'Real love is spread through actions — not just words': boy donates to foster kids

Update on Jan. 19, 2022:

The York County Commissioners have recognized 11-year-old Curvin Coxen for donating approximately 200 book bags, duffel bags and suitcases to help children entering the foster care system.

Vice President Commissioner Doug Hoke read a proclamation during the commissioners meeting on Wednesday that recognizes Coxen for his altruistic acts to help the children and the York County community. Each donation includes a personal note and a funky pair of socks.

Those in attendance applauded.

Clair Doll, executive director of York County Human Services, thanked Curvin for his compassion and kindness to others as well as the boy's family for its support.

"What a great role model for all of us," President Commissioner Julie Wheeler said.

Published July 27, 2020:

Curvin Coxen wanted to help other children going through a hard time and make them feel like they matter.

For his 10th birthday, which he celebrated on Feb. 20, the Berwick Township youth collected a variety of bags — duffel bags, book bags and suitcases — for children entering the foster care system.

When children are removed from their caregivers for safety reasons, they often have a limited time to gather belongings to take with them, said Tanya Stauffer, administrator of the York County Office of Children, Youth, and Families. Often, their possession are tossed into plastic bags.

Curvin Coxen begins to unload gift bags from his mother's SUV in front of York County Office of Children, Youth & Families. The batman bag on top was donated by his best friend.
Curvin Coxen begins to unload gift bags from his mother's SUV in front of York County Office of Children, Youth & Families. The batman bag on top was donated by his best friend.

With the help of his mother, Devon Brogan, he created a Facebook page, Curvin's Bags, and included an Amazon link to his shopping wish list.

In a video on the page, he explained that he learned at church — Christ American Baptist Church in Heidelberg Township — that when you help others, you are helping Jesus. Curvin said he felt like he was being led to help other children who may not be as fortunate as he is.

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Despite the coronavirus pandemic, he reached his goal of collecting 100 bags for children. He and his mother packed them into their vehicle and dropped them off Monday morning in downtown York.

"Real love is spread through actions — not just words," he said during a phone interview.

A letter enclosed in with the gift bag offers encouragement to children moved from their homes.
A letter enclosed in with the gift bag offers encouragement to children moved from their homes.

Each bag contains a note to let the children know that someone cares about them as well as a pair of funky socks — decorated with food, monsters and stuffed animals — to make them laugh. Curvin likes these kind of socks, his mother said.

Mother Devon Brogan, left, helps Curvin Coxen unload gift bags in front of the York County Office of Children, Youth & Families.
Mother Devon Brogan, left, helps Curvin Coxen unload gift bags in front of the York County Office of Children, Youth & Families.

"I couldn't have done it without my mom," he added.

The bags will help children over the next six to nine months, Stauffer said.

"He might not see the impact, but there definitely will be one," she said.

Curvin plans to keep collecting bags to donate them to foster children in other counties as well.

"... kids can make a difference — not just grownups," he said.

Curvin Coxen, left, smiles after his bags fill up an office at York County Office of Children, Youth & Families.
Curvin Coxen, left, smiles after his bags fill up an office at York County Office of Children, Youth & Families.

This article originally appeared on York Daily Record: Local boy collects bags for his birthday, donates them to foster children