, $50

Dr. Sheldon and Roz Werner, $100

In memory of my husband Vincent Libretti, from Rose Mary Libretti, $100

Anonymous, $100

Joe and Diane Fiscina, $100

In memory of my husband Gerald C. Becker and Daughter Betsy M. Mulder, from Margie A. Becker, $100

Anonymous, $300

Anonymous, $500

Cynthia Warren, $102.65

John and Pat Varricchio, $100

In memory of Pamela Green, from Jacqueline Bennett, $25

In memory of Dr. Craig Shannon, from Andrew and Kristine MacDonald, $100

In memory of our parents Lorraine and Robert Goeway and Michael and Bea Grega, from Linda Stow and Vincent Grega, $100

Edmond M. Selby, $50

In memory of John Moy, $100

In honor of Apartment 13, $100

Joseph and Renee Tancin, $25

In memory of Marty Quick, from Margaret Quick, $100

Anonymous, $40

In memory of Erin Shanley, from Valerie and John Shanley Jr., $100

In honor of Mario and Susan Vilardi, from Valerie and John Shanley Jr., $50

Anonymous, $100

Anonymous, $100

In memory of my loving husband, Stanley J Kozlowski, Jr, from your wife Carol, $50

Anonymous, $100

In memory of all our loved ones, family and friends, from Rudy and Sina Macak, $50

In memory of Dorothy and Alden Traver, by Charlie Traver, $100

Miriam A. Zimet-Aaron, $100

Mark Z. Aaron, $100

Anonymous, $20

Anonymous, $100

Anonymous, $30

In the name of my loving parents: Roy and Helen Dunham, from Cheryl Venuto, $100

Clay and Lorraine Hughes, $100

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