Swiped Right on an Aquarius? Here’s What That Relationship Will Look Like
If you’re crushing on or dating someone new, there’s one thing you gotta find out: their b-day. No, not so you can bake them a cake, buy them a gift, or send them a “HBD” text—so you can get all the deets on their Sun sign, of course. And if your current cutie was born January 20 to February 18, congrats, they’re an Aquarius.
Yeah, if you’re dating or DMing or Insta-stalking crushing on an Aquarius, join the club! Celeb Aquarians include Harry Styles, Michael B. Jordan, Shakira, and Stephanie Beatriz, if you need proof of how alluring these babes are. These quirky, independent water bearers are just so magnetic. But before you splurge on a bouquet of red roses, you should know that they’re not down for Hallmark-movie-level romance—they’re an Aquarius, not a Pisces! Enigmatic Aquas can be mysterious and hard to understand (like, did you know that despite their name, they’re air signs, not water signs?), but lucky you, we’ve got the key to understanding these “aliens.” (Think of us as Amy Adams in Arrival.)
So wanna know if y’all are ~compatible~? Keep reading, bb! We’ve got you covered with the tea on what they want, how they act, and who they’re destined to be with.
So what’s an Aquarius looking for in a relationship?
Symbolized by the water bearer (the celestial humanitarian who bestows life upon the land), Aquarians are the rebels of the zodiac. Progressive, innovative, and *shamelessly* quirky, this air sign is attracted to fellow revolutionaries. Aquarians are attracted to people who aren’t afraid to stand up for their convictions and fight for their values. Likewise, this sign is often drawn to unconventional people who break the “rules.” You see, Aquarians are always thinking big-picture: For these water bearers, partnership isn’t just about an interpersonal dynamic—it’s a societal statement. Aquarius hates being labeled and categorized, so this sign is seeking a partnership that is truly out of this world.
How do they behave in a relationship?
Because Aquarius’s taste is so ~unique~, romance for this air sign often looks a lot like friendship. It’s not that Aquarius isn’t smitten—it’s simply that Aquarius would rather be out at a protest than toasting champagne at a candlelit dinner. So rather than anticipate a traditional dinner-and-a-movie date, note that your air-sign boo will express their affection through…er…different ways (such as RSVPing to a robot-making workshop or tickets to a Renaissance fair).
Above all else, Aquarians value their independence. Alone time is absolutely essential for this sign and they will def revolt if they don’t have enough space. Remember that space and loyalty are not mutually exclusive: Aquarians are deeply committed to their values. So just because it takes Aquarius a *wee* bit longer to respond to your text doesn’t mean they don’t care. Keep your cool and let them come to you.
What are their biggest turn-ons and turn-offs?
If your style is one part corporate, one part goth, and one part festival chic…well, that’s exactly what Aquarius has been looking for. Aquarians are drawn to edgy, progressive people, so this means asymmetrical haircuts, mismatched socks, and (BPA-free) plastic trench coats are total turn-ons. Yeah, they’re alt, okay??? Aquarians love anything that challenges the norm, so don’t be afraid to bust out your most cutting-edge ensemble or call something “so mainstream.” Nothing makes Aquarius hotter than their partner’s individuality!
But if you need validation for that leopard-print wig, that’s a different story altogether. There’s nothing Aquarius hates more than people-pleasers, which also applies within the relationship. Don’t text your Aquarius boo 20 times asking if they’re okay, and definitely don’t pretend to be someone you’re not just to get their attention. Aquarius wants to be in a relationship that’s cool, calm, collected and—perhaps most important—confident!
Their best (and—eep!—worst) matches?
Aquarius loves the fearless autonomy of the fire signs (Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius). These bold signs aren’t afraid to fight for what they want, which perfectly complements Aquarius’s own steadfast convictions. Fellow fixed signs Taurus and Scorpio, however, can be a bit problematic for Aquarius—like Aqua, they’re known to be stubborn, and too much obstinance can lead to dead ends. Aquarius feels an intellectual connection to fellow air signs Gemini and Libra—they just *get* each other, y’know?
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