Why You Need to Teach Your Kids the Meaning of Memorial Day

Claire Gillespie

Kids and adults alike love Memorial Day weekend (and for good reason: barbecues, lawn games, beach trips, oh my!), but it’s high time we taught our kids the meaning of meaning of Memorial Day — a.k.a. that it’s more than just a three-day weekend of family shenanigans. Sure, it can seem like all fun and games (who doesn’t love a Monday off school and work?), but it’s actually the most solemn holiday on the U.S. calendar: For over 150 years, Memorial Day has been dedicated to paying respect to all the men and women who died during their service to the U.S. military.

Memorial Day actually began as Decoration Day back in 1868, when the graves of Civil War soldiers were decorated with flags and flowers. It was renamed Memorial Day in 1967, and in 1968, the last Monday in May was officially declared a U.S. holiday, turning the day into a celebratory three-day weekend before summer begins.

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If you have a friend or relative who died during military service, that’s the perfect place to start teaching your kids what Memorial Day weekend is really about. Put the barbecue on hold, visit their grave, and talk about their place in the family, where they fought and how they died. If you don’t have a deceased friend or relative who was in the military, you can still help decorate the graves of soldiers at your local cemetery with flags and wreaths.

Most U.S. cities host commemorative exhibitions, events and concerts at museums and concert venues. Why not check your local listings for details and try to slot a couple of special events into your weekend?

If you fancy taking your Memorial Day tribute on the road (or in the air), consider some of these famous memorial destination spots:

  • Pearl Harbor, the World War II naval base on the island of Oahu, Hawaii
  • Gettysburg National Military Park in Gettysburg, Pennsylvania, the scene of the Civil War’s bloodiest battle
  • National World War II Museum in New Orleans, which tells the story of the American experience in “the war that changed the world”
  • The Liberty Bell, a famous symbol of American independence in Independence National Historical Park in Pennsylvania
  • National Mall in Washington, D.C., home to the Lincoln Memorial, the Washington Monument, the Constitution Gardens and the U.S. Capitol Building
  • Arlington National Cemetery in Arlington, Virginia, which served as a Union Army burial site during the Civil War

If your town doesn’t host a Memorial Day parade, you won’t have to travel far to find one that does. And sure, on the surface, it’s about costumes, music and fun, but by explaining to your kids what the parade represents, you can combine activity with appreciation.

But a meaningful Memorial Day doesn’t have to involve battling the crowds. You can engage your kids at home with fun, patriotic Memorial Day crafts and activities — and use this opportunity to chat about Memorial Day and what it stands for. Make ice pop flags or decorate a cake in red, white and blue (strawberries, whipped cream and blueberries if you don’t want to go too frosting-happy).

Many families find it difficult to associate Memorial Day with fun activities. They may have relatives marching in parades who could soon be deployed in war zones in Iraq, Syria, Afghanistan or other dangerous places that don’t often make the headlines, like Niger and Somalia.

Plus, President Trump approved a $700 billion defense budget for 2019 — what his administration has called the largest military budget in U.S. history. Whether you agree with that decision or not, you can use the current political climate as a jumping-off point for conversation and debate with your kids if you think they’re mature enough.

But remember: Memorial Day isn’t about what’s going on right now or what might happen in the future. It’s about the 1.1 million American men and women who have been killed in all U.S. wars. However you spend the holiday (and there’s nothing wrong with enjoying three days to relax at home with your family, because those moments are precious), take some time to think about those who sacrificed their lives.

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