‘No remorse’: Lori Vallow Daybell gets life in prison after murdering her children

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Lori Vallow Daybell will spend the rest of her life in prison.

The 50-year-old mother — convicted of killing her two children — was sentenced to life in prison by 7th District Judge Steven Boyce at the Fremont County Courthouse in St. Anthony after several hours of statements made by the prosecuting attorneys, defense team and victims’ families. She won’t have the option for parole.

I don’t think to this day you have any remorse for the effort and heartache you caused for others who looked for your children when you knew where they were and knew they were dead,” Boyce told Vallow Daybell during the sentencing hearing. “They were found dead, burned, mutilated and dismembered, and buried like animals.”

Dozens of people filed into the East Idaho courthouse Monday morning, with some spectators and reporters camping outside the night before. The sentencing was also livestreamed on YouTube with over 10,000 people tuning in at some points.

Vallow Daybell was convicted by a 12-person jury in May after a six-week trial that brought national attention to Boise. Vallow Daybell was convicted of all six felony counts against her, including the first-degree murders of two of her children, 7-year-old Joshua Jaxon “JJ” Vallow and 16-year-old Tylee Ryan.

“Today is the day that she will finally be punished for her manipulation, cruelty and criminal acts,” JJ’s grandmother Kay Woodcock said during Monday’s sentencing. “She has shown no remorse for the murders, the lying, the deceit or the pain.”

Three years ago, authorities found the remains of JJ and Tylee Ryan buried in shallow graves on Chad Daybell’s property. Investigators on the case uncovered a trail of messages, recordings and corroborating witnesses, showing that the couple held beliefs that her children were “demons” who needed to be “cast out” — or killed, according to witness testimony.

She was also convicted of conspiring to murder her children and conspiring to murder Tammy Daybell, the wife of Chad Daybell, who is now Vallow Daybell’s husband.

“You are a liar, an adulteress and a murderer, and because of the choices you made, my family lost a beloved mother, sister, aunt, and daughter,” Samantha Gwilliam, Tammy Daybell’s sister, said during Monday’s sentencing. “She was 1,000 times the woman you will ever dream of being.”

Family ‘ripped apart,’ Tammy Daybell’s sister says

Gwilliam in her statement said her family has been “ripped apart” because their relationship with Tammy and Chad Daybell’s five children has become strained. The children didn’t attend the funeral for Tammy Daybell’s mother, who died after battling leukemia in June, Gwilliam said. She added that the Daybells’ children are afraid of losing another parent and have listened “to the lies spewed” by Chad and Lori Vallow Daybell.

“We don’t blame them for what happened, but we blame you and Chad for all the lies you’ve told them ripping apart this family,” Gwilliam said. “We didn’t do anything. My parents are not evil. They did not deserve to lose their grandchildren on top of losing their daughter. I did not deserve to lose the relationships of children I helped raise, a sister that was my dearest friend.”

Vallow Daybell’s verdict in June created a spectacle outside the Ada County Courthouse, as people who weren’t able to get inside the courthouse watched the verdict from their phones, cheering and yelling when she was found guilty. Inside the packed courtroom, Rexburg Police Det. Ray Hermosillo and Madison County Prosecuting Attorney Rob Wood hugged victims’ family members and friends.

Larry and Kay Woodcock embrace during Lori Vallow Daybell’s sentencing hearing.
Larry and Kay Woodcock embrace during Lori Vallow Daybell’s sentencing hearing.

Kay Woodcock during her statement told the courtroom about JJ and Tylee, remembering JJ as an “incredibly smart” boy who was reading at a middle school level by the time he was 4 years old.

“I continually wonder what he would have become. What type of man would he be?” Woodcock said. “What did Lori (Vallow Daybell) deprive the world of?”

Woodcock said Tylee was an “absolute mama’s girl” and a wonderful big sister who loved JJ.

Tylee and JJ’s brother Colby Ryan also gave a statement, which was read to the courtroom by Wood, in which he wrote about the light his siblings brought into the world. Ryan described Tylee as sweet, kind, funny and bold, and JJ as the “most fun, sweet and silly kid” he’d ever known.

Ryan also wrote about Charles Vallow, his adoptive father and Vallow Daybell’s fourth husband, who was shot and killed by Vallow Daybell’s brother Alex Cox. He remembered Vallow as a “loving, kind and generous father.”

“This has affected me personally more than I could ever possibly put into words,” Ryan wrote in his statement. “I’ve lost my entire family in life, I lost the opportunity to share life with the people I love the most. I’ve watched everything crumble and be shredded to pieces. I have lost my sister, brother, father and my mother.”

Vallow Daybell was also convicted of grand theft after she continued to collect the children’s Social Security and child care benefits after their deaths.

Chad Daybell’s jury trial is expected to begin in April and could last up to nine weeks. The 54-year-old Rexburg father has been accused of espousing religious beliefs to justify or encourage the killing of JJ, Tylee and Tammy Daybell. He faces eight felonies — which include the first-degree murders of JJ, Tylee and Tammy Daybell — and if convicted could face the death penalty.

Judge Boyce took the option for capital punishment off the table for Vallow Daybell after the prosecution made “multiple discovery violations” by submitting thousands of documents and pieces of evidence late, which meant the defense was getting new information too close to Vallow Daybell’s jury trial.

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Vallow Daybell ‘homesick’ for heaven, she says

In the first public statement since her arrest, Vallow Daybell addressed the courtroom and claimed that JJ, Tylee and Tammy Daybell “rest safely” in the arms of Jesus Christ. Vallow Daybell said she temporarily died in the hospital when she gave birth to Tylee in 2002, and during that experience she visited heaven.

“Jesus knows me, and Jesus understands me,” Vallow Daybell said during the sentencing. “I mourn with all of you who mourn my children and Tammy. Jesus Christ knows the truth of what happened here, Jesus Christ knows that no one was murdered.”

Chad and Lori Vallow Daybell held extremist beliefs the world was going to end in July 2020, and that they were a part of the 144,000 people who, according to the Book of Revelation, would be saved during the Second Coming of Jesus Christ. The Daybells were members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, and while the church believes Jesus Christ will return to Earth in the future, church leadership hasn’t set a date.

Vallow Daybell said that since 2002 she’s been able to access heaven and the spirit world and able to communicate with Jesus Christ and angels. She claimed that because of those communications, she knows that Tylee, JJ and Tammy Daybell are “happy” and “busy” in the spirit world.

“I have always mourned the loss of my loved ones, and I have lost many in this mortal world,” Vallow Daybell said. “However, I know more than most people. I know where they are now and what they’re doing. I know how wonderful heaven is, and I’m homesick for it every single day.”

Vallow Daybell in February was diagnosed with a delusional disorder that focuses on “bizarre content and hyper religiosity,” Boyce said, along with an unspecified personality disorder. Boyce said Vallow Daybell had so many other options to get what she wanted instead of murder. He said she could have gotten a divorce or asked someone to take care of the children but instead chose “the most evil and destructive path possible.”

“You killed those children — according to the state’s theory, and I believe it — to remove them as obstacles and to profit financially,” Boyce said. “You justified all of this by going down a bizarre religious rabbit hole. And clearly, you are still down there.”

Defense asks for minimum 20 years in prison

John Thomas, one of Vallow Daybell’s attorneys, asked that she be sentenced to at least 20 years but up to life in prison — meaning she could have been eligible for parole in 20 years. He said that giving Vallow Daybell the possibility of parole not only meets the sentencing goals but also gives her an “added bonus” of hope.

“So why would we give the defendant any hope at all?” Thomas asked during the sentencing. “Are we rewarding her? I don’t think so. It’s not about her, giving her hope. It’s for us. It’s for everyone in this courtroom. It’s for everyone watching on the internet. It’s for everyone who’s gonna watch this on television. It’s for everyone who lives and breathes outside the walls of prison.”

Thomas continued: “Her hope will benefit society. In our opinion, if you give her fixed life, you will have essentially thrown her away.”

But the prosecution disagreed.

Madison County Prosecuting Attorney Rob Wood hugs JJ’s grandmother Kay Woodcock in May 2023 after Lori Vallow Daybell was found guilty of the murder of two of her children.
Madison County Prosecuting Attorney Rob Wood hugs JJ’s grandmother Kay Woodcock in May 2023 after Lori Vallow Daybell was found guilty of the murder of two of her children.

“What is the value of a human life?” Wood asked the courtroom. “What is the value of the life of a 16-year-old girl with her life ahead of her? What is the value of a life of a 7-year-old boy with special needs? What is the value of the life of a mother and a grandmother?”

Wood argued that Vallow Daybell didn’t value JJ, Tylee or Tammy Daybell’s lives and asked that she spend the rest of her life in prison without parole. He added that Vallow Daybell’s crimes are so heinous, there is no possibility of rehabilitation, especially because Vallow Daybell lacked remorse or the willingness to accept responsibility.

“If these crimes don’t merit that type of sentence, the state’s unaware of what kind of crimes would,” Wood said.

Vallow Daybell to be extradited to Arizona

Vallow Daybell still faces two felony charges in Arizona for allegedly attempting to kill her niece’s ex-husband and Vallow Daybell’s former husband, Charles Vallow.

The Maricopa County Attorney’s Office plans to extradite Vallow Daybell to Arizona now that she’s been sentenced in Idaho and after she’s transferred to the Idaho Department of Correction. Vallow Daybell is being held at the Madison County Jail in Rexburg.

“The extradition can take from several weeks to several months,” the Maricopa County Attorney’s Office previously said in a statement.

Chad Daybell’s trial date in Boise has been set. He could face the death penalty