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- Man charged for Circuit Road murder
- Presidential Candidates Getting in a New York State of Mind Ahead of Next Primary
- Rogers Park nuns march for peace after man fatally shot in front of monastery
- Skimming devices found on Bank of America ATMs in Wicker Park, Bucktown
- Official: Sixers GM Sam Hinkie steps down
- Iceland government appoints new PM, to call early elections
- 6 Amazing Facts About the Human Eye
- Fiji under curfew, assessing damage from second cyclone in weeks
- 7 On Your Side: Technology could help solve San Francisco parking woes
- Facebook expands live video, challenging TV and web rivals
- Country music star Merle Haggard dead at 79
- Fists fly over parking spot at the Houston Zoo
- Vietnam gets new PM with tough task and big shoes to fill
- Samsung Electronics set for first quarter profit jump, but some call an earnings peak
- Panama will form commission to review financial practices
- Restored marquee returns to Wrigley Field for Opening Day
- Students on edge after body found on UT-Austin campus
- 某日跟幾個大學時認識但畢業後沒太多聯絡的人出去吃了一頓飯,大學時已頗為自大的Z先生也出現了。 Z先生現在是一位所謂的「專業人士」,月入5萬,已有車有樓在手,自認為是所有港女看到都會發青光的「藍籌」、「筍盤」。因此說話時口氣大得很,當年讀書時那是頗為自大,現在就簡直是無限自大。 不過Z先生這等「人才」,卻並無女友。他說 :「唔係話我話呀,識親啲女,個個一嚟就係問你做咩嘅,勁港女!」 我聽過不少的男性都說過類似的話。 然而我卻很想問問他們:「你識一個女仔嘅時候唔會問佢做咩㗎咩?」我實在覺得很難懂。剛認識一個人,問對方做甚麼工作,這不是個很普通很正常很合理的問題嗎?這有多港女?別說男女約會了,你認識任何一個人時,不論男女,不都是會在頭幾個問題便問及人家做何職業的嗎? 問人做甚麼職業,只是一個很基本的社交問題,用來打開話題,讓彼此可以講講自己平時生活大概如何而已。在我看來,這叫做「疑心生港女」,是自大及自卑的男性獨有的一種妄想症。問者無心但聽者有意。自大的男人因為自己覺得自己的職業很了不起,因此假定了所有女性問他的職業都必定在心中有很多盤算,必定會因他的職業而對他另眼相看。而這同時又是一種自卑。因為這代表著他們心底裡覺得自己的魅力只來自自己的工作,異性只看上他的職業,除此之外就沒甚麼是會被異性看上的了。所以他們把自己的職業無限放大,小題大做,一副煞有介事的模樣。 另一種是直接的自卑,出現在自己對於自己的職業自卑的男性身上。他們覺得自己的職業不夠好,因此當異性只是很普通地問問他們工作為何時,他們便作出一連串自卑式幻想。覺得所有女人都看不起他的職業,其實只是因為他自己看不起自己的職業。新相識,不問你做何工作,又可以問甚麼?到底要多小心多避忌的問題才不算港女?只是問一句「你做甚麼工作?」一個如此隨便及平常的問題,都要被刻意扭曲解讀,被冠上「港女」的罪名,真是欲加之罪,何患無辭呀。港姐: www.facebook.com/hellomisskong Image from: www.meetic.fr
- 港姐:問你做甚麼工作,這很港女麼?
- Sam Hinkie steps down as 76ers' GM, head of basketball operations
- Earthquake of 7 magnitude strikes northwest of Vanuatu - USGS
- Chicago's top cop honors 6-year-old girl's dying wish
- Atlantic City temporarily averts City Hall shutdown
- Bernie Sanders speaks with 6abc Action News
- 旅遊快訊|日本|京都鐵道博物館將於4月29日開幕!
- Exclusive: China's Apex Technology in bid to buy Lexmark - sources
- What to Know About the Legalities of Wooing Delegates in a Contested Republican Convention
- WWII Veteran to Wed Wartime Sweetheart 72 Years After He Called Off Their First Engagement
- Police investigating Upper Darby homicide
- 76ers president/general manager Sam Hinkie quits
- 6 injured in in crash on I-295 in Logan Twp., N.J.
- LISTEN: President Obama calls to congratulate Jay Wright
- Caught on camera: Suspect punches SEPTA trolley operator
- 布丁狗、20周年記念商品加上了“皇冠&領結”
- Frost damage to crops leaves bitter taste in farmers' mouths
- Texas school officer put on leave after slamming girl to ground: media
- New Details Emerge on Former Prep Student Owen Labrie's Life in Jail as He Requests New Trial
- First lot of Ford Mustangs spotted in India
- Turkish warplanes hit Kurdish militant targets in Iraq - Anadolu
- China asking for terror suspects list ahead of G20 summit
- Trump Campaign Launching Regular Capitol Hill Meetings Next Week
- Texas executes man who killed boy and drank his blood
- Suit that mimics life at age 85 has no creases, just creaks
- Scientists seek crowdfunding to test 'chemical castration' of paedophiles
- Analyse zur Flüchtlingskrise: Grenzschließungen lassen Schleusergeschäft boomen
- Stereosonic Festival to take a break, shredders mourn
- 當7位清純女演員換上日雜風費洛蒙妝...?你從未見過的性感模樣魅力大爆棚
- Azerbaijan says Nagorno-Karabakh ceasefire broken 119 times in 24 hours
- Ted Cruz Stands by 'New York Values' Remarks
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