Saving what matters most: Dad finds 4-year-old safe in bed amid tornado rubble

The tornado-struck Bowman residence on Concord Road in Owen County, April 4, 2023.
The tornado-struck Bowman residence on Concord Road in Owen County, April 4, 2023.

SPENCER — After the howling winds finally calmed, the hail subsided and the tornado dispersed into the darkness, all Calvin Bowman had left was what he salvaged from the rubble and carried out of his house: His 4-year-old daughter Virginia, wrapped up in a blanket clutched to his chest.

Calvin and his mother were rushing toward his daughter's bedroom so they could seek shelter in the basement when a tornado tore through the house, debris falling and knocking them to the living room floor.

Virginia was beyond reach.

'What happened to our house?'

"It's a blur then of what happened," Calvin recalled. "The power goes out, rain is pouring down and there's hail and it's pitch black and I couldn't tell which way to go when I finally was able to stand up."

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He climbed over broken furniture and chunks of walls to get to Virginia's room, where he had put her safely to bed hours earlier. He called out her name, over and over, afraid she was hurt, maybe unconscious, maybe worse.

But Virginia slept through the storm, and awoke to Calvin's frantic cries. She reached her skinny arms through the rubble toward her 23-year-old dad. He lifted her up and grabbed a blanket.

"I tried to wrap her up and hold her head down so she couldn't see what was going on around us," Calvin said.

Virginia was perplexed. She was crying. "What happened to our house?"

The tornado-struck Bowman residence on Concord Road in Owen County, April 4, 2023
The tornado-struck Bowman residence on Concord Road in Owen County, April 4, 2023

Deadly tornado's path

The house on Concord Road is in Owen County, about a mile due east of the campground at McCormick's Creek State Park, where two people died. The March 31 storm came through just after 11 p.m.

The National Weather Service said the tornado, with winds of 138-mph, originated in the park, then headed east, where it took out the Bowman's house and scattered parked cars and trucks as if they were tiny die-cast toys. Trees twisted, splintered and slammed to the ground.

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From there, the tornado churned northeast another mile or so before crossing the county line and causing devastation along West Wolf Mountain Road in Monroe County, where about a dozen homes were destroyed.

A sudden, shocking scene

Everything seems fine driving along pothole-riddled Concord Road, bushes and trees greening, until you get to the curve at the Litten family cemetery. Going south from there, the tornado damage comes into view.

Tornado damage along Concord Road in Owen County seen on April 4, 2023.
Tornado damage along Concord Road in Owen County seen on April 4, 2023.

The wrath of Mother Nature hit hard.

On the right sits the remains of the Bowmans' house, where Calvin's grandparents moved in 1985. Three generations were living there before the tornado forced them out: Carrie Bowman, her son, Calvin, and granddaughter Virginia.

On the property and across the road are several totaled cars and trucks that had been parked near the house before the wind whisked them away. They landed in the middle of Concord Road.

One of Calvin Bowman's trucks was crushed by the March 31 tornado in Owen County.
One of Calvin Bowman's trucks was crushed by the March 31 tornado in Owen County.

'Are you OK?'

When Kayla Bowman got word her mom's house had been struck by a tornado, she drove to the scene from Spencer. Fallen trees blocked Concord Road and she couldn't get through. She went to her aunt and uncle's nearby house.

Worry and panic ensued. They got a call from Calvin, who had located his cell phone in the debris, still plugged into a charger. "Are you OK? Where are you?" Kayla asked.

Four-year-old Virginia Bowman with her dad, Calvin Bowman, and her aunt, Kayla Bowman, after gymnastics class in Spencer.
Four-year-old Virginia Bowman with her dad, Calvin Bowman, and her aunt, Kayla Bowman, after gymnastics class in Spencer.

"We're here, standing in what's left of the living room," her mom said.

What's left

Four days later, blue sky and the sun overhead, the destruction was shocking. Rain-sodden remnants of the Bowmans' lives were scattered in the muddy yard and fields beyond.

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A bottle of blue acrylic craft paint, broken mirror shards, a black AMF Strikeline bowling ball. A crockpot lid, a maple wood chair spindle, a child's riding toy. One brown leather Caterpillar work boot, size 9. A wine glass missing its stem.

A work boot found in the aftermath of a March 31, 2023, tornado in Owen County.
A work boot found in the aftermath of a March 31, 2023, tornado in Owen County.
A wine glass embedded in the ground after the March 31 tornado in Owen County.
A wine glass embedded in the ground after the March 31 tornado in Owen County.

Someone found Calvin's green-stone Owen Valley High School class ring in the cornfield across the road. He's wearing it.

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Leaving the house that night, his cell phone flashlight illuminated a Micky Mouse doll Calvin's cousin had crocheted for Virginia. He picked it up. "I was happy to see it," he said.

The woman died, and the toy was special. The next day, amid the items strewn around the property, someone found the Minnie Mouse that goes with it.

A worker erecting utility poles handed Calvin a postage-sized photo of a child he'd found in the mud. It was his niece's kindergarten picture, which has been on the Bowmans' refrigerator for a decade.

Lucky?

The Bowmans are staying with family members for now, awaiting word about insurance and deciding how to proceed from here.

Calvin was ready to return to work at the Sav-A-Lot grocery in Spencer, where's he's the meat manager. But on his way in Tuesday morning, he got rear-ended while stopped behind a school bus picking up a student.

He was driving a borrowed car since his car, Jeep SUV and two old pickups were destroyed in the storm, as was his mom's Toyota SUV. Their home and auto insurance doesn't cover the cost to repair or replace the vehicles.

Kayla Bowman doesn't see her brother as a victim of bad luck. He's blessed, she said, even lucky, despite losing almost everything. Three generations walked unharmed out of a disaster.

Calvin waited for Virginia Wednesday after her tumbling class at Cathleen's Gymnastics in downtown Spencer. This is what you do when hard times strike. Look forward, find a ride and take your kid to gymnastics.

Wearing a fuchsia leotard with ruffles, Virginia twirled out the front door, a plastic Easter egg filled with chocolates in each hand.

Four-year-old Virginia Bowman and her dad survived the March 31 tornado that destroyed their Owen County house.
Four-year-old Virginia Bowman and her dad survived the March 31 tornado that destroyed their Owen County house.

She jumped into her dad's arms and kissed his cheek, like always.

Contact H-T reporter Laura Lane at llane@heraldt.com or 812-318-5967.

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