How Stanley Wilson Jr. Went From NFL Player to Dead in a Psych Ward

Stanley Wilson Jr. was what his coaches at Stanford University called a “glue guy.”

Wilson, a talented cornerback who went on to play for the Detroit Lions before an injury cut short his career, brought a true sense of cohesion to the team, according to A.J. Christoff, who coached Wilson in college in the early aughts.

“He was never a separate entity,” Christoff, a former defensive coordinator and secondary coach for the Stanford Cardinal, told The Daily Beast. “He was always a team player. And the players that were in the defensive backfield [with him] were very fond of him.”

One of those players, fellow cornerback Leigh Torrence, roomed with Wilson at Stanford from the beginning.

Torrence, who later played eight seasons in the NFL and was a member of the 2009 New Orleans Saints team that won Super Bowl XLIV, said he and Wilson developed an immediate connection upon meeting at football camp. Wilson was “just a great guy,” Torrence said, recalling his friend’s “huge smile” and “infectious laughter.” He brightened up every room and every situation, Torrence continued, describing Wilson as a “special” person who was universally beloved. When he wasn’t watching and rewatching one of his favorite Martin Lawrence movies, all of which he had on an extensive collection of VHS tapes, the urban studies major mentored young people at an after-school center in Palo Alto.

But Wilson’s life would eventually careen wildly off the tracks, with mental illness exacting a tragic toll on a young man whose potential once appeared unlimited. A string of arrests followed, with Wilson, who earned nearly $1 million in 2008, ultimately drowning in the depths of the criminal justice system.

On Feb. 1, at the age of 40, the one-time gridiron prodigy suddenly collapsed and died during a transfer from the Los Angeles county jail to a state-run psychiatric hospital, following his being declared incompetent to stand trial over an August 2022 burglary charge.

No cause of death has yet been made public.

“In hindsight, it’s one of those things that just kind of breaks your heart even more because you know behind that smile was a lot of pain,” Torrence told The Daily Beast.

“I think his story is one that is kind of a tale of the time that we grew up in,” he said on Thursday. “Mental-health awareness was not as big of an issue… He had a passion for life and he was always a hopeful and optimistic person. It definitely feels like he deserved better.”

Football—and tragedy—run in the Wilson family.

Wilson’s dad, Stanley Wilson Sr., was a standout running back at Banning High School in the Wilmington section of Los Angeles. He was named Los Angeles City Section Player of the Year in 1978 and 1979, then continued on to the University of Oklahoma, where he rushed for a total of 3,068 yards and 14 touchdowns.

In November 1982, Wilson Jr. was born. Six months later, Wilson Sr. was selected in the ninth round of the 1983 NFL draft by the Cincinnati Bengals. In his first season, Wilson Sr. ran for 267 yards on 56 carries.

Still, Wilson Sr.’s inaugural year proved tumultuous. The Bengals sent him to three different detox centers for cocaine dependency as a rookie, and they hoped the treatment would stick. But he relapsed in August 1984, and failed a urinalysis that October. That earned him an indefinite suspension by the league, which forced him to sit out the entire 1985 season.

Wilson Sr. was reinstated in 1986 upon successfully completing a strict rehab program and sticking to a rigorous conditioning regimen. He reportedly insisted on submitting drug tests even when it wasn’t required, just to prove he was clean. That season, Wilson Sr. gained 379 yards and scored 8 touchdowns. But in spite of his efforts, Wilson Sr. was once again suspended for cocaine use, and could not play at all in the 1987 season.

After spending a year working as a census taker and a security guard, Wilson Sr. was reinstated by the league in 1988, rushing for 398 yards on 112 carries and scoring two TDs. He helped propel the Bengals to victory over the Buffalo Bills in that year’s AFC championship game, setting up a showdown against the San Francisco 49ers in Super Bowl XXIII.

And that’s when things went really wrong.

Wilson Jr., who was then 5 years old and living with his grandparents in L.A., traveled with them to Miami to see his father play in the big game. Wilson Sr. tested clean on Friday, Jan. 20, 1989, clearing the way for him to take the field on Sunday. But it was not to be.

When Wilson Sr., whom the Bengals intentionally put in a separate hotel from the rest of his teammates, missed a team meeting Saturday night, members of the coaching staff went looking for him. They found Wilson Sr. locked in a bathroom at a local Holiday Inn, taking a shower with his clothes on.

The Bengals lost the game, 20-16. Coach Sam Wyche later wondered if things might have been different had Wilson Sr. been there.

“I wish we’d had Stanley Wilson,” he said in 2013. “…I think he’d have had a big day rushing the ball, but we’ll never know.”

A white powdery substance in a plastic bag that Wilson had in his pocket later tested positive for cocaine. Wilson was subsequently banned from the NFL for life, went back to rehab, and threatened to sell his story to Penthouse magazine, vowing to expose five other Bengals he claimed had smoked crack with him that night.

Years later, Wilson Jr. would recount his memory of the episode to Rick Gosselin of the Dallas Morning News.

“I remember being in the hotel,” he said. “My grandparents told me my father had gotten in trouble, and they asked me if I still wanted to go to the game. I didn’t understand what was going on, and I told them I did. We went, and it was awkward. It was surreal. I remember like it was played yesterday. I remember being there. But I didn’t know what happened until about a year later, and he wasn’t there anymore. It is what it is.”

Wilson Sr.’s life soon spiraled further out of control. There were arrests for fighting with police, possession of drug paraphernalia, and purse snatching. In December 1990, cops picked up Wilson Sr. in a Long Beach, California, crack house and booked him on an unrelated burglary charge. After getting out of jail, Wilson Sr. continued to decline. In 1999, he was hit with a 22-year prison sentence for stealing more than $100,000 worth of jewelry and camera equipment from a home in Beverly Hills.

Prosecutors asked for a 25-years-to-life term under the state’s “three strikes law,” but the judge declined, citing Wilson Sr.’s mental health—his lawyer argued in court that his client suffered from bipolar disorder—as a mitigating factor.

Still, Wilson Sr. managed to remain a part of his son’s life while he was incarcerated. The two kept in close touch during the older man’s prison stint, according to Leigh Torrence, who said Wilson Jr., who started at Stanford in 2000, “was open about his struggles.”

“They were in contact, so he talked to his dad a lot and very much valued his dad and his opinion,” Torrence told The Daily Beast. “We kind of had, I guess, an admiration for all the things that Stan had overcome in his life. And the way he had done it was just so remarkable. You knew what he had gone through, but you would never have thought it. He didn’t show it.”

Christoff, Wilson Jr.’s former coach, also said his former player’s troubles didn’t appear to hamper him in any way. When he joined the team in 2001 after redshirting his first year, Wilson Sr. was just two years into what would ultimately be a 17-year prison term.

“We were aware of what had happened [with his father] and tried to be as supportive as we could, but I don’t think it was anything that ever affected Stanley from playing, or from a student standpoint,” Christoff said. “That I knew of, anyway. I mean, he would pick up all the coverage and plays very quickly. He was very bright.”

After four successful seasons at Stanford, the Detroit Lions picked Wilson in the third round of the 2005 NFL draft.

But his pro career was lackluster, lasting just two years. Wilson played 32 games, chalking up 63 solo tackles and deflecting eight passes. In October 2007, Wilson injured his knee and was forced to sit out the rest of the season.

The next spring, the Lions signed Wilson to a one-year deal. In August, he tore his Achilles tendon during an exhibition game, which ended his career.

That’s when Wilson went in a completely different direction, enrolling in the nursing program at New York City’s Hunter College.

“After football ended with Stan, he really threw his efforts into starting a new career in health care,” Torrence said, noting that Wilson had dreamt of becoming an anesthesiologist. “He had transitioned into that, which was something that just kind of fit him and who he was. It really just made a lot of sense that he would look to be helping others.”

Wilson graduated in May 2014, posting a smiling photograph of himself in cap and gown.

“The day finally came,” he wrote. “I graduated from nursing school. Thank you to all my family and friends that have supported me. Also thank you to those who unknowingly and inadvertently provided me with the motivation to keep going. #blessed to #finally #graduate. The true definition of #hereiSTAN #RN #nursing #huntercollege.”

Roughly two years later, Wilson’s path took yet another turn and began to mirror his father’s.

In June 2016, Wilson was shot in the abdomen by an elderly Portland homeowner who caught him trying to break into his house through a window, naked. When cops arrived, they found Wilson in a fountain in the backyard, and arrested him on charges of first-degree burglary and first-degree trespassing. Wilson had no prior criminal history, and his injuries were non-life-threatening.

In court, it emerged that Wilson was battling a drug problem, which reportedly included methamphetamine use. He pleaded no contest rather than copping a guilty plea because he “was not quite there” mentally at the time of the offense, according to prosecutors.

Hours before he was shot, Wilson that same day had broken into another home in Portland, where he fixed himself a drink and stole a book before the residents got back, according to police.

In January 2017, while charges were pending in the June 2016 case, cops again busted a naked Wilson outside another Portlander’s home. He had been “running around” in the homeowner’s yard, and seemed to be under the influence of drugs, authorities said at the time.

But roughly a week after being sentenced to three years’ probation for the initial break-in attempt, Wilson was back in handcuffs for another nude burglary attempt. He was charged with second-degree burglary, a Class C felony carrying up to five years in prison and a $125,000 fine.

Luckily for Wilson, the homeowner in that case agreed to a civil compromise: $10,000 in restitution and no jail time for Wilson, according to court records obtained by The Daily Beast.

But Wilson would soon find himself back in trouble. A little more than a year later, Wilson was arrested again—this time, for attempting to steal a car from a Portland Mercedes-Benz dealership.

From there, Wilson’s final descent was even swifter.

In August 2022, Wilson made headlines for yet another home invasion. This time, he twice let himself into a $30 million home in the Hollywood Hills, reportedly causing $5,000 worth of damage to the place. When officers arrived, they found Wilson taking a bath in an outdoor fountain, using soap he had pilfered from inside, according to reports. Wilson was charged with two felony counts of vandalism and one count of second-degree burglary.

Six months later, he would be dead.

After Wilson was booked into the L.A. County jail for the Hollywood Hills incident, a judge found him incompetent to stand trial.

This made sense to Torrence, who said Wilson’s arrests “seemed more a result of mental health than any criminality.”

It’s obvious that Wilson was often disoriented, either from untreated mental illness, drugs, or both. During one of his naked burglary and trespassing sprees in Portland, another homeowner encountered Wilson on her property in the hours before he was shot.

“He said, ‘Do you need anything?’” the woman told The Oregonian. “I said, ‘No, what are you doing in my garage?’ And then he said, ‘Isn’t this where I’m supposed to be?’ I said, ‘No.’”

At the same time, Torrence said there was no indication throughout their years together at Stanford, or later in the NFL, that Wilson was suffering psychologically. And there was no evidence of drug use while Wilson was at Stanford, either.

“The mental health stuff came some years after football,” Torrence said.

Although details remain scant, what is known about Wilson’s sudden death paints a stark picture of a life in freefall.

According to law enforcement sources cited by TMZ Sports, Wilson was being transferred Feb. 1 from the L.A. jail to the Metropolitan State Hospital, about 15 miles away. The state-run facility is organized into five sections, which includes a unit that serves the so-called PC 1370 population. “Within the larger framework of recovery and wellness,” Metropolitan State says of these defendants unable to be prosecuted due to mental illness, “an important treatment goal is the restoration of competency and return to court to stand trial.”

While Wilson was being admitted, he reportedly collapsed and died. Authorities said there was no foul play. However, John Carpenter, a Los Angeles-based attorney hired by Wilson Sr. and his current wife, said the family has its doubts about the official line.

“We are conducting a secondary autopsy, and so I’m holding back on commenting until we get confirmation on what our suspicions are,” Carpenter told The Daily Beast. “Early reports said ‘no suspicion of foul play.’ That is not the camp that we’re in.”

Carpenter, Torrence, and Christoff all said they didn’t have enough information to know if Chronic Traumatic Encephalopathy (CTE), a degenerative brain condition that can occur after repeated blows to the head, was a factor in Wilson’s mental decline.

Wilson Jr.’s mother, through her husband, declined to comment.

Wilson Sr. was released from prison in 2016, spending more than a decade-and-a-half behind bars. He now lives in Wisconsin with his wife, whom he married shortly before going away, and their two children—one of whom majored in emergency management at North Dakota State University, where he also played running back.

Today, most major college athletic programs have put a spotlight on mental health.

“The health and wellbeing of our players has always been one of our top priorities at the University of Alabama,” Crimson Tide head coach Nick Saban said last year. “[O]ur goal is to positively affect the way mental health is viewed and treated in college athletics. Our hope is that every institution will join us in working to provide the best mental care for all student-athletes.”

In Wilson Jr.’s day, there was no mechanism in place that might have served as an early detection system, of sorts.

“Knowing his background, knowing the things that athletes deal with, the support you need is definitely something I think we’ve gotten better at,” Torrence told The Daily Beast. “I feel like the [era] just failed him, at not addressing some of the things [he might have needed]. For his life to have ended so abruptly was just heartbreaking.”

“We had him around all the time, so I guess we almost didn’t even realize how special he was to our college experience.”

For Christoff, Wilson’s death is a grim reminder of what could have been.

“It’s interesting—I didn’t get him, but I [also] recruited his dad,” he reminisced. “I had so many players that have just ended up in tragedy. There’s no reason for it.”

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